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hedonistic:
Serves you right. All these kids with village mentality who like taking their hungry friends along on dates. A guy would ask you out on an outing and you would tag some characters along like power puff girls. Does it make sense?

hahaha, laugh wan tear me asunder

dechandel:
Duhh
You asked for it
Why carry a friend along on a date??

Free the number joor

Childish character I will tell u!
Is never mature.

That's what you get when you take your friend along with you on a date with a guy!
Hian!!! why would you do such ?










































































Na so e suppose be na
So therefore,this is a story for the gods,the gods o

*yawns*





If a lady tries such wit me.....I ll do d same!!!




#guycode

Well I beg to differ in my opinion. Maybe your friend has qualities one of his friends like and so will like to hook them up by getting her number from you. I am sure that there were hotter girls in the supermaket, but he went for you. Don't act childish and miss your oportunity since it is obvious that you like him.

onyekachee:
I met tunde on the 3rd of december in a boutique,he was cute and funny and everyone seemed to like him because of his funny behaviour and the smiles he brought to people's faces,he walked towards me and tried making advances and finally asked for my nunmer which I declined at first but after much pestering I gave in and gave him my number
He called me a week after and asked for a date with me,but since I was not so farmiliar with him,I decided to take my friend tracy along with me.I noticed that his eyes were glued to my friend most times even when I tried to draw his attention...till this very moment he has been asking for my friend's number from me which is so embarrassing..

I'm sorry, but I fail to see what is embarrassing in your story. A man met you and probably became interested in you, now he's met your friend and his interest seems to have shifted from you to your friend. I'm sorry, but why are you embarrassed? Embarrassed for him or for yourself? If it's for yourself(most likely), it's uncalled for. His interest in your friend doesn't make you any less attractive or worth it. It simply means HE'S NOT FOR YOU. You can ask your friend's permission to give him her number. If she's interested in him, she'd probably agree and then let them take it off from there while you calmly move aside. I don't know why some women get jealous or angry or even defensive when a guy shows interest in another person that's not them. Some men have met their wives this same way- going for a particular person, and through that person gets to meet the one who would eventually become their wife. If he's not for you, he's not for you. Don't sweat it. This your topic isn't even supposed to be a topic. No offence. Don't let him think you are a desperate person.

abeg bust d guy,he's a player,even if u didnt tek ur frnd wit u on ur first date,he wud still hv met her as ur r/ship progressed n i believe he wud still behav in d same manner

@OP, lets see ur pix so dat we can knw if he shd go for ur frnd or not . I dnt blame d guy, i wud rather go for the hotter chic

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Seriously i thought the mentioned "toaster" was that used i in toasting bread so i opened to know the model. Well my one penny..... Op just got served

He's into your friend mate, forget every other postulations coming up here other than that. This should serve a caustic lesson to other sistas in the habit of freeloading on guys on a date. Solution? You either summon the nerve to giv the dude a piece of your mind for disrespecting you, cos thats exactly what it comes down to, or just freaking release the digits & sulk endlessly at the prospects or reality of your bestie cruising off with your potential partner/ spouse. Sometimes we need to learn the harshest way.....
Oh by the way op, thought you were supposed to be in ny, or did this all happen in the Big Apple?

onyekachee:
I met tunde on the 3rd of december in a boutique,he was cute and funny and everyone seemed to like him because of his funny behaviour and the smiles he brought to people's faces,he walked towards me and tried making advances and finally asked for my nunmer which I declined at first but after much pestering I gave in and gave him my number
He called me a week after and asked for a date with me,but since I was not so farmiliar with him,I decided to take my friend tracy along with me.I noticed that his eyes were glued to my friend most times even when I tried to draw his attention...till this very moment he has been asking for my friend's number from me which is so embarrassing..

alextayo:
I wonder what kinda lady takes a friend along on a first date. For crying out loud!!!!!! Must you invite all your folks because you have a date. You have not cemented a solid frienship and you took your bestie along.

To be candid my dear, you only ended up giving him an option. LESSON 101

her friend was hungry too...so she followed to eat from the garden of eden too...abi isn't it one stone to kill two birds??

hedonistic:
Serves you right. All these kids with village mentality who like taking their hungry friends along on dates. A guy would ask you out on an outing and you would tag some characters along like power puff girls. Does it make sense?

Hahaha....I tried my best not to laugh after reading this comment but i just can't help it. guy you're so on point.

Did he toast you Are u guyz Dating??

Why did u carry yr friend along big head, that hw ladies miss there blessing.

If this is true, it's a pity ; why would you take your friend with you on your first date? Couldn't you have demanded to meet in an open place which is the ideal place for a first date. Can't blame the guy

Wislet:
I'm sorry, but I fail to see what is embarrassing in your story. A man met you and probably became interested in you, now he's met your friend and his interest seems to have shifted from you to your friend. I'm sorry, but why are you embarrassed? Embarrassed for him or for yourself? If it's for yourself(most likely), it's uncalled for. His interest in your friend doesn't make you any less attractive or worth it. It simply means HE'S NOT FOR YOU. You can ask your friend's permission to give him her number. If she's interested in him, she'd probably agree and then let them take it off from there while you calmly move aside. I don't know why some women get jealous or angry or even defensive when a guy shows interest in another person that's not them. Some men have met their wives this same way- going for a particular person, and through that person gets to meet the one who would eventually become their wife. If he's not for you, he's not for you. Don't sweat it. This your topic isn't even supposed to be a topic. No offence. Don't let him think you are a desperate person.

If care is not taken, she might be in a relationship sef while her frnd is single....... Bringbackthenumber

@2sexi, who let you out

onyekachee:
I met tunde on the 3rd of december in a boutique,he was cute and funny and everyone seemed to like him because of his funny behaviour and the smiles he brought to people's faces,he walked towards me and tried making advances and finally asked for my nunmer which I declined at first but after much pestering I gave in and gave him my number
He called me a week after and asked for a date with me,but since I was not so farmiliar with him,I decided to take my friend tracy along with me.I noticed that his eyes were glued to my friend most times even when I tried to draw his attention...till this very moment he has been asking for my friend's number from me which is so embarrassing..

a lesson in dating.. don't bring your friend along, I won't even bring my guy. lest he gos behind and get your contact.. u should know better
. bad for you but good for him.. you friend will end up agreeing for him faster than you.

blackfase:
He's into your friend mate, forget every other postulations coming up here other than that. This should serve a caustic lesson to other sistas in the habit of freeloading on guys on a date. Solution? You either summon the nerve to giv the dude a piece of your mind for disrespecting you, cos thats exactly what it comes down to, or just freaking release the digits & sulk endlessly at the prospects or reality of your bestie cruising off with your potential partner/ spouse. Sometimes we need to learn the harshest way.....
Oh by the way op, thought you were supposed to be in ny, or did this all happen in the Big Apple?

As far as I'm concerned, there's nothing to get angry with the guy about. It's not like he did a shady thing. Shady would have been getting the friend's number directly from her and dating her whilr letting the OP think she's still 'the one'. Instead, he's asking for it through her. He'd probably feel bad telling the OP directly, "Hey, I'm interested in your friend, not you anymore. Give me her number please", so he's going about it this way so OP will decode that he likes her friend, and not feel so terrible(my opinion). Besides, it was just ONE date. The guy hasn't told the OP he wants to date her, and it most probably hasn't come to the boyfriend/girlfriend stage, not to talk of marriage. Just ONE date to get to know her better. Unfortunately(or fortunately for him), he met someone who may become 'the one'. Let her stop making it look serious. Move on.

onyekachee:
I met tunde on the 3rd of december in a boutique,he was cute and funny and everyone seemed to like him because of his funny behaviour and the smiles he brought to people's faces,he walked towards me and tried making advances and finally asked for my nunmer which I declined at first but after much pestering I gave in and gave him my number
He called me a week after and asked for a date with me,but since I was not so farmiliar with him,I decided to take my friend tracy along with me.I noticed that his eyes were glued to my friend most times even when I tried to draw his attention...till this very moment he has been asking for my friend's number from me which is so embarrassing..

When taking your friend along for a date always go with the ugly one. This is common sense. Nobody when non like better thing. U have lost him already just give him your friend's number. Shikena!

elantraceey:
See all this girls dem screaming how could you like they don't do the same

wo!! if I cash your friend ;d

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onyekachee:
I met tunde on the 3rd of december in a boutique,he was cute and funny and everyone seemed to like him because of his funny behaviour and the smiles he brought to people's faces,he walked towards me and tried making advances and finally asked for my nunmer which I declined at first but after much pestering I gave in and gave him my number
He called me a week after and asked for a date with me,but since I was not so farmiliar with him,I decided to take my friend tracy along with me.I noticed that his eyes were glued to my friend most times even when I tried to draw his attention...till this very moment he has been asking for my friend's number from me which is so embarrassing..

henceforth i think guys should be doing this,because it will help stop the ladies from bringing their friends to adate.

Twaci:
Now that's weird. Did u say ur friend's name is Tracy? *tongue in ma cheek* Sha tell the guy to either focus on u or disappear into oblivion. That should do the trick.

he is not even her guy yet... so he is drww like the angel in your pic .. now playing --+ jay z -- on to the next one

Engrpj:
If care is not taken, she might be in a relationship sef while her frnd is single....... Bringbackthenumber

lol

onyekachee:
I met tunde on the 3rd of december in a boutique,he was cute and funny and everyone seemed to like him because of his funny behaviour and the smiles he brought to people's faces,he walked towards me and tried making advances and finally asked for my nunmer which I declined at first but after much pestering I gave in and gave him my number
He called me a week after and asked for a date with me,but since I was not so farmiliar with him,I decided to take my friend tracy along with me.I noticed that his eyes were glued to my friend most times even when I tried to draw his attention...till this very moment he has been asking for my friend's number from me which is so embarrassing..

my sister you fuckup

i feel ur pain dear. it's obvious u already like him. but the truth is, u made a little mistake by taking ur friend with u on a first date with ur admirer. i can understand maybe it was for security reasons so, i won't criticize u completely. shit happens nowadays.

On the part of this dude, trust me, HE IS A PLAYER.
Many may not see it that way but it's the truth. Even if he starts dating your friend, he'll definitely still be looking outside the relationship.

just look on the bright side, ur mistake revealed the real person in him.
Tell ur friend about it and seek her permission to release her number. If she's comfortable with it, give him, relax and watch. If they start dating, move on. You'll find a better man that will look beyond the physical attraction.
My 2cents...

iamord:
he is not even her guy yet... so he is drww like the angel in your pic .. now playing --+ jay z -- on to the next one

Dey there dey form Jayz. Ur mates dey farm dey hustle for food....smh

2sexi:

Either u are jobless or ur keypad is one bleeped up china pad....either way, fix it

Twaci:
Dey there dey form Jayz. Ur mates dey farm dey hustle for food....smh

lol! you think I am some hungry dude. I got a farm tho! I feed and not hustle for food