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Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by vjsmiles: 5:20am On Feb 06, 2015

unfortunate I have to share my intimate secrets with total strangers on this forum but this bothers me a lot. My wife and I have been married for 4 years but its all the same.
Sexually my wife is too uptight. I have tried all I could to liberalize her mind concerning sex, but to no avail. Here are some issues I have with my wife's sexual inhibition. She does not think a woman should initiate sex and she doesn't.
We have only had sex in the bedroom because she wont get turned on if I try another place. We only do missionary style as she is reluctant to learn new skills and doggy to her is somehow animalistic.
We cant have sex if we are in mine or my parents house. We cant have sex if any of her siblings of mine are around she doesn't want them to hear her moan.
We only have sex on weekends as she get tired after work.
We have never had quickie. like sex after she is fully dressed for occasion.. for where.
I asked her if she had any sexual fantasies she replied NO
She doesn't shave her pubic hair. No sex with lights on
Mouth Action? my D can not even touch boobs talk less of her mouth. Neither does she allow me to go down on her
The issue is I am not faithful to her. I have slept with numerous babes after our marriage. I kept using her sexual up-tightness as excuse to cheat. Now I want to change but my wife too must change.
Some advised counseling, others advocate porn to dis-inhibit her mind.
Pls Libers how do I turn my wife to a freak in bed. I have discussed with her many times with promise to change but still the same.
please matured advices
smiley

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by koolet: 5:30am On Feb 06, 2015
sir...take my bachelor advice, if she realise you have color1 attachment outside she will take you to new levels herselfangry infact she will give you Head..


women forming Holy since last century.. angry

buh o.p i tought you both dated nau..

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Redoil: 5:33am On Feb 06, 2015
Dont divorce her. To teach her a very good lesson i will suggest you take a second wife or even a third wife.

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Redoil: 5:33am On Feb 06, 2015
Dont divorce her. To teach her a very good lesson i will suggest you take a second wife or even a third wife. She will be force to cooperate

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by HURUCHI(m): 5:37am On Feb 06, 2015
Seriously in this 2015 woow have u had a heart to heart talk on y cold legs on sex cose as a legally married couple of 4ys hmmmm she shuold know that SEX s very,!!!!!! Important ohhh u have no right to cheat on her for dat cose she s cold in bed

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by iwriterng(m): 5:43am On Feb 06, 2015
Another reason why the issue of sexual drive amidst other things should be thoroughly discussed before marriage.

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by koolet: 5:47am On Feb 06, 2015
op go back 2 ya old ways

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by HURUCHI(m): 5:50am On Feb 06, 2015
koolet:
op go back 2 ya old ways


Y his just 4ys in not 40ys
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Odillz: 6:12am On Feb 06, 2015
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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Rikidony(m): 6:19am On Feb 06, 2015
BROS U FUNNY OOOO. YOU ARE MARRIED AND I HOPE U ARE NOT ONE OF THOSE NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE FREAK COS YOU WOULD HAVE REALISE THIS BEFORE MARRIAGE

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Raiders: 6:30am On Feb 06, 2015
My advice to you is to get a second wife.

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Nobody: 6:38am On Feb 06, 2015
#smh!!

advice from this generation of kids.
world go soon end for real.

some are complaining their wife can't perform well, person like me wey my wife come dey disturb nkor?has a girl ever fyiokt you till you h8 sex? that's how mine is.
To meth see every other girl's CUNTinent to be useless to me cos I reserve for my first lady.

Op, take time to study your wife more. invent pre-intimacy,communicate with her. she luv the matrimonial room right?do it there. do it there, gradually changing your methods. be patient with her, keep asking her questions.
Forget getting a lady outside, be a man not a mere male.
women are unique,she could be shy and that's why or she could be acting like that cos of the good family background she came from... hah!you should be happy she hates the ways of the world. but please, patiently teach her it's a blessed secret act.

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Nobody: 6:44am On Feb 06, 2015
[quote author=shadowgwalker post=30470905]#smh!!

advice from this generation of kids.
world go soon end for real.

some are complaining their wife can't perform well, person like me wey my wife come dey disturb nkor?has a girl ever fyiokt you till you h8 sex? that's how mine is.
To meth see every other girl's CUNTinent to be useless to me cos I reserve for my first lady.

Op, take time to study your wife more. invent pre-intimacy,communicate with her. she luv the matrimonial room right?do it there. do it there, gradually changing your methods. be patient with her, keep asking her questions.
Forget getting a lady outside, be a man not a mere male.
women are unique,she could be shy and that's why or she could be acting like that cos of the good family background she came from... hah!you should be happy she hates the ways of the world. but please, patiently teach her it's a blessed

Are you male or female? Am I confused or you are?

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Nobody: 6:45am On Feb 06, 2015
shadowgwalker:
#smh!!

advice from this generation of kids.
world go soon end for real.

some are complaining their wife can't perform well, person like me wey my wife come dey disturb nkor?has a girl ever fyiokt you till you h8 sex? that's how mine is.
To meth see every other girl's CUNTinent to be useless to me cos I reserve for my first lady.

Op, take time to study your wife more. invent pre-intimacy,communicate with her. she luv the matrimonial room right?do it there. do it there, gradually changing your methods. be patient with her, keep asking her questions.
Forget getting a lady outside, be a man not a mere male.
women are unique,she could be shy and that's why or she could be acting like that cos of the good family background she came from... hah!you should be happy she hates the ways of the world. but please, patiently teach her it's a blessed secret act.
Are you male or female? Am I confused or you are? tongue tongue tongue tongue cool cool
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by vjsmiles: 6:46am On Feb 06, 2015
koolet:
sir...take my bachelor advice, if she realise you have color1 attachment outside she will take you to new levels herselfangry infact she will give you Head..


women forming Holy since last century.. angry

buh o.p i tought you both dated nau..

i dont cheat
good morning

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by vjsmiles: 6:47am On Feb 06, 2015
Redoil:
Dont divorce her. To teach her a very good lesson i will suggest you take a second wife or even a third wife.
polygamy is a no no for me cry

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by vjsmiles: 6:48am On Feb 06, 2015
Redoil:
Dont divorce her. To teach her a very good lesson i will suggest you take a second wife or even a third wife.
polygamy is a no no for me cry
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by vjsmiles: 6:49am On Feb 06, 2015
[quote author=temitak post=30470993][/quote]
thanks ma'am .this will help smiley
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by samtol4(m): 6:51am On Feb 06, 2015
vjsmiles:

unfortunate I have to share my intimate secrets with total strangers on this forum but this bothers me a lot. My wife and I have been married for 4 years but its all the same.
Sexually my wife is too uptight. I have tried all I could to liberalize her mind concerning sex, but to no avail. Here are some issues I have with my wife's sexual inhibition. She does not think a woman should initiate sex and she doesn't.
We have only had sex in the bedroom because she wont get turned on if I try another place. We only do missionary style as she is reluctant to learn new skills and doggy to her is somehow animalistic.
We cant have sex if we are in mine or my parents house. We cant have sex if any of her siblings of mine are around she doesn't want them to hear her moan.
We only have sex on weekends as she get tired after work.
We have never had quickie. like sex after she is fully dressed for occasion.. for where.
I asked her if she had any sexual fantasies she replied NO
She doesn't shave her pubic hair. No sex with lights on
Mouth Action? my D can not even touch boobs talk less of her mouth. Neither does she allow me to go down on her
The issue is I am not faithful to her. I have slept with numerous babes after our marriage. I kept using her sexual up-tightness as excuse to cheat. Now I want to change but my wife too must change.
Some advised counseling, others advocate porn to dis-inhibit her mind.
Pls Libers how do I turn my wife to a freak in bed. I have discussed with her many times with promise to change but still the same.
please matured advices
smiley
You change first ....and repent .You slept with numberous ladies after wedding already you are gradually destroying your marriage .That is very bad you know for a married man !You change your ways first and you will b amazed how your wife will change ! Discuss with your wife how you feel .Unfaithfulness is the gateway to marital sorrows....you have no excuse to be unfaithful

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by phiszo(m): 6:57am On Feb 06, 2015
this is why you should know if you are sexually compatible with your fiance or fiancee before marraige.
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Nobody: 7:08am On Feb 06, 2015
temitak:

Are you male or female? Am I confused or you are? tongue tongue tongue tongue cool cool
hian! that one is for me nah. the option is there to choose. I don't use my real data for any site registration.
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by vjsmiles: 7:10am On Feb 06, 2015
phiszo:
this is why you should know if you are sexually compatible with your fiance or fiancee before marraige.
i thought she will change cry
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by cococandy(f): 7:43am On Feb 06, 2015
But your wife is not here to take the advice and change or try to learn huh?

Maybe she was brought up that way. To be sexually repressive as it is seen by some people as a sign of virtue in ladies.

You know? The-holy-sister-don't-know-anything-about-dirty-sex wife material.
Some guys Think it is attractive at first.
getting an innocent girl to marry.

I don't know if it is possible to change someone in their adult age but just try your best.
good luck now and stop cheating before you get Aids.

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Redoil: 7:49am On Feb 06, 2015
vjsmiles:

polygamy is a no no for me cry

second wife all the way

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by morhsuud22(m): 8:00am On Feb 06, 2015
communicate more with her and try to repress the urge leading you to other women,may your marriage not crumble
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by billtommy(m): 8:12am On Feb 06, 2015
vjsmiles:

unfortunate I have to share my intimate secrets with total strangers on this forum but this bothers me a lot. My wife and I have been married for 4 years but its all the same.
Sexually my wife is too uptight. I have tried all I could to liberalize her mind concerning sex, but to no avail. Here are some issues I have with my wife's sexual inhibition. She does not think a woman should initiate sex and she doesn't.
We have only had sex in the bedroom because she wont get turned on if I try another place. We only do missionary style as she is reluctant to learn new skills and doggy to her is somehow animalistic.
We cant have sex if we are in mine or my parents house. We cant have sex if any of her siblings of mine are around she doesn't want them to hear her moan.
We only have sex on weekends as she get tired after work.
We have never had quickie. like sex after she is fully dressed for occasion.. for where.
I asked her if she had any sexual fantasies she replied NO
She doesn't shave her pubic hair. No sex with lights on
Mouth Action? my D can not even touch boobs talk less of her mouth. Neither does she allow me to go down on her
The issue is I am not faithful to her. I have slept with numerous babes after our marriage. I kept using her sexual up-tightness as excuse to cheat. Now I want to change but my wife too must change.
Some advised counseling, others advocate porn to dis-inhibit her mind.
Pls Libers how do I turn my wife to a freak in bed. I have discussed with her many times with promise to change but still the same.
please matured advices
smiley

You need to see a family therapist, this little issue breakd homes. Thank you. Elp as regrd that.
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Nobody: 8:12am On Feb 06, 2015
She doesn't shave? shocked I think it is actually a blessing in disguise @op.
Imagine going down on a woman who hasn't shaved for a year, omo na correct toothpick go everly dey ya teeth ooo...

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Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Nobody: 9:00am On Feb 06, 2015
Yawa dey oo
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by ohaleoghene(f): 9:38am On Feb 06, 2015
she is so uptight ... that part of she doesn't shave made me throw up . I could imagine a thick forest down there. well I guess she is shy and back dated. talk to her list those things you don't want .
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Nobody: 10:00am On Feb 06, 2015
I no fit shout o. Iya Ejima! Hmmm... grin grin grin
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by hahn(m): 10:19am On Feb 06, 2015
My simple advice is this. If you love her and really want to change, purchase "spanish fly" and add it to her drink when you are alone together. Do it at different times of the day on different occasions. She'll eventually loosen up and start begging you for sex.

Just a drop is ok. Don't overdose her. Thank me later

vjsmiles:

unfortunate I have to share my intimate secrets with total strangers on this forum but this bothers me a lot. My wife and I have been married for 4 years but its all the same.
Sexually my wife is too uptight. I have tried all I could to liberalize her mind concerning sex, but to no avail. Here are some issues I have with my wife's sexual inhibition. She does not think a woman should initiate sex and she doesn't.
We have only had sex in the bedroom because she wont get turned on if I try another place. We only do missionary style as she is reluctant to learn new skills and doggy to her is somehow animalistic.
We cant have sex if we are in mine or my parents house. We cant have sex if any of her siblings of mine are around she doesn't want them to hear her moan.
We only have sex on weekends as she get tired after work.
We have never had quickie. like sex after she is fully dressed for occasion.. for where.
I asked her if she had any sexual fantasies she replied NO
She doesn't shave her pubic hair. No sex with lights on
Mouth Action? my D can not even touch boobs talk less of her mouth. Neither does she allow me to go down on her
The issue is I am not faithful to her. I have slept with numerous babes after our marriage. I kept using her sexual up-tightness as excuse to cheat. Now I want to change but my wife too must change.
Some advised counseling, others advocate porn to dis-inhibit her mind.
Pls Libers how do I turn my wife to a freak in bed. I have discussed with her many times with promise to change but still the same.
please matured advices
smiley
Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by Nobody: 12:20pm On Feb 06, 2015
Something tells me this OP is just seeking attention.
You try..

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