justmag:


Well! Her reason better be am on my period and not am not in the mood! We just got married. She shud be as excited as I am!!

I hope so

You have to be patient. Finding out the underlying causes will be useful

She don craze before.... I go kuku tear her pant for am

Say no to her anywhere off the bed.

RAPE HER and later apologize.

will do nothing and just wait for my turn.
do me i do you and we are even.

You have a big problem. keep it interesting in the bedroom. Your wife will be begging you for sex,.

Movesz:
is there any thing like that?

There is o....my guy has been starved for 6 months now by his wife just because he beat her

Jeromejnr:


Looking at it from the OP's question, anytime I ask her she says something like "its a headache". So every single day when it comes to that time she's always having headaches or experiencing tiredness.

But when she was busy shopping at the mall through out the day there was no headache and no tiredness.

Na wickedness abeg.

if that is the case then she probably does not enjoy sex with you

Yes there will be times when you are indeed tired and that should be respected, but if everyday there is a story then it means you are not pleasing her in bed cos if she enjoyed it you probably wouldn't have to even ask

What else should you do than get her something for the headache(if she hasn't taken any) and lie with her, cuddling her till she feels better? Is that one supposed to cause wahala too? Na wa o.

Simple, just let her be and look for another babe that will be ready for you.

kennyjodeci:


There is o....my guy has been starved for 6 months now by his wife just because he beat her

Just because he beat her you say, it's really a pity.

Is it most that she will have sex with u that same day. Is it why u marry her

ArslordBaba:
This has separated many couples around the world.... Should any excuse given when it is time to have fun with one's wife... tiredness, headache, etc.

play wit her a little , slap her on the butt hard

I think I'll be too tired myself.
All dis one na cos una no kpansh before marriage.
She has every right to refuse even if her excuse is just "not in the mood".
Sex shouldn't be mechanical.
I wonder how people " ask for sex"
Before I get down with any lady sef, we've already put ourselves in d mood na.

[color=#990000][/color]who knows? maybe the guy is a quickie, maybe she is just saddled with the fact that she's locked down to him.

Dahs y dey invented mistresses

freecocoa:
Just because he beat her you say, it's really a pity.

Lmao! *wipes tears* I love you

immortalvoices:
Interesting

She has every right to give excuse if those excuse are real truth

On ur own she is your wife that is where u coms in always show cares, talk to her, play with her and make her smile...ask her and act the solution

Don't always be for sex always show interest to her plight and with time she will be use to having sex with you each time

Remember marriages crash when young couples don't understand show selfishness when it coms to sexual feeling..

Best of luck bro!

...welldone bro you really said it all ..I wish every couples can adapt to the system

why she go say no, she de see her period or she de sick?

singing according to davido omo c GOBE.

Don't ever approach her... Get want you want outside

T3Amo:
if that is the case then she probably does not enjoy sex with you

Yes there will be times when you are indeed tired and that should be respected, but if everyday there is a story then it means you are not pleasing her in bed cos if she enjoyed it you probably wouldn't have to even ask

Chai! Madam calm down now. Na just example I give o! No be me the OP dey talk about. Me I sabi wella. She has to enjoy it na, no excuse.

i will ask her the reason and if she have a reasonable reason then i will live her but if it is unreasonable reason i will marry another wife. no time to check time.

Well! Am still trying to figure out why a woman would say no to aman u jas got married to.

To start with, was she compelled to marry d man? Is it dat she doesn't love d man? Outside these, I woman would only refuse her newly married husband sex if:

*Shez kinda sick or nat healthy enough 4 dat
*if shez a virgin and is scared of sex
*if shez possessed(lol).

I mean, I see no reason y u as a lady wud starve d husband you choosed and married. Anywer! Der is God o.

my friend that is western thinking,tell me when you give excuses you are said not to be doing your job but when she gives excuses its ok,does that thinking sound normal,i wonder how a man can be accused of raping his own wife,when the idea of marriage mean exclusive right,do they have laws that say a husband can accuse his wife of rape.my friend you guys need to use your head don't allow white man fool you,its ok for humans to sleep with animals but its not ok for man to sleep with more than one woman,which evil is worse

immortalvoices:
Interesting

She has every right to give excuse if those excuse are real truth

On ur own she is your wife that is where u coms in always show cares, talk to her, play with her and make her smile...ask her and act the solution

Don't always be for sex always show interest to her plight and with time she will be use to having sex with you each time

Remember marriages crash when young couples don't understand show selfishness when it coms to sexual feeling..

Best of luck bro!

1bkaye:

Lmao! *wipes tears* I love you

Just imagine the nonsense, after beating her, he expects her to go lie nakid on the bed, yelling 'my lord come and devour me' what a twart.

I love you too my sister.

My friend as far as am concern the only reason why a wife would refuse her husband is either by agreement or by mensuration .anything aside that is equall to not doing her duty and which means you have the right to take any action you deem fit

ArslordBaba:
This has separated many couples around the world.... Should any excuse given when it is time to have fun with one's wife... tiredness, headache, etc.

I will check if I married my follow man

I will do nothing