There is a lady I cherish so much in my heart for a long time... and am planning in approaching her..
And I wanna make it fast because I may not be the only one taking a look at her ...
But what discourages me is that I am 8 years older than her. Actually she's still young... but I want nurse her and develop her.,planning to write her waec.. she's 16 and am 25....D QUESTION IS SHOULD I PROPOSE OR STEP BACK.... D GAP BETWEEN US SCARES ME AND MAKE ME DISINTERESTED ....ADVICE PLS

You do realize that in sane climates this is illegal right?

No, Don't!
You're referring to a 16 year old as a lady already? She's still too young, so please let her finish her WAEC and best still, let her get into a higher institution first.
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She's just still too young for such, please. You're not in the Northern part of the country or a Muslim.
My advice? Please back off and let that feelings either die off or cool off. If she's yours; who knows? you might just get her in the nearer future BUT certainly NOT now!
#Que Sera Sera.

leonard10:
There is a lady I cherish so much in my heart for a long time... and am planning in approaching her..
And I wanna make it fast because I may not be the only one taking a look at her ...
But what discourages me is that I am 8 years older than her. Actually she's still young... but I want nurse her and develop her.,planning to write her waec.. she's 16 and am 25 ....D QUESTION IS SHOULD I PROPOSE OR STEP BACK.... D GAP BETWEEN US SCARES ME AND MAKE ME DISINTERESTED ....ADVICE PLS

Bros well done!

So u want to pluck an unripe cherry abi? Wait until she is ripe

abeg!! Nah wetin real madrid play yesterday??

Don't tell her yet, just be her friend. Be nice to her

But be careful not to let her friend zone or brother zone you

Now I don't know the difference between you and Yerima!

Are u a muslim? If u are u can go ahead with the consent of her parents. But if not, u go back out niyen oo

Mynd44:
You do realize that in sane climates this is illegal right?

I think its called child abuse

pedo right there!

you're like tyga going after kylie.

You must be a harlot. She's under 18 for pete's sake. Nurse ko educate ni.


Shior

Undeveloped pussy dh move you

Abeg, wait till she reach 18yrs abeg, i take God beg u.

Bro propose Jare, we've got ya back!

If Yerima can do it, why shouldn't u?

Yeye dey smell

She is sixteen? Biko, the girl has her whole life ahead of her. No come pour sand for her garri

Thanks very much to you all to those who 1 adviced me with respect 2 for those who mock me 3 to those who insult and rubbish me for sharing my mind... THANKS TO YOU ALL

falconey:
bro I understand you...........because of her fresh boobs? I bet she doesn't use bra

Weyrey

@op. She is still too young..
It's called child abuse in a sane society..
Paedophilia is da name aswell..

Mayb u shud give her two to three years.

leonard10:
There is a lady I cherish so much in my heart for a long time... and am planning in approaching her..
And I wanna make it fast because I may not be the only one taking a look at her ...
But what discourages me is that I am 8 years older than her. Actually she's still young... but I want nurse her and develop her.,planning to write her waec.. she's 16 and am 25....D QUESTION IS SHOULD I PROPOSE OR STEP BACK.... D GAP BETWEEN US SCARES ME AND MAKE ME DISINTERESTED ....ADVICE PLS

Guy that's a child not a lady. How come u don't know the difference?

leonard10:
There is a lady I cherish so much in my heart for a long time... and am planning in approaching her..
And I wanna make it fast because I may not be the only one taking a look at her ...
But what discourages me is that I am 8 years older than her. Actually she's still young... but I want nurse her and develop her.,planning to write her waec.. she's 16 and am 25....D QUESTION IS SHOULD I PROPOSE OR STEP BACK.... D GAP BETWEEN US SCARES ME AND MAKE ME DISINTERESTED ....ADVICE PLS

Look for an adult and leave that innocent child to grow first, far too young to be thinking about marriage now.

At 16? Hmmm, this guy likes "sweet sixteen". We call that child abuse.

Don't allow your sentiments over-cloud your reasoning. Even at this your age, I don't think you are readily ready in some ramifications.

BTW, even if it so happens that you propose and marry her so that you groom her up into what you desire; you might loose at the end of the day.

Sebi she's still a teenager and her eyes never clear. When her eyes clear wella, e go clear pass your own.

Peace out!



~>>MaLady<<~

under our laws she is still a child. If you love her so much why don't you wait two years until she is eighteen and then ask her out. By then she will legally be an adult and who knows if she will agree to your proposal. Beyonce started dating Jayz when she was 19 yrs and there is a 12yrs difference in their age so yours isn't too bad. If you ask her out now and she agrees and you sleep with her at age 16 even with her consent it is still a crime.

You have my endorsement,go ahead and ask her out

Even the 18years old girl..i wanna woo sef..i jes dey press brake anytime we are together..simply because am 5years older than her...
Bro biko Give her like 3 to 4years more

agrovick:

Weyrey

you have no idea

U heard what people said. So do the needful.

Op she is still a kid ooh, relationship should b d least on her mind nw.