I need your sincere advice dear nairalanders. I do not love my gf anymore and cant even pretend to love her any longer,we have been dating for two years. Honestly i used to love her but mid way the love vanished,i just dont know what happened to me. Ok heres my problem,am scared of my girlfriend,i mean shes cool and all that but right from time she has told me repeatedly that if i ever leave her that shes going to kill me,though she says it jokingly and also when we hear about breakup stories. And i've been having this premonition that she would hurt me,this strange feeling that someway she could kill me. Am scared shitless here,plz i need your advice on how to break things up peacefully and protect myself.

FTC!!! will advice u reactivate your love for her. Quiting won't be a good option since FAILBUHARI 14 is around the corner. Stick with her and let's make GEJ our VAL.

2nd TC Rotr... u bad oo

"Bae, its over ....
very easy

iceberylin:
"Bae, its over ....
very easy

E tire me o. The guy had the 'liver' to toast but he doesn't have the guts to break up

You are afraid to call it quit, you baffle me.
Well next time don't start what you can't end at ease.

StPete:


E tire me o. The guy had the 'liver' to toast but he doesn't have the guts to break up

you just dont understand,i pray you dont find yourself in such a precarious situation.

tell her you are HIV positive. that would do

frankymiller:

you just dont understand,i pray you dont find yourself in such a precarious situation.

It's simple, stop picking her calls, give her excuses not to meet, ignore her msgs, with time she would get the drift

diddydiva:
tell her you are HIV positive. that would do

She will kill him for giving her HIV

when u were wooing her, u no fear oh, now to break UP dey fear u.......... bross ifa go hear this .......... sango will bring justice

. Make she shoot op abi.

iceberylin:
"Bae, its over ....
very easy

Tallesty1:
She will kill him for giving her HIV

he won't tell her one on one. just place a fake result test where she can see it. advise her to go for a test too in a letter

remember not to be around the vicinity for a week or two

StPete:


It's simple, stop picking her calls, give her excuses not to meet, ignore her msgs, with time she would get the drift

I wish it was that easy,we live in the same apartment complex.

Tobilastik:
2nd TC Rotr... u bad oo

I'm a shareholder on space booking na.....

diddydiva:

he won't tell her one on one. just place a fake result test where she can see it. advise her to go for a test too in a letter

remember not to be around the vicinity for a week or two

Thank God You Are A Lady.


Girls for hear am if 2 say u b guy.

ArchEnemy:
. Make she shoot op abi.

Na waitn fit am

diddydiva:
tell her you are HIV positive. that would do

Wow very smart advice from you...If i have hiv that means she too has it,so me leaving her now will be definitely a death sentence,besides we go for test every 4 months,so thats out of the question.

frankymiller:

I wish it was that easy,we live in the same apartment complex.

Sorry bro, I guess you're a married man already. I've exhausted my ideas

Tallesty1:
Thank God You Are A Lady.


Girls for hear am if 2 say u b guy.

lolzzzzzzz am not bad joor

StPete:


Sorry bro, I guess you're a married man already. I've exhausted my ideas

We aint married,her flat is in the top floor of my building yle mine is the second floor,we basically stay together but still keep our apartments. I have never hinted marriage but she talks about 10 years from now,kids etc but not directly marriage,i know this girl,she could poison us if she even had a hint i was thinking of breaking up,i cant concentrate at work,even when am driving,this is a big clog in my chest.

frankymiller:

We aint married,her flat is in the top floor of my building yle mine is the second floor,we basically stay together but still keep our apartments. I have never hinted marriage but she talks about 10 years from now,kids etc but not directly marriage,i know this girl,she could poison us if she even had a hint i was thinking of breaking up,i cant concentrate at work,even when am driving,this is a big clog in my chest.

OMG you are in a dilemma, just be smart, diplomatic and think things through so you are clear with yourself on why you want to break up with her. Perhaps you should wait after val-day if you don't have a loved one already.

You know who you are with and how extreme she can get if you break up with her. so I suggest you withdraw slowly, let her be the one to break up with you due to your attitude towards her. Obviously she will know you are no longer interested.

play it well so she be the one to breakup..... my candid advice to save you life

sweetbaby22:


OMG you are in a dilemma, just be smart, diplomatic and think things through so you are clear with yourself on why you want to break up with her. Perhaps you should wait after val-day if you don't have a loved one already.

You know who you are with and how extreme she can get if you break up with her. so I suggest you withdraw slowly, let her be the one to break up with you due to your attitude towards her. Obviously she will know you are no longer interested.

play it well so she be the one to breakup..... my candid advice to save you life

best advice i have received yet. Thank you. Maybe i will try this out,and no i do not have a lover yet,cant complicate my life any further.

All these guys booking space should have a change of mind this is a new year.

@op, what do you mean by the love you had for her just vanished? You want to run now because the kpomo don tire u 2 chop abi? You want to use dat flimsy excuse of her being overprotective to justify ur next move and that is completely wrong. If you truly want to leave her then u must have a genuine reason to do so cos 2 years aint a joke.

Her statement only shows how much she value u and would want to continue with u. I don't think she's violent or dangerous otherwise u would have known by now.

I strongly suggest dat u move into another house cos living in d same house wit her may be one of d reasons u feel this way. Have ur own personal space, focus on ur work, limit ur meetings with her but keep in touch, and just try to love her again. If ur heart is still away 4rm her then find a way to let her know wat is going on. That way, she'll appreciate ur honesty and understand but if she doesn't then u jst have to leave d rest of ur lyf constantly watching ur back.

Guy, u are too wicked, after two years, it's now u no u are scared, wen u Don chop all watin u suppose chop after marriage, if nah me b d girl I go tie u down wit juju..., supposed u are married nkan, shay u go divorce her because of foolish excuses. Guy if u leave dat girl, Thunder go kill u. Gbam.

jsunex:
Guy, u are too wicked, after two years, it's now u no u are scared, wen u Don chop all watin u suppose chop after marriage, if nah me b d girl I go tie u down wit juju..., supposed u are married nkan, shay u go divorce her because of foolish excuses. Guy if u leave dat girl, Thunder go kill u. Gbam.

Haba thats harsh na,people fall in and out of love,its not really their fault.

Grow some balls man. YOLO

fabiano09:

Haba thats harsh na,people fall in and out of love,its not really their fault.

Not their fault ab. Okay oo