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dabriggs:
No virgin should get special attention. Unless she is your wife! And the attention is not even because she is a virgin. The special attention is because she is your wife or girlfriend. Someone you are in a relationship with.

The question is not about giving them special attention. Then it should not also be about deriding them as virgins. ''When you let the hawk perch you let the eagle perch. Which ever one that says the other should not perch let its wings break''.

The question is do we all like unused things? Do we like to be the one to unwrap the new present? Do we like to be the one to have what others tried (or not) and could not have? The answer we might no scream out loud. But between you and I we know the answer.

See no mind me o. School go soon close for here o (Project go soon start) and cold never go. So nairaland dey keep my blood warm and I get time small.

well I like tear rubber car

MY VIRGIN GF WHO I JUST DISVIRGINED THINK SHE IS DOING ME A FAVOUR BY SLEEPING WITH ME, AM TRYING TO KNOW WHAT SHE LIKES ON BED BUT SHE IS STILL LOW MINDED, TODAY SHE TOLD ME I SHOULD BE GREATFUL THAT SHE SLEPT WITH ME LAST NIGHT , THAT WAS WHEN I TOOK MY BATH , GOT DRESSED, SPRAYED NICE PERFUME, AND LEFT HER AM SO GOING TO CHEAT ON HER, SHE DOESNT EVEN KNOW HOW TO KISS

Ipledge:
well I like tear rubber car

Forget. We like tear rubber everything if we can easily get them or afford them.
But frankly I like tear rubber car o. They have their own distinct fragrance (or so I think ).
One of the best tear rubber things a guy wants.

dabriggs:
Forget. We like tear rubber everything if we can easily get them or afford them.
But frankly I like tear rubber car o. They have their own distinct fragrance (or so I think ).
One of the best tear rubber things a guy wants.

trust me if they ask me to take one,tear rubber Rolls Royce phantom(even tear rubber mustang) or or a virgin,I will gladly chose them automobile

TDstarr:
MY VIRGIN GF WHO I JUST DISVIRGINED THINK SHE IS DOING ME A FAVOUR BY SLEEPING WITH ME, AM TRYING TO KNOW WHAT SHE LIKES ON BED BUT SHE IS STILL LOW MINDED, TODAY SHE TOLD ME I SHOULD BE GREATFUL THAT SHE SLEPT WITH ME LAST NIGHT , THAT WAS WHEN I TOOK MY BATH , GOT DRESSED, SPRAYED NICE PERFUME, AND LEFT HER AM SO GOING TO CHEAT ON HER, SHE DOESNT EVEN KNOW HOW TO KISS

hope say she no bite ur lips...in ur fantasy

Ipledge:
trust me if they ask me to take one,tear rubber Rolls Royce phantom(even tear rubber mustang) or or a virgin,I will gladly chose them automobile

Of course! Me too! Haba!
Without even giving it a second thought. Unless the virgin or her papa go fit give me more than one Phantom.
Rolls Royce Phantom ke? Ha! I could get 100 virgins (and maybe a thousand non virgins) by just driving that around.
Guy I be Port Harcourt boy o! We dey both book and street smart o.

dabriggs:
Of course! Me too! Haba!
Without even giving it a second thought. Unless the virgin or her papa go fit give me more than one Phantom.
Rolls Royce Phantom ke? Ha! I could get 100 virgins (and maybe a thousand non virgins) by just driving that around.
Guy I be Port Harcourt boy o! We dey both book and street smart o.

bolded got me laughing

dabriggs:
That is not true. Men just detest what they can not have. There is no man who would not want a virgin as a wife or who would not want to be the one to dis-virgin a girl. Forget what ever grammar men speak. It is all lies. As a matter of fact many will come and argue against this. But pay no attention to them. Girls who are virgins are a little bit difficult to seduce nowadays. Especially after their teenage years. Men get angry at this fact and normally look for easy girls. Hence they go about trying to make the virgins feel ''unspecial'' so that they can be easy prey and loosen up.

It is almost the same thing when a virgin has her girlfriends laughing at her for being a virgin. Just because they are jealous that her virginity judges their promiscuity in a way. They laugh and deride her so she will loose her virginity and join their ''status''. I can guarantee you, when men seek for a wife, they do not want a slut who will sleep around! Forget all the grammar we speak in beer parlors about wanting a bad girl. We end up with many non-virgins because when we are ready to settle down we cant find a virgin to do so with.

Why do we want virgins? Because we want a faithful wife. Infidelity hits a man at his ego! It deflates him so much that another man is enjoying or taking his ''property'' (Yes ''Property''. I decided not to be politically/socially correct). Also all men want good kids. Especially daughters. No man wants his daughters to be sluts either. Of course it does not mean all virgins are non promiscuous. After all every woman was once a virgin. Neither does it mean that only virgins raise morally upright daughter. It is Just that it gives us peace of mind to know that we have a woman who has experience in controlling her sexual desires and can teach our daughters same. It boosts our egos that we have something that no other man has tasted. It makes us proud.

So do not mind the men. Men say this to make girls easy targets for sex. It is almost a contradiction. Because they want all women to be sluts but they would not want a slut in their family. I hear ladies say they heard a guy somewhere say he does not want a virgin who will not satisfy him in bed bla bla bla. That is bullshit!!! Every man is looking for a sweet virgin he can marry, then corrupt her to his taste.

You speak for yourself. I'm 100% sure I won't get married to a virgin. I'm not a patient guy for all the "I'm scared" talk after marriage. And i sure don't want a troubled marriage so a non virgin would do just fine for me.

And i have no interest to "dis-virgin" anyone. Virgin or not that's their issue. The last one I dated put the fear of virgins into me. Kept blabbing about me not sleeping with anyone else after her till marriage. I simply told her to leave and take her virginity with her.

SilentPrince:
You speak for yourself. I'm 100% sure I won't get married to a virgin. I'm not a patient guy for all the "I'm scared" talk after marriage. And i sure don't want a troubled marriage so a non virgin would do just fine for me.

And i have no interest to "dis-virgin" anyone. Virgin or not that's their issue. The last one I dated put the fear of virgins into me. Kept blabbing about me not sleeping with anyone else after her till marriage. I simply told her to leave and take her virginity with her.

Your response proves my point. Thank you.

dabriggs:
Your response proves my point. Thank you.

I don't think it does. You assumed every guy wants to have a feeling of ownership or takes pride in being the first to sleep with a girl.

I don't. I don't care if I'm the first or the 1000th. As long as she's healthy and makes me happy, I'm fine.

So when i come across those girls who think their virginity is something I should be impressed by, i simply walk on the other side of the road.

For me, virginity is nothing. What is most important is being able to make each other happy.

Virgins are no fun. Their inexperience is unbearable

Disvirgining a girl is not a days work,u go chook chook tire u fit get muscle pull sef for penisz

You are so damn wrong bro.

dabriggs:
That is not true. Men just detest what they can not have. There is no man who would not want a virgin as a wife or who would not want to be the one to dis-virgin a girl. Forget what ever grammar men speak. It is all lies. As a matter of fact many will come and argue against this. But pay no attention to them. Girls who are virgins are a little bit difficult to seduce nowadays. Especially after their teenage years. Men get angry at this fact and normally look for easy girls. Hence they go about trying to make the virgins feel ''unspecial'' so that they can be easy prey and loosen up.

It is almost the same thing when a virgin has her girlfriends laughing at her for being a virgin. Just because they are jealous that her virginity judges their promiscuity in a way. They laugh and deride her so she will loose her virginity and join their ''status''. I can guarantee you, when men seek for a wife, they do not want a slut who will sleep around! Forget all the grammar we speak in beer parlors about wanting a bad girl. We end up with many non-virgins because when we are ready to settle down we cant find a virgin to do so with.

Why do we want virgins? Because we want a faithful wife. Infidelity hits a man at his ego! It deflates him so much that another man is enjoying or taking his ''property'' (Yes ''Property''. I decided not to be politically/socially correct). Also all men want good kids. Especially daughters. No man wants his daughters to be sluts either. Of course it does not mean all virgins are non promiscuous. After all every woman was once a virgin. Neither does it mean that only virgins raise morally upright daughter. It is Just that it gives us peace of mind to know that we have a woman who has experience in controlling her sexual desires and can teach our daughters same. It boosts our egos that we have something that no other man has tasted. It makes us proud.

So do not mind the men. Men say this to make girls easy targets for sex. It is almost a contradiction. Because they want all women to be sluts but they would not want a slut in their family. I hear ladies say they heard a guy somewhere say he does not want a virgin who will not satisfy him in bed bla bla bla. That is bullshit!!! Every man is looking for a sweet virgin he can marry, then corrupt her to his taste.

falconey:
is like trying to rescue chibok girls in sambisa forest with a stick.........only strong and mature men can do it.

lmao sicko..

TDstarr:
MY VIRGIN GF WHO I JUST DISVIRGINED THINK SHE IS DOING ME A FAVOUR BY SLEEPING WITH ME, AM TRYING TO KNOW WHAT SHE LIKES ON BED BUT SHE IS STILL LOW MINDED, TODAY SHE TOLD ME I SHOULD BE GREATFUL THAT SHE SLEPT WITH ME LAST NIGHT , THAT WAS WHEN I TOOK MY BATH , GOT DRESSED, SPRAYED NICE PERFUME, AND LEFT HER AM SO GOING TO CHEAT ON HER, SHE DOESNT EVEN KNOW HOW TO KISS

very silly comment.

1. she actually did you a favour to allow u disvirgin her when u not married, u know how many virgins are there disciplined enough saying its till wedding night and they are keeping to it??

2.she truly does love u to allow u, virgins dont make a mistake to allow someone they dont love disvirgin them (in nigeria though)

3. you disvirgined her and u want her to tell u what she loves doing and she does not know how to kiss and she is low minded all this on the poor lady after you disvirgined her? if she sabi all this u said would she still be a virgin? you need brain test

Well to some guys saying the only issue they have about marrying a virgin is because they are inexperienced, very silly folds of dude? so if you get married you have it in mind to turn your wife to your personal porn star because you are the husband? is that not a foolish thought??

Talking about inexperience is absurd, this innocent ladies dont know 'anything' and its your right to teach her? abi u sef bring talent to straff come from heaven? no be peer groups u learn from??

Some guys saying some ladies they disvirgined are the worst ladies they've met? what has been a virgin got to do with someones personal behaviour?

Am not proving saint that i havnt done it before but i sincerely respect virgins and i pray to get married to a virgin i love, she bbeen a virgin is just a luck for me has nothing to do with why i married her, would only marry someone i love then if she was a virgin then its my luck.

Am not saying ladies that are disvirgined already are loosed but even in marriage some ladies fall into their ex prey hand when their husbands are not around, not all but some ladies cant stop thinking about some ex and been in the room with such ex, u would get it done again not bbecause you are loosed but bbecause you have done it before.

i for one still pray for someone i love to get married to and she bbeen a virgin would make mme care and love her more.

balash:
Well to some guys saying the only issue they have about marrying a virgin is because they are inexperienced, very silly folds of dude? so if you get married you have it in mind to turn your wife to your personal porn star because you are the husband? is that not a foolish thought??

Talking about inexperience is absurd, this innocent ladies dont know 'anything' and its your right to teach her? abi u sef bring talent to straff come from heaven? no be peer groups u learn from??

Some guys saying some ladies they disvirgined are the worst ladies they've met? what has been a virgin got to do with someones personal behaviour?

Am not proving saint that i havnt done it before but i sincerely respect virgins and i pray to get married to a virgin i love, she bbeen a virgin is just a luck for me has nothing to do with why i married her, would only marry someone i love then if she was a virgin then its my luck.

Am not saying ladies that are disvirgined already are loosed but even in marriage some ladies fall into their ex prey hand when their husbands are not around, not all but some ladies cant stop thinking about some ex and been in the room with such ex, u would get it done again not bbecause you are loosed but bbecause you have done it before.

i for one still pray for someone i love to get married to and she bbeen a virgin would make mme care and love her more.

pls can u marry me already

tainee:
pls can u marry me already

Lol Funny U

nairaland boys always making virgins feel like they have offended the gods of the land.

tainee:
Most of my male friends keep saying that they don't like virgins and are not ready to go thru hard work to disvirgin any girl.... Is it that much of a hard work? pls I need answers!

They are way damn to lazy

Virginity is not necessarily chastity, it could just be as a result of lack of desired opportunities to get undone.

My first virgin ex girlfriend of 4 years ago still calls and adores me till date saying she has not met a guy that thinks the way I do just because I didn't convince her much to give in to me after my first few trials. She trembled in fear and sweated profusely each time (make i no go kill person pikin ).Perhaps she would never know the truth is that I lost interest because the whole being a virgin thing was and is still overrated

dabriggs:
That is not true. Men just detest what they can not have. There is no man who would not want a virgin as a wife or who would not want to be the one to dis-virgin a girl. Forget what ever grammar men speak. It is all lies. As a matter of fact many will come and argue against this. But pay no attention to them. Girls who are virgins are a little bit difficult to seduce nowadays. Especially after their teenage years. Men get angry at this fact and normally look for easy girls. Hence they go about trying to make the virgins feel ''unspecial'' so that they can be easy prey and loosen up.

It is almost the same thing when a virgin has her girlfriends laughing at her for being a virgin. Just because they are jealous that her virginity judges their promiscuity in a way. They laugh and deride her so she will loose her virginity and join their ''status''. I can guarantee you, when men seek for a wife, they do not want a slut who will sleep around! Forget all the grammar we speak in beer parlors about wanting a bad girl. We end up with many non-virgins because when we are ready to settle down we cant find a virgin to do so with.

Why do we want virgins? Because we want a faithful wife. Infidelity hits a man at his ego! It deflates him so much that another man is enjoying or taking his ''property'' (Yes ''Property''. I decided not to be politically/socially correct). Also all men want good kids. Especially daughters. No man wants his daughters to be sluts either. Of course it does not mean all virgins are non promiscuous. After all every woman was once a virgin. Neither does it mean that only virgins raise morally upright daughter. It is Just that it gives us peace of mind to know that we have a woman who has experience in controlling her sexual desires and can teach our daughters same. It boosts our egos that we have something that no other man has tasted. It makes us proud.

So do not mind the men. Men say this to make girls easy targets for sex. It is almost a contradiction. Because they want all women to be sluts but they would not want a slut in their family. I hear ladies say they heard a guy somewhere say he does not want a virgin who will not satisfy him in bed bla bla bla. That is bullshit!!! Every man is looking for a sweet virgin he can marry, then corrupt her to his taste.

Do virgins really exist in our soceity? And I find it rude asking, if one is a v or not. Yes every man will want someone unplucked, but to find a virgin that is beautiful and Mercy Johnson curves. Omo you go wait till next life. I believe a man should just find who he falls in love with virgin or no virgin. A lady that is honest,humble with strong parental background is good to go. Some men don't like V's because of the issue of seeing blood and inexperience. Besides there is a new lying technique ladies are now doing, towards their menstrual periods, they will trick the guy that they haven't done it before, so when the guy penetrates and maybe the pussy was abit tight, the guy will be like ah! My girl na virgin but all na wash lol

If they want 2 de-flower themselves they can do it in a blink but if u've already de-flowered urself u can't be a virgin 4 life.
Just let them be.

dabriggs:
That is not true. Men just detest what they can not have. There is no man who would not want a virgin as a wife or who would not want to be the one to dis-virgin a girl. Forget what ever grammar men speak. It is all lies. As a matter of fact many will come and argue against this. But pay no attention to them. Girls who are virgins are a little bit difficult to seduce nowadays. Especially after their teenage years. Men get angry at this fact and normally look for easy girls. Hence they go about trying to make the virgins feel ''unspecial'' so that they can be easy prey and loosen up.

It is almost the same thing when a virgin has her girlfriends laughing at her for being a virgin. Just because they are jealous that her virginity judges their promiscuity in a way. They laugh and deride her so she will loose her virginity and join their ''status''. I can guarantee you, when men seek for a wife, they do not want a slut who will sleep around! Forget all the grammar we speak in beer parlors about wanting a bad girl. We end up with many non-virgins because when we are ready to settle down we cant find a virgin to do so with.

Why do we want virgins? Because we want a faithful wife. Infidelity hits a man at his ego! It deflates him so much that another man is enjoying or taking his ''property'' (Yes ''Property''. I decided not to be politically/socially correct). Also all men want good kids. Especially daughters. No man wants his daughters to be sluts either. Of course it does not mean all virgins are non promiscuous. After all every woman was once a virgin. Neither does it mean that only virgins raise morally upright daughter. It is Just that it gives us peace of mind to know that we have a woman who has experience in controlling her sexual desires and can teach our daughters same. It boosts our egos that we have something that no other man has tasted. It makes us proud.

So do not mind the men. Men say this to make girls easy targets for sex. It is almost a contradiction. Because they want all women to be sluts but they would not want a slut in their family. I hear ladies say they heard a guy somewhere say he does not want a virgin who will not satisfy him in bed bla bla bla. That is bullshit!!! Every man is looking for a sweet virgin he can marry, then corrupt her to his taste.

u will live long and born quadruplets.

TDstarr:
MY VIRGIN GF WHO I JUST DISVIRGINED THINK SHE IS DOING ME A FAVOUR BY SLEEPING WITH ME, AM TRYING TO KNOW WHAT SHE LIKES ON BED BUT SHE IS STILL LOW MINDED, TODAY SHE TOLD ME I SHOULD BE GREATFUL THAT SHE SLEPT WITH ME LAST NIGHT , THAT WAS WHEN I TOOK MY BATH , GOT DRESSED, SPRAYED NICE PERFUME, AND LEFT HER AM SO GOING TO CHEAT ON HER, SHE DOESNT EVEN KNOW HOW TO KISS

Was she biting you and telling you but am kissing you already now,what else do you want me to do if this isn't kissing for you.

I have no phobia for virgins. I only have a phobia for ladies who cannot demonstrate intelligence, loyalty, caring and nurturing skills, and cullinery skills.
Then the hard truth! We can never know who is a virgin or who is not, even if she tells you she is. No way to know if she was telling you the truth, unless you believe in premarital sex.
Gentlemen, to be on a safer side during your search for Miss Right, focus on the qualities you want in a woman that can build a great home, such as financial prudence, belief in your dreams, respect for you, intelligence and of course, spirituality.
Finally, as much as I don think a virgin is a guarantee for a sure, happy, blissful relationship, I however think that a promiscous lady is a disaster for any guy who values his future better than a great sex.