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My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by pinkyz: 7:39am On Mar 02, 2015
hello fellow nairalander...please am in between the devil and the deep blue sea. my marriage is just about 2 months old...and its already heading for the rocks. I met her 18months ago and we dated all through before we later tied the knot 2months ago. during our courtship...I noticed she keeps female friends..and when I ask her...all she tells me is #they are just my friends. so after we got married...I saw a text msg sent by one of her friend...#honey I missed you. I wish we had fun before your marriage#. when I confronted and threaten my wife....she later open up and told me everything. right now as i speak...we both work and lives in different state. she (abuja)...me(lagos). please fellow nairalander...I need your candid advices on what to do.

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Henix(m): 7:41am On Mar 02, 2015
This story is as fake as...

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by naijaboiy: 7:43am On Mar 02, 2015
Henix:
This story is as fake as...
And you've got facts to prove it? undecided

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by kilokeys(m): 7:43am On Mar 02, 2015
its a sorry case. sexual orientation has it hooks.
ill die before i kiss a boy..
she might never leave that way
what can i say.?
either u walk away
or u painfully stay
miracles happen when u pray
but she has to be willing to say nay to eating pussay

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Raiders: 7:45am On Mar 02, 2015
You are a lucky man. Tell her to invite her friend over so you can have a 3some sex together. grin

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by temitemi1(m): 7:47am On Mar 02, 2015
You marriage pictures or undecided undecided undecided

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by eluquenson(m): 7:47am On Mar 02, 2015
It's pathetic
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Beamborla(f): 7:48am On Mar 02, 2015
Take her for counseling.
But first, is she ready to change?
if she is, then counseling, her determination and support from you would help. You might want to remove the distance as well.



One more thing, you might want to improve your sexual skills as well wink

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by absoluteSuccess: 7:50am On Mar 02, 2015
You be her 'lesbian-husband' and let her be your 'lesbian wife' What God has joined together...

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Mhizizzy(f): 7:53am On Mar 02, 2015
Lesbians r less threat Dan gayz

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 7:53am On Mar 02, 2015
The last time I checked,God created Adam and Eve not Ada and Eve.All these sister Lizzy everywhere.....There is God o...

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by agohmamuda(m): 8:19am On Mar 02, 2015
@Bimbo hw far? lets forget this op who doesnt knw he's blessed.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by misfab(f): 8:21am On Mar 02, 2015
odiegwu. shaa since she married u, i think she ll wanno give up d lifestyle.

prayers n counselln will help too. all d best
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 8:43am On Mar 02, 2015
how come u didnt knw bf u marry her? did she not tell u? if yes divorce her for her lesbian partners
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by ammyluv2002(f): 9:02am On Mar 02, 2015
Raiders:
You are a lucky man. Tell her to invite her friend over so you can have a 3some sex together. grin
Seriously? shocked
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by bastien: 10:14am On Mar 02, 2015
Lucky u,if she wanna cheat on you,she will do it wit female and not male grin
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 10:32am On Mar 02, 2015
Your wife is a bisexual not a lesbian and no sex skills of yours will make her heterosexual.
This is what happens when Nigerians are filled with hate and won't allow people with different sexual orientation to live their life as it pleases them. To each on their own!

If you love her and she love you, I'll advice you to continue with her because it's not her fault that she found herself in a pathetic country like Nigeria.

Had it been as a bisexual, she was given an opportunity to choose between being a heterosexual and lesbian, and she chose heterosexual, it would have been a different case.

Lawd have mercy!

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 10:34am On Mar 02, 2015
Mhizizzy:
Lesbians r less threat Dan gayz
1) In what way is lesbianism a threat, sef?

2) In what way is gay man a threat?

3) In what way is lesbianism less threat than gay.

4) Are you a lesbian?

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Dygeasy(m): 10:52am On Mar 02, 2015
FrancisTony:
Your wife is a bisexual not a lesbian and no sex skills of yours will make her heterosexual.
This is what happens when Nigerians are filled with hate and won't allow people with different sexual orientation to live their life as it pleases them. To each on their own!

If you love her and she love you, I'll advice you to continue with her because it's not her fault that she found herself in a pathetic country like Nigeria.

Had it been as a bisexual, she was given an opportunity to choose between being a heterosexual and lesbian, and she chose heterosexual, it would have been a different case.

Lawd have mercy!
Francis, one quick question please;

On what side of the divide are you? One moment you're brimming hot defending the tenets and values of the christian faith and the next (like now) you're preaching live and let live on a matter as sensitive and insensible as Homosexualism.

It isn't in anyway a sensible or bearably thinkable sexual orientation. At least it ought not be as it defies all you stand for religion-wise just as your Virgin/Non-Virgin crusade. I don't want to assume you're confused on being Religious and being Realistic.

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by chymystique(f): 11:10am On Mar 02, 2015
•This Thread just reminded me of something•


@pinkyz, You never told us if your wife admitted she was a lesbian. " The ladyfriend that texted your wife said "She wished", its not like "They Did the Deed". I think you should ve a heart-to heart discussion with your wife and if case needs be "counselling".
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 11:14am On Mar 02, 2015
Dygeasy:
Francis, one quick question please;

On what side of the divide are you? One moment you're brimming hot defending the tenets and values of the christian faith and the next (like now) you're preaching live and let live on a matter as sensitive and insensible as Homosexualism.

It isn't in anyway a sensible or bearably thinkable sexual orientation. At least it ought not be as it defies all you stand for religion-wise just as your Virgin/Non-Virgin crusade. I don't want to assume you're confused on being Religious and being Realistic.

What do you mean at the emboldened?.

My thread on Non-virgins isn't to stop or crucify anybody from having sex but serve as a counter thread that was created to bash Virgins. By the way, I didn't make reference to bible or religious view in that post.

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Dygeasy(m): 11:28am On Mar 02, 2015
FrancisTony:

What do you mean at the emboldened?.

My thread on Non-virgins isn't to stop or crucify anybody from having sex but serve as a counter thread that was created to bash Virgins. By the way, I didn't make reference to bible or religious view in that post.
By the emboldened, we both know what I mean. You're a religious christian. You won't deny that will you?

And about the thread I made reference to, you may not have made any biblical references or quotations, I still feel quite sure the whole idea behind creating it has a spiritual/religious (as the case may be) undertone to it. Pardon my probable wrongness. cool

My question still stands if you please. cool

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 11:53am On Mar 02, 2015
Dygeasy:
By the emboldened, we both know what I mean. You're a religious christian. You won't deny that will you?

And about the thread I made reference to, you may not have made any biblical references or quotations, I still feel quite sure the whole idea behind creating it has a spiritual/religious (as the case may be) undertone to it. Pardon my probable wrongness. cool

My question still stands if you please. cool
The fact is that I'm a liberal Christian not the one that would enforce my religious belief on other people who don't share the same view with me....
To me, I don't care about anyone's sexual orientation or promiscuity.
If anyone is gay/lesbian by birth or choice, it's still none of my business.

Talking about insensitive an insensible homosexualism, it shouldn't concern you to determine what's insensible - going by biblical standard, no one is righteous and we all do insensible things. It's not right to determine it.

Now, following the footstep of Jesus whom I believe his teachings; In John8:7, he said that anyone who has no sin should should cast the first stone when the adulterous woman was presented to him, not-minding that adultery is one of the sin castigated in old testament with homosexualism. If my master who's devoid of irregularities could overlook a sinner, who am I who is a sinner himself?

In some protestant belief that grace has saved us, "Gays/Lesbian and sinners will make heaven" since believing and confessing in Jesus is already enough.

P.S- I don't share that view and it's a heresy.

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by iamrealdeji(m): 12:23pm On Mar 02, 2015
The story is faker than Michael Jackson's nose
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 12:28pm On Mar 02, 2015
Cool! You gonna have a lot of 3somes.
I will love to marry a bi wife. Op where did you meet your wife?

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 12:40pm On Mar 02, 2015
"honey I missed you. I wish we had fun before your marriage"

Lmfao. That's a 'lesbian' that respects your marriage vows right there! Hakuna Mata-ta, OP.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by dinachi(m): 12:42pm On Mar 02, 2015
Most young women that attended single sex secondary schools are hard core lesbians. Marry them at your peril. Don't say you were not warned! That is the first question I ask. Did you attend an all girls Secondary School? Look and learn, peeps.

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by 5minsmadness: 12:45pm On Mar 02, 2015
pinkyz:
hello fellow nairalander...please am in between the devil and the deep blue sea. my marriage is just about 2 months old...and its already heading for the rocks. I met her 18months ago and we dated all through before we later tied the knot 2months ago. during our courtship...I noticed she keeps female friends..and when I ask her...all she tells me is #they are just my friends. so after we got married...I saw a text msg sent by one of her friend...#honey I missed you. I wish we had fun before your marriage#. when I confronted and threaten my wife....she later open up and told me everything. right now as i speak...we both work and lives in different state. she (abuja)...me(lagos). please fellow nairalander...I need your candid advices on what to do.
Advice on what? I see no problem here.

Or are you SERIOUSLY trying to tell us that you'll be OFFENDED if your wife truly is a LESBIAN? No be to do sharp man arrange THREES0ME?? Bros Na wa for u ooo

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by 5minsmadness: 12:47pm On Mar 02, 2015
Jokes apart though...

Click like if you don't mind your wife being a lesbian.
Click share if it will offend you that she is a lesbian!

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Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by finofaya: 12:55pm On Mar 02, 2015
I think she's bisexual. I think the more important thing here is that you both keep your vows and not cheat on each other with any person, whether male or female.

Yes, it also counts as cheating if you do it with an animal.
Re: My Newly Married Wife Is A Lesbian...#i Need Your Advices by Nobody: 1:13pm On Mar 02, 2015
So whats wrong with her been a lesbian...

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