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| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by Wendy80(f): 10:52am On Feb 21, 2015 |
Kedam:Don't mind d babe. Don't think she needs advice. She has already made up her mind on what to do. If not, she would've bn here to tell NLanders the way things are without been biased to her husband,so she can get proper advice. She's making it look like her husband is d devil now. |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by Kedam(m): 11:27am On Feb 21, 2015 |
Wendy80:The truth is, when trying to figure out solution to some problems there is need to give us the details her husbands fault and her faults so as to enable us give her a useful and non sentimental advice. She can't tell us she is saint Uzo. I can't tell her to leave and I can't tell her to stay she will be responsible for whatever decision she takes. 1 Like |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by uzo4Christ(op): 3:32pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
[quote author=MarvellousGod post=30938559]Why are most of the comments focused on how many children she has within 6 years of marriage? ? The deed's already been done, she's only seeking for advice. .. Op, please don't leave your children and run for any reason. . Leave them and run to where exactly? ? Don't make innocent children pay for the misfortune in your marriage, they didn't beg you to bring them into this world so you should bear the responsibilities. .. What does your husband do at Abuja? Have you talked to your family or his about what's going on with both of you? ? Why's your husband running away from home? Do you make lifeunbearable for him cos he's jobless or he's simply irresponsible? ? You need to pray to God too.. and Don't get pregnant again please.. All the best and please this is the time your children need you most, don't abandon them.. Esp. as a father figure is almost absent in their lives, don't make them live like orphans. .. Stay strong and God bless...[/quote]tanks alot am so grntfu. |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by uzo4Christ(op): 4:08pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Tnks a lot,may God bless u al 4 ur contributions *wel,hv oly bin preng twice in myuy life tym n recivd double frm abv twice,hu do I blame? *a,mmm in my mid 20s *i wrk *my hubby claims he wil esly get a job in abj n dz y hs dai,notin hz hapnd yt * am Angry BCS I fil we shud b livn 2geda bt we r nt,hs turnd me 2 a single mu,,takn kia of d kids as a wrkn mum hsnt bin easy.I dot hv a maid! *wrds cnt xprex wat am xatly goin tru in details.bt ....... I fil bera 2day,ttnkks alotttt 2 al of u hu contributed wixly,uur wrds js made mi strnga fan I use 2 b. GOD bles uu all |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by uzo4Christ(op): 4:16pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
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| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Feb 21, 2015*. Modified: 5:27pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
uzo4Christ:Please try and speak in English You are a wife and a mum of 4 kids If your kids write like this in their schoolbooks you will not be happy with them You are their role model now in the absense of their dad They are watching and listening to you This is the real world People take you as you present yourself You come accross as an 16 year old secondary school girl No one will take you seriously, even in the workplace if you communicate like this Most people will find this annoying Back to topic. The kids are your own responsibility (you and your husbands) & not your MIL's or your husbands familys responsibility. Yes your case is peculiar as you wanted 2 but ended up with 4. Thats Gods wish If Mohammed wont go to the mountain, then maybe you should move to Mohammed. Is there anything stopping you from going to Abuja? Two heads are better than one This is your cross, and no one else will carry it for you. Everyone has their own cross to bear in their own marriages & lives You need to understand that and you both need to sit down and work out ways of resolving this & trying to effect a better future for the 6 of you For a start its costing you double you both living in different towns. 4 Likes |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
uzo4Christ:My goodness! This is abysmal. Why would anyone write like this? 1 Like |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by cococandy(f): 4:51pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
ileobatojo:killed some brain cells trying to read that.  ************************************** OP it is well. The lord is your strength. Maybe you can get his people to talk him into coming home to help you take care of his kids. Or if you know where he stays in Abuja, pay him a surprise visit to ascertain the state of things over there by yourself. So that you won't waste too much of your time waiting on something that's never going to happen or a life you're never going to get. But whatever you do, don't leave your kids for anyone. |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by Ewuro4: 5:12pm On Feb 21, 2015*. Modified: 6:01pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
uzo4Christ:2 set of twins??  Praise God! You're blessed madam, many of us  ( maybe not me persay) will kill to have what you're toying with. Also, Madam please this is a public forum, my eyes hurt reading and trying to comprehend your text speak post( according to Damiso ) I'm glad you came out stronger from all criticism, please don't spite your husband or anyone for that matter using your kids as the tool, they didn't ask for this. I wonder what hubby's doing in Abj when he could've used the extra to cater for the family instead. Abj is not cheap to live. God will multiply the work of your hands, He will strengthen and lift you, you'll not be put to shame, just the fact that you care for these children and struggle to make ends meet for them. Just trust Him. |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by pickabeau1: 6:10pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:I wonder 1 Like |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by 1miccza: 7:10pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Uzo4christ,i want you to know here that you are the only one that still believes in your marriage,your partner has since lost interest ,he might even have someone else in abuja without your knowledge since God has been helping you with the kids,pray for more strength and look for more opportunities that would enable you to cater for your kids,don't take them to your in laws 2 Likes |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by baby124: 8:20pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
I have 3 things to say on this: 1) stop typing like an slowpoke 2) don't open your legs for that man till he gets tested. I have a feeling he's a gigolo or doing something funny in that Abuja. Protect yourself and use condom if you can't hold body when he's around. 3) your Mil was not there when the two of you were banging away. If what you need is help, you can invite her to help with the kids while you work. But don't ever drop your kids for her. It's not her responsibility 1 Like |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by gidjah(m): 9:44pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Go get something doing ma.you can start a small scale business .do you in to any living church at all ?are you commited?in talk to your pastor and see what steps he will take .pls stop baby bringing o!you are bringing the kids to this world to suffer no matter the amount of money you have.you just do not need too many children |
| Re: Pls I Need Help,do I Drop My Kids Wit My Muminlaw N Run Off? by Ewuro4: 10:02pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
^^ she's doing something. Just not enough since the man refused to pitch in his responsibility. And for God's sake they're 2 set of twins. |
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