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Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Sunymoore(m): 11:02pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Hmm... Let it pass |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
This should be in family section or crime section. Ishilove please do the needful 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Ishilove: 4:09am On Feb 25, 2015 |
If she were my sister, what would I want? I'd want you to report to her parents. Mr A is a perverted lecher who doesn't mind ruining the girl's life. He has introduced her to sex,and even when he stops sleeping with the girl, she will always hunger for it and she will go outside to look for it. She is very young and naïve, and she is being led astray. Report this man to the girl's parents, but be very very smart about it. Set them up but make sure there is no way it will be traced to you. Remember that one day you will have a female child (that is if you don't have one already), would you want this to happen to her? 14 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Nobody: 7:53am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Op, morally, you are guilty also. The longer you keep this, the more grievous your involvement. You are shielding a criminal and watching a child being taken advantage of. Tell her brother, advice him not to let your roommate know you did. Both of you can arrange to catch them in the act. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Nobody: 8:20am On Feb 25, 2015 |
First of all start looking for a new place to live straight away. Youve already spoken to Miss j and Mr A and they have ignored you . . so time to do someting else. I am sure that you have this girls parents number. Send them an anonymous text message letting them know what is happening As parents, they will know how to deal with it cos really at the end of the day, if the girl gets pregnant or anything happens, as they parents, they are the ones who will have to deal with all the mess. When faced with making descsions always go for the one that is morally right and one that will please God. It may be a difficult and hard descsion at the time, but everything that we do is a seed and we will reap it at some point in our lives. Dont be worried about accomodation, cos I beleive that God will open a door of favour for you & God can easily raise helpers for you too. 11 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by LadyX(f): 8:37am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Op, If you continue telling your friend to stop because it's wrong, they will find another place where they can do it without your knowledge. You need to tell the girl's parents or the brother. The sooner you do it the better. If she gets pregnant, you won't be able to disentangle yourself. You will be seen as an accomplice to the crime. You can set a trap as some people have suggested or call the mum with an unknown number when you know they are in the act so that she catches them herself. Lastly, look for another accomodation. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Amhappy(f): 8:40am On Feb 25, 2015 |
I love CC comment. The right decision is one that will stop them from continuing the act. So OP dont look away,do the right thing. May God help you. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by sweetcocoa(f): 9:07am On Feb 25, 2015 |
OP find a way to anonymously send miss J's parent a message, letting them know what's happening to their child. Please waste no further time. That beast shouldn't be allowed to get away with this. |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Nobody: 9:34am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Having sex with a 16years old girl is just too heinous,already the girl has been turned to a sex machine,please try to scare the girl with pregnancy and sex related diseases, if it doesn't work,talk to your guy extensively, if possible,beg him to stop all this madness,if he persist,stage a walk-in with MR B while they are at it,sincerely speaking some guys lack the respect for womanhood |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by ignis: 9:39am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Expose him immediately. ... |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by stinggy(m): 9:40am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Sexing a mirror RIP English dafuq is the Mod that loaded that shii? |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by lordsharks(m): 9:41am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Report |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by johnjon: 9:41am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Ewwwww, he disflowered the girl. What a wicked guy, Move away from him, and then report him. Or you mind your business. Choose 1. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Sacramento4real(m): 9:43am On Feb 25, 2015 |
MyPWisINCORRECT:My thought,bro. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by freezyprinzy(m): 9:43am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Tell! Tell!! Tell!!! Arrant nansense 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by BodyKiss(m): 9:46am On Feb 25, 2015 |
MyPWisINCORRECT: What nonsense? You're a very stvpíd psychologist. 8 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by cecegorz(m): 9:48am On Feb 25, 2015 |
MyPWisINCORRECT:Even Psychologists do need mental check-up. 13 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by incrediblestev: 9:48am On Feb 25, 2015 |
akinsadeez:crime in which country exactly, abi you think say na America we dey...... You have been listening too much to tyga and kyle shut lately. In this condition, I can only do two things, either tell her brother or mind my damn business, matter of fact, mind your business. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by donigspain(m): 9:49am On Feb 25, 2015 |
[size=18pt]Secretly record a conversation between YOU and MR A where you are seriously warning/advising him to desist from the evil act. That is your ALIBI bro.[/size] Do whatever you feel right afterwards! 7 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by femmy2010(m): 9:49am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Talk to Mr A and Lady J to stop their illicit relationship as it would only breed a future harm than good BUT don't ever do the mistake of telling Mr B or his parents about this. It is wise for you not to be the cause of the impending break in relationship between Mr A and Mr B's family. That is my frank advise. |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by ozedb(m): 9:50am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Walk away now that it still fresh |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Holuwathoby(m): 9:50am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Politely tell Mr B to caution her younger sister that u r SUSPECTING Miss J IS ABT TO START AN AFFAIR with Mr A. Never tell Mr B that they are having d affair already. Tell Mr B in a way dt he wont hav to fight with either Miss J or Mr A, since u will just tell Mr A dt u only suspect such affair and by that, no one can put u inbetween. Mr B if really care abt Miss J will further find out by himself. Tnx 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Nobody: 9:51am On Feb 25, 2015 |
If at all your story is true , which I doubt of course , then your best bet should be to move out from that association/house/environment since your Mr A has failed to heed to your advice . Diplomacy is the name of the caution you should apply now . You telling Miss J's relatives will further deepen your fracas with Mr A who happen to be your benefactor . To this end , I say wash off your hands and allow nature to take its cause in the situation . Diplomacy is different from lie . 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by ceejay80s(m): 9:51am On Feb 25, 2015 |
What happened to mr and mrs X,Y,Z |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by ethylene: 9:52am On Feb 25, 2015 |
changes1: |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by loke(f): 9:53am On Feb 25, 2015 |
patrick89:Ithink this is a good idea and I hope it works. |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Prince202020(m): 9:53am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Guy leave them alone and mine your own business, you have done the needful already by telling Mr A not to, yet he went ahead, nna focus on your program to ensure success. P3ĂC3 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by akinsadeez(m): 9:54am On Feb 25, 2015 |
incrediblestev: You don't know anything. It is a crime in Nigeria. This is something that we charge people for everyday and yes, they do get convicted. I gave you the section of the child's right act where it is and you are still talking about America. If the parents of d girl are keen on pursuing the case the guy will be charged and most likely convicted. 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Nihilist: 9:55am On Feb 25, 2015 |
The only thing Mr A is doing wrong, is betraying his friend's trust by strafing Mr B's sister. 15 going on 16 isn't underage. To put it in perspective, you can get married at 14 in Nigeria 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by instaforexngr(m): 9:58am On Feb 25, 2015 |
akinsadeez:good advice |
Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by cold(m): 9:58am On Feb 25, 2015 |
How long have you got to stay? You probably don't have much left from the six months. I'd suggest you do any telling at the wee end of your stay. Because if you try to rock the boat now both of you will be kicked out. Where would you stay and complete the rest of your program?Some issues require tact & wisdom to deal with. Yes what mr whatever is doing is statutory rapé but you have to look at the bigger picture. Until the end of your program continue to plead with your friend to see the egregious error he is making and the consequences of such. Use subtle threats but don't be overly aggressive except you've made alternative arrangements to live elsewhere for the remainder of your stay. Just saying |
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