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Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Reference(m): 4:33pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
TrishaP: Women. When problem arises they know the man is captain of the ship but when the beastiness emerges they are lion and you are lion tamer. Kwarraption. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by 50calibre(m): 4:33pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Omotolu: Dumbo!! For how long is he going to continue walking out when there's a disagreement? |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Reference(m): 4:35pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Dyt: Okay. Just be consistent in all cases of DV or else you are kwarrapt. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by AmaechiLinus(m): 4:36pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
I don't wnt to read d story but my advice is dat let him kill himself to avoid reoccurence. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by LewisO: 4:38pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
igbsam:Mr And-to-ny... I Modified it to tell u... This is the funniest post that got me "lolling" big time on Nairaland! Funny you! |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by AmakaDNB(f): 4:40pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Hahahahahahahhaha |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by poppop: 4:41pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bokom:u married her n dts ur cross 2bear. Dtz hw oyibo do so manage her. Discuss n agree on funds b4 transfer. Send evyone out of ur home for peace sake. If all else fails, get Lola Okoye's oyibo mum to advise her. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by masterp24: 4:42pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
[quote author=missjenna post=31170555]Op, I read your post and I have to say that I am sorry you found yourself in this situation. First of all, the fact that you have endured through the beating and you have controlled yourself from hitting back all this while shows how responsible and mature you are. I wonder how many Nigerian men would let their wives hit them and they wouldn't hit back. Irrespective of her race. Having said that, I think from everything you wrote, your wife is only annoyed because of the fact that you are giving financial assistance to your brother Op, let me ask you this question, how huge is the money that you are disbursing to your family. Perhaps its a bit too much and hence your wife finding fault. I believe you and your wife should sit together and talk things through. Explain to her why you have to help your brother. Tell her that if not from the help your brother rendered to you, you wouldn't have met her in the first place Your wife is a business minded woman. She believes the business won't grow as it is supposed to, if you keep on giving money out I think you and your wife should sit down and plan your spending You should agree on the amount of money you would dissipate to your family I think she should understand I also believe your wife gets angry because of the fact that you don't inform her before you give money to your people You both run a partnership business with the same account number so its best you inform her before lending out money Op I believe your wife loves you and you love her equally. Please don't let this issue lead to any problem in your marriage. Your wife is hot tempered and you should talk to her. Caucasians tend to respond to talks Sit her down and advise her to improve on herself. She can be better person. Or better still, get the services of a marriage counselor Dis is jst d best option for u in dis mata if d problem persist pls ask for help of a gud experince marriage cancilor I have1 and I can link u to him,he has been in marriage for 50years so he nos more abt d marriage business.. Contact me if u dnt mind +2347038905250 thanks 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
50calibre:...for as long as she resorts to violence... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by 50calibre(m): 4:44pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
I don't see myself tolerating a physically abusive wife for even the shortest time. The exit seems the only way out for the OP at this point, there's no point trying to fix what's unfixable. Only an irrational or suicidal woman would have the guts to keep attacking her husband knowing how badly that could turn out for her. The OP needs to flee as soon as possible, because his marriage to that woman is just an accident waiting to happen. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
LewisO: |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by 50calibre(m): 4:46pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Omotolu: Then you're so dumb, and deserves whatever she does you. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by TrishaP(f): 4:47pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Dragonking:Call me whatever you want but My point still remains the same in this matter, whether it's from the man or the woman's side. Divorce isn't an option. They can solve their problem. I can scream for divorce when the matter is beyond this. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by igbsam(m): 4:48pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
olu77: Abeg, if u give me, I no go reject am o. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by igbsam(m): 4:49pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
LewisO: Please Decode..... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by 50calibre(m): 4:49pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Smart! Smart!! I would never have through of this. Damn!! Shoulder punches are very painful, any leave little or no visible scars. I'm adding this to my portfolio. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by TrishaP(f): 4:51pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Reference:Who be this one again? |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by UGLYS: 4:51pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
mascot87: What is the difference between fainting and passing out? You wanted to say pass ON. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by gilmaro(m): 4:51pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
M4gunners:well i wouldn't subscribe to divorce anyway, if op tries dialogue n it doesnt work, he can as well look for an alternative means to fix his family without diving into their joint accounts 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by ethylene: 4:54pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Na when u don come naija u con finally get the liver to hit her back. The only way to solve this matter amicably is to try bond her with ur family so that she will understand the importance of love bounding the whole family try hard to make her even if Na to just like your family Before she stab you in your sleep. " A Gizzard is enof for the Wise Owl " I don talk my own finish 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
SirShymexx:Hahahaha.. I'm dead.. How effective is shoulder punch?? I've heard a new one today |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Misogynist2014(m): 5:01pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
igbsam:Completa |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by efficiencie(m): 5:01pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Well this is what i suggest: 1. Pray for her instead of hitting her in return. No one abuses those they love unless there are mental and/or spiritual forces involved. So pray for her and go the elders of the church for prayers. 2. Create a seperate bank account for your family. That leaves her oblivious of your financial relations with your family...just to ease the tension! 3. Bond with your wife! In the bedroom be a TEEN, in crisis be a FATHER and in the home be a LORD. Combine these personalities into your person! 4. Don't leave God out of your BONDING...God is Love and without God there's no BONDING in LOVE! 4 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by perfectcrush(m): 5:02pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
In Adams Oshiomole's voice "go and die".... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Misogynist2014(m): 5:03pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Sit her down, no woman is too hard to be cracked, she just hasn't seen a man hard enough to crack her. Provided your testimony is true. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by igbsam(m): 5:03pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: pletacom |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by DuchessLily(f): 5:05pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
OP what u should do is pray and fast, treat her very well, love her more, give her anything she wants, any s£x style she wants, the way she wants and likes it. dress very well and sexy for her... Ain't dat what pple advice a lady who marries a bad husband Hehehehe... Pray God will change her 4 u Now seriously, If u married 4 any reason other dan love, den I must tell u, she is aware of it |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Caracta(f): 5:07pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Prixus: Oh lawd! 4 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by tempem: 5:08pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
igbsam: One reason why I'll keep visiting NL. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by toyoutoyou: 5:18pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Baba werey,loooolz. igbsam: 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by musicwriter(m): 5:20pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
@OP. Does your wife also send money over to her people in Europe?. I need to know that before advising you. If that's not the case I can tell you your not doing the right thing withdrawing money belonging to you and your wife and sending it over to your people. That's stealing. Prefers to call a spade a spade. NB: I hate injustice. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by GentleToks(m): 5:20pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
missjenna: It's quite sad, shameful, repulsive and shocking to see ladies like this who will simply say well done to a man that has been brutalised, beaten and slapped in his own home for not beating his wife in retaliation for what d wife had done. Enough said. |
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