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Hello guys...

I have a problem and this has to do with wooing a girl. I have dated a few times but not the kind of girls I have a taste for because of my approach.

I like beautiful ladies, especially those that are naturally and facially beautiful but speaking to them when I see one has been a problem.

I am not the social type of person and I have only been able to over come my introversion by 50%.

Here is the thing. I am always home and anytime I go out is just to see friends. In between my transit to see friends or relatives, I do meet gorgeous girls once a while on my way. Most times this occur at the center of my city where one can board a bus.

In my mind, I would admire them but because of the location I dread making any move in order to avoid being embarrassed. Or maybe that my fear and a figment of my imagination.

Also I don't know how to break the ice and initiate the convo... Everything in admiration ends my mind and after missing them due to the crowd and delay in my part to take action, I start hating myself.

I missed one less than 5 days ago and right now I feel so bad... It's serious problem and I need real help. I also believe some guys have this problem as well.


Would a lady act rude in such an environment? Have you ever wooed a lady in crowded gathering of your City? Please share your experience and help me out. Ladies should also help here. Thanks

Hehehe.

Just walk up to her with a smile(make it genuine or fake it genuinely) And just say hi. Anything she says from their is enough to start agood convo.

You can start practicing talking to beautiful girls either by just asking for directions from them or you talk to the ones who are paid to talk to you i.e waiters, shop attendants e.t.c

DeeBoiyy:
Hehehe.

Just walk up to her with a smile(make it genuine or fake it genuinely) And just say hi. Anything she says from their is enough to start agood convo.

You can start practicing talking to beautiful girls either by just asking for directions from them or you talk to the ones who are paid to talk to you i.e waiters, shop attendants e.t.c

Someone who lacks courage can't just walk up to a lady in public like that.

@op, I understand your situation, schools,clubs,churches,cinema,event centers,banks,malls,stadiums,facebook,packs,beach,airport,filling station etc. These are the few places you can get a lady.

Hope you get PVC? You will meet many ladies at polling centre during the election. Just make sure you get digits of like 10 girls, I'm sure one go gree date you at the end of the day. Lolz!

Brb...

Eyah ...

OP I've been in ur shoes or Rather I'm still working on it.

1st of all u need to realize dat the lady is human and despite the make up she still has flaws and is imperfect.

secondly, don't get ur hopes up when trying to talk to a girl. in fact always picture the worst case senerio in ur head and expect it.

Also, make ur conversation brief and straight to the point. with a little joke in between. the joke can help lighten her mood and can also increase ur chances. when I say lighten her mood u can never tell if she is having a bad day.


Most importantly, have confidence it really helps.

#cheers

Op, you just have to overcome these inhibitions and approach them. Life is too short to not do what you want.
Trust me on this, there are a lot of things I wish I would have done but now I just can't.
So Op, live your life to the fullest while it lasts

I just want to say thanks to everyone who commented. Much appreciated.