This has separated many couples around the world.... Should any excuse given when it is time to have fun with one's wife... tiredness, headache, etc.

Interesting

She has every right to give excuse if those excuse are real truth

On ur own she is your wife that is where u coms in always show cares, talk to her, play with her and make her smile...ask her and act the solution

Don't always be for sex... always show interest to her plight and with time she will be use to having sex with you each time

Remember marriages crash when young couples don't understand and show selfishness when it coms to sexual feeling..

Best of luck bro!


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So a single guy like me can dish out advice like an experience counsellor

Well I simply avail my self to God's wisdom

And trust me I am Festus de commentus but I ain't happy about it

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You can't force her na. Leave her to rest small. Make una gather small energy.

But that also might mean she's the type that tires easily o! So for a man with high libido, na wahala be that.

Only if she is on her period or else....

Know her reasons, don't stress her reasons, be sure you not at fault, understand her, you'll be fine.

this is a serious one

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@Jeromejnr that's when u have had like one or two, she could be tired u are right. But the question is saying NO when u have not done anything, not allowing u at all

Mimienudles:
Know her reasons, don't stress her reasons, be sure you not at fault, understand her, you'll be fine.

@fault how?

ArslordBaba:
@Jeromejnr that's when u have had like one or two, she could be tired u are right. But the question is saying NO when u have not done anything, not allowing u at all

Then I will leave her and sleep. Afterall I can't rape her.
But I go still do my own back sha.

Tallesty1:
@fault how?

There might be something he's doing that the wife isn't pleased with so, it could be some kind of punishment or nothing. My thoughts tho

Jeromejnr:


Then I will leave her and sleep. Afterall I can't rape her.
But I go still do my own back sha.

Easier said. What next? Malice in a new home? Not a better step to achieving 'together forever'

Mimienudles:
There might be something he's doing that the wife isn't pleased with so, it could be some kind of punishment or nothing. My thoughts tho

And you think starving him sexually is the best way to handle it? That's immaturity y'knw. What if he decides to get it elsewhere?

Mimienudles:
Easier said. What next? Malice in a new home? Not a better step to achieving 'together forever'

So what do you suggest?

Mimienudles:
There might be something he's doing that the wife isn't pleased with so, it could be some kind of punishment or nothing. My thoughts tho

And u feel this would solve the problem? A husband unknowingly offends his wife. Instead of telling him about it and they two sorting it out,she keeps quiet and withholds sex as punishment. Hmmmmmmm women!!! How in God's name has this helped? This konji thing goes both ways. Let the man also withhold it when she needs it nah!

Weneva she does that na pillow fight sure pass

Jeromejnr:


So what do you suggest?

Ask questions, don't act like you don't care because, somehow, you do care

Tallesty1:
And you think starving him sexually is the best way to handle it? That's immaturity y'knw. What if he decides to get it elsewhere?

Getting is elsewhere makes him human, Cheating has room if you think that's a better option. I mean he could ask question rather than cheat y'know

Mimienudles:
Ask questions, don't act like you don't care because, somehow, you do care

Looking at it from the OP's question, anytime I ask her she says something like "its a headache". So every single day when it comes to that time she's always having headaches or experiencing tiredness.

But when she was busy shopping at the mall through out the day there was no headache and no tiredness.

Na wickedness abeg.

You are in for a sexless marriage, take heart.

Why are you guys assuming that she' s tired or that he has been doing it everyday? Some ladies think they can still play hard to get even in marriage.

If I have been away for a long time then I get home to my wife and she refuses me, I will be upset. Her body is mine and my body is her own too.

It is wrong.

Reasonable reasons if not I'm divorcing her before she gets the idea that she can sex starve me when ever she wants...
After all the reason I married her is to stop fukkin around..
Allow the issue pass without proper investigation into her reasons if reasonable who knows what she will do next when she feels like it..

lol...maybe she will ask you to start cocking dinner..

Women with unreasonable reasons expecting you to reason with them since 1800..


Once dated one chick that refuses to cock for me every time we have small misunderstanding..


Who knows whether she will give you no sex ultimatum when she feels you are not doing thing up to her expectation..



All said marriage is a very sensitive union of two

firstEVA:
You are in for a sexless marriage, take heart.

is there any thing like that?

Movesz:
is there any thing like that?

yes there is, op's marriage is a clear example.

Mimienudles:
Getting is elsewhere makes him human, Cheating has room if you think that's a better option. I mean he could ask question rather than cheat y'know

Yea,.. That's true but I think denying him sex isn't a wise decision.

firstEVA:
yes there is, op's marriage is a clear example.

in my opinion..its not #cool

Movesz:
in my opinion..its not #cool

sex isn't food na?

firstEVA:
sex isn't food na?

sex na food...

If not why do people eat pussy

justmag:
Only if she is on her period or else....

or else wat?
you'll force her?

u have to know her reasons first dear

Movesz:
sex na food...

If not why do people eat pussy

Really? As is really eating it? Tell me more

firstEVA:
Really? As is really eating it? Tell me more

like seriously?

Sarimah:
or else wat?
you'll rape her?

u have to know her reasons first dear

Well! Her reason better be am on my period and not am not in the mood! We just got married. She shud be as excited as I am!!