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vjsmiles:
i thought she will change

vjsmiles:
Sexually my wife is too uptight. Here are some issues I have with my wife's sexual inhibition.

We cant have sex if we are in mine or my parents house. We cant have sex if any of her siblings of mine are around she doesn't want them to hear her moan.

The issue is I am not faithful to her. I have slept with numerous babes after our marriage. I kept using her sexual up-tightness as excuse to cheat.

Now I want to change

how do I turn my wife to a freak in bed

please matured advices

3cycle:
She doesn't shave? I think it is actually a blessing in disguise @op.
Imagine going down on a woman who hasn't shaved for a year, omo na correct toothpick go everly dey ya teeth ooo...

hahn:
My simple advice is this. If you love her and really want to change, purchase "spanish fly" and add it to her drink when you are alone together. Do it at different times of the day on different occasions. She'll eventually loosen up and start begging you for sex.

Just a drop is ok. Don't overdose her. Thank me later

Ariel20:
Something tells me this OP is just seeking attention.
You try..

in essence
if you havent got any advice for me please bypass

sexymoma:
Was she a virgin when u met her..
Abi she be "S.U"

To those saying Teach her Teach... Damn. it obvious the lady is so adamant and stubborn to learn
If na me o.. i will tell it to her face that i do cheat on her due to the fact that she is uptight and rigid sexually...
If she go call una family members... ma brother nor shy open up to one or two of dem... "that could be trusted"

LemmyOdafe:
Your wife does not see you as friend and she is definitely very religious and hold sex sacred. She is not free with you and also shy even to her husband, hence the switching off of lights. She also has low self esteem of herself which you should help her build by complementing shape, boobs, legs and how sexy she looks naked. Appreciate her more and show her love. Did you marry her a virgin? If yes, you need to show her the fun in love making or sex as some people call it. If she wasn't a virgin when both of you got married, then her previous sex/love making acts were not interesting, scary or horrible. Has she been raped? If yes, be more understanding and patient with her till you help her find fun in the act.

Also, are you a fast rider i.e just bang her and hear moan while you come? Do you know if she comes or even wait for her to come before you do? If you are a fast rider, you need to change the tempo. Grind instead of riding i.e gradually stroke and probe deeper with tenderness instead of pounding. Let her hear you moan too and tell her how sweet she is and how hard you feel when you hear her moan. Let her moaning not be an embarrassment to her but a stimulant for both of you.

Don't rush into quickies especially when you have children and visitors. Most decent women, including my wife of 10 years is still shy and reserved to that too but if we are alone at home, she'll do it anywhere. Most women won't do it when dressed because it takes them time to dress up and look special, so it's not just your wife. The bottom line is patience and understanding. No woman is better than the other and no wife of yours is less important or nicer than the wife of others. All women are the same. We just have to figure how best to manage them.

Adultery apart from being a sin is gradually destroying you and your marriage. Your wife probably knows you are cheating on her so she's just being a good and loyal wife but she may not love or respect you anymore. Focus on winning her back. Think and dwell on the reason you chose her as your wife and why she fell in love with and agreed to marry you. Ask yourself, will she marry me as I am now if I approach her? When you've worked on the above and know she's coming around, gradually explain to her how you like it. Why she needs to shave, hygienically and sexually, new positions et al. Do this with warmth, love and tenderness.

Finally, money plays a huge role in every relationship. It is traditionally a man's role to provide for his family and so when women take on this responsibility or share in it, they can not handle the stress and gradually lose their femininity. A man gradually loses respect and love in these cases. Only a man who knows his worth and guided by strong biblical principles can be able to still win the deep respect and love of his wife in these circumstances. Women are weaker vessels and are not to be stressed. When she comes back from work, she's truly tired but why should she go the extra mile just to satisfy your sexual urge when she no longer loves nor respect you? Besides, it is of no fun to her but just you. Work on pleasing her than yourself. Take her out, vacation and do some house chores and other things with her.

I wish you the very best.

Lemmy

thanks very much for this

itstpia8:
ok, here I am to educate you like I find myself having to do with many of the posters on this forum.








why is your wife moaning since according to you, she is sexually uptight and rigid?

Do you know the meaning and implication of moaning during sexual intercourse? I don't think you do, you were too busy typing your script.

An inhibited person will not moan during sex, sweetie.






so why are you whining?






sometimes it is too late to change.

why are you trying to change now, did you pick up an std?






have you treated the std yet?







typical of fake stories.

this is where your script is based:

https://www.africabookcentre.com/acatalog/Too_cold_for_Comfort.jpg

lord have mercy sha.

vjsmiles:
will that work