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A lot of women seem to think BUTT is their greatest ASSet. And they will use it with the quickness to attract a man. But here's the one fatal flaw in that strategy ladies:

When a man is attracted to your butt, your butt is what he's really after. And just like a kid with a new toy; once he's done playing with your butt and the newness of it has worn off, he'll be off to find his next plaything.

A man will typically start losing interest in new butt right around the 3 month mark. Six at the latest. By then he's already done any and every nasty, freaky thing to it he can imagine. The novelty of playing with it wears off.

And it won't be long before NEW butt is on the menu.

You ever seen a kid who has every toy you can mention, having a hissy fit at the store because his mom won't buy the newest toy on the shelf? Does he really need a new toy to play with? Nope. But he wants it anyway, because it's something new.

And that's how men are when it comes to butts.

When you do everything in your power to accentuate your derriere, trying to pull a man's attention, you're actually appealing to the child in him. You're appealing to his low attention span, just like the new toy appeals to a kid.

So expecting him to 'man up' one day and treat you like a wife is wishing on a star at best.

I'm just providing a little relationship game for you, because I see way too much attention placed on BUTTS, and little attention given to BRAINS. Whichever you use to attract a guy is what he'll want you for in the end.

http://www.chichinwaafrica.com/2015/02/chi-chis-corner-ladys-butt-is-not-asset.html?m=1

Dorobloody!!!

tell them jare. Especially during selfies

Is this pic a bumfie?

This is the butty truth.

if this is true then how are we supposed to stick with one woman all our lives? whether it is butt, bo.bs, or face? cos in my opinion marriage is just a ceremony. it doesn't change ones mindset...

Don't completely agree with this. Every relationship, even those that lead to marriage always start from a point of attraction. let's take the example in the article, those men who get attracted to women cuz of their bums and use and dump them end up being married to some women too. The women they end up getting married to also attracted them with something.

If you have it, flaunt it. A man who will stay will stay and a man who won't stay with you won't stay even if you cover your assets from head to toe. There are women who dress like deeper life members but still end up being jilted by men. If a woman attracts a man with her bum, and d man after getting to know her is impressed by her character and intelligence then he might stay. So women should continue to flaunt their God given gifts. we like it like that.

This is really deep. It's a pity that a lot of people will misunderstand it. Some have even started. Thumbs up, @Op.

@Op, u sound like u don't have the kinda butt men are attracted to ... Pele u hear? And I disagree with you... If what you wrote is the way u see it, then If a man gets attracted to you because of intelligence, he'll also leave you when he meets another woman more intelligent than you are. Even if u have brains, u have to have the right attitude that suites him .... Ur personality keeps him

hmm...i reserve my comment

For one, I'm very glad this is an objective post. No gender bashing or name calling of any sort.

OP you are very right. As much as I like a girl with a nice butt, it comes a distant third/fourth in what I really want in a woman. The butt might get me interested, but only it won't keep me interested.

Looks like mercy Johnson

Judas Christ of Nazareth!!!
Where in seven bloody hells did I keep my Vaseline?!!?

So, its about the poo factory now abi
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akinsadeez:
Don't completely agree with this. Every relationship, even those that lead to marriage always start from a point of attraction. let's take the example in the article, those men who get attracted to women cuz of their bums and use and dump them end up being married to some women too. The women they end up getting married to also attracted them with something.

If you have it, flaunt it. A man who will stay will stay and a man who won't stay with you won't stay even if you cover your assets from head to toe. There are women who dress like deeper life members but still end up being jilted by men. If a woman attracts a man with her bum, and d man after getting to know her is impressed by her character and intelligence then he might stay. So women should continue to flaunt their God given gifts. we like it like that.

you couldn't have said it any better. Something must attract a man to a lady, most times its the size of a lovely asss. If after he explores it and still find you interesting then he will keep you its as simple as that

Nigeria girl would not hear, they believe in use what you have to get what you want.