I met this girl in one of the groups on Nairaland, we were chatting normally until recently when we met officially at a friends get together party and since then I have develop this kind of feeling for this girl that I cannot explain......the funniest thing is that she is not the most beautiful girl that have ever seen neither is she the most intelligent girl have ever seen but I just can't take my mind off her.

Fortunately for me,she works very close to my office and on many occasion have tried inviting her over for lunch or something. she does agree for us to meet but at the end, it has been excuse or the other. Attimes I will call her but she wouldn't pick, yet she will not give me call and if I talk about it its another round of excuses that she didn't see the missed call(s) or her phone has problem and that she is very sorry about it.

Honestly speaking I am getting tired and confuse on what exactly to do. I feel she knows how I "feel" about her and also my reason for wanting for host her for lunch. Please what should I do? is this another sign of playing too hard to get? or does it mean that I should stay clear cos she is not interested or what?

Her birthday is in two days time too.@ Mazi,Onilary, zubby, Nobody, and Others

Maybe she felt it was a mild friendship but you started taking it too seriously.
Give her some space Bro and watch her reaction

u don overdo,chill small,like my bros above said, give her some space...

Send de man of God her number she needs deliverance

You r walking into the friend zone bro

yemicoal:
You r walking into the friend zone bro

aka no reward zone

How presentable are you?

Get rid of that long tie and Jehovah-witness-face when speaking to her. If you know what I mean. Buena suerte.

ArchEnemy:
Maybe she felt it was a mild friendship but you started taking it too seriously.
Give her some space Bro and watch her reaction

Thank you boss...I really appreciate....
What of her birthday DAT is coming up soon? any suggestion on that?

ArchEnemy:
Maybe she felt it was a mild friendship but you started taking it too seriously.
Give her some space Bro and watch her reaction

No be me bros....the whole tin still dey baffle me sef....Thanks all the same

Op sing with me

No friend zone !

Try your luck highest she'l turn you down

bros take it or leave it, u are already deep in the friendzone and I doubt with this your attitude u can escape it

tzoracle:
Op sing with me

No friend zone !

Try your luck highest she'l turn you down

Bros...I am singing with you ....No friend Zone!!! and As for trying my luck...I feel its not proper saying it over the phone or with text message......
I don try to make us see...its always one excuse or the other with strong apology.... na wetin man go do? and her office is not far from mine...
I tink I will just let her b for now!!! Thank you all the same.

Akinife:

Bros...I am singing with you ....No friend Zone!!! and As for trying my luck...I feel its not proper saying it over the phone or with text message......
I don try to make us see...its always one excuse or the other with strong apology.... na wetin man go do? and her office is not far from mine...
I tink I will just let her b for now!!! Thank you all the same.

You can find out where she has her lunch,and offer to treat her

Akinife:


Thank you boss...I really appreciate....
What of her birthday DAT is coming up soon? any suggestion on that?

wish her a happy birthday, maybe send a card. But dont over do

wen ladies put up such attitude just no dat she is not interested u

u've done the normal thing u should do. that is showing her some interest. it's time to test if she wants to be with u or not. stop showing the interest. stop calling. stop talking to her. don't even send a message. if she really likes u she will call or send a message or ask u thru any means y u have stopped calling her. if she doesn't like u, of course she will notice that u no longer call n she will not bother finding out y but will appreciate the fact that u r off her case. DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT see her upcoming birthday as an opportunity to show her u mean business. girls have evolved n a girl will rather try to find out y a guy who claims to like her will not even send her a bday message if she likes him. but girls of nowadays will gladly accept your gift and still professionally tell u off.

Prixus:
u've done the normal thing u should do. that is showing her some interest. it's time to test if she wants to be with u or not. stop showing the interest. stop calling. stop talking to her. don't even send a message. if she really likes u she will call or send a message or ask u thru any means y u have stopped calling her. if she doesn't like u, of course she will notice that u no longer call n she will not bother finding out y but will appreciate the fact that u r off her case. DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT see her upcoming birthday as an opportunity to show her u mean business. girls have evolved n a girl will rather try to find out y a guy who claims to like her will not even send her a bday message if she likes him. but girls of nowadays will gladly accept your gift and still professionally tell u off.

Thank You boss...really appreciate

naijaboiy:
ignore her on her birthday!!!

I REPEAT

Ignore her on her birthday!!!

ok boss...Thanks

Permit me to say the girl is immature. Ahn ahn!!!! Wharrisit? Girls be forming like peahens. If u don't like someone, clearly state it. At d op, no time to waste time.

One word. She's forming HARD TO GET.

It's ur turn bro. Completely blank her out on her BIRTHDAY.

Reduce your attention towards her henceforth. If u call 3 times, reduce it 2 once or half(flash lol)


If she is not bothered, then she is not into u.