silvertuke:


Funny enough the guys who posses these qualities are being taken for granted by the stupid girls.. they would place you in the friend zone.

Matured mind. U so right.

excellent my guy, well said.look at witches in disguise,filled with iniquities and dirty ways are looking for a goodman, which most of them have come across, uselessed and dumped, these girls will end up single and unhappy...

xmich:
we are still in exitence but we hardly go into relationship so to locate us nobi come shop but once u luckly come across us its like heaven on earth so you need to hold us firm in truth and honesty,thou you will not enjoy the first stage of your relationship with us which might make you turn back on us and say in thy mind "gone are those days when they say love is blind and to your friends he is too stingy ,i cant cop with him" not knowing that is the same guy you just discussed of in nairaland.

vicadex07:


Exactly and the so called good guys eventually change to bad guys cos they are being neglected

Keep deceiving yourself.
For your information, It's not all girls that crave for bad guys and you don't expect an introverted girl to like a bad guy.

@Emboldened, that's the greatest lie. Don't use yourself to judge other people- good guys have an uptmost priorities in life than looking for many girls to lure at their pecks.

Nonsense!

The weed u smoke is off good quality if u think such guys with that qualities exist

these leeches dont build a man, they add nothing to a mans life,they just suck dry and render useless, then shift to the next victim...

ckydanny:
That's a big list there o . Why not look for man with promise and build him up?

Op, get a clay and mould him yourself.

temitemi1:
They are plenty @ ikoyi cemetery

lol

This question has been answered by social scientists wbo looked at relationships and human behaviour. They found an astounding result.

That the average man rated average women as average but The average Woman rated average men as below average. I.e when a man sees a woman, if she's good, She is good. But women see or rate seemingly good men as below par. They have higher tastes and want better things even if they are not better themselves.

You see a lady who's not beautiful, lacks manners and on a good day can be rated just 4 would always want to date a guy who's either a 9 or 10. Tall, dark, successfull and so on. That is if people are rated on the scale of 1 -10. This has led to a scenario and according to the research. 80% of all women are seeking 20% of the male folks(I.e Only 20 % of males can be rated a 9 or 10 which most women desire) And these guys rated 9 or 10 are also seeking to marry ladies who are only 9 or 10.

And the remaining 20% of females are saddled with the rest 80% of guys.. A typical example was given. Look back at when you were in University. Guys in the top 20% were the ones who almost had like 80% of all the ladies swarming around them. Ladies always wanted the best in all ramifications not minding that demographics doesn't support that. The only time they are ready to reconsider their long lists of wants and desires in a man is when age is catching up on them and there is a bit of societal pressure on them.

What constitutes a 10 or an ideal man may be different for different species of the female folk.

For the materialistic(a car, mansion may be their ideal description of a man who is a 10)

For the religious lady( ability to speak in tongue, read the whole Quran off hand, take care of her, all smiles, be able to fast for 50 days non stop maybe what constitutes a 10 to her)

For the Village girl( The guy having a large swat of farm, be of royal family or own a cheiftaincy title, strong, kill a lion and overall take care of her maybe what constitutes a 10)

For the city or so called romantic girl( Have money, sing luklaby for her before going to bed, have money, own a ride, work with a big coy, be romantic etc maybe what constitutes a 10)



Which always lead to that same question. Why are all the good men taken? The good men have always been there. Women just rate them below par and always want the top percentile which is just 20% of all the male population. Tone down those unrealistic requirements and you would see that good men abound around you.

Most good guys have been played & so went rogue since you girls like 'em "JIM IYKE"

Well to be serious its not just you. Its the unique way God made all ladies.lets put it this way- God made all men to want "1 thing from many ladies" and all "ladies to want many things from one man".
I believe u understand what i mean.Just look at the list of things you want and ask yourself how many things of them are you willing to teach him? And you will start seeing those guys around or you will lower ur standard to build a guy. I speak because i am one of the guys you are talking about but i learnt half of what you speak of from a lady who built me nd grew tired of me. But now its payback.

omowumee:
you know...those kinda guys that:

they talk less n do more
they put you in their future plans
they dress responsibly
they have decent jobs
they are good looking
they dont give unnecessary stories
they dont want a "no-strings" sex relationship
they cook soo well too..
the list goez on...is it jez me or are they all taken...?

Am freeeeeeeeeeee nt taken

Hmmm...

You actually need clay so you can mould this guy yourself

silvertuke:


Funny enough the guys who posses these qualities are being taken for granted by the stupid girls.. they would place you in the friend zone.

You guys should get out with this your stùpid stereotype. It's getting stale already.

There's nothing like friendzone. Stop making moles out of nothing. If I want a girl to be my friend, kini big deal?

You think it's all guys that revolve and hibernate around having sex.

cutieepearl:
U r damn funny,there are few out dere who possess all dis qualities buh just lyk four leaf clover
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND

You think they are hard to find, Look at the right direction, you'l find them.

[quote author=omowumee post=31045982]you know...those kinda guys that:

they talk less n do more
they put you in their future plans
they dress responsibly
they have decent jobs
they are good looking
they dont give unnecessary stories
they dont want a "no-strings" sex relationship
they cook soo well too..
the list goez on...is it jez me or are they all taken...?[/quot

we are still remaining,stop ur search and come to papa.

swtme:
The annoying thing is that they are taken by irresponsible chics who don't appreciate them

Your words strike me hard. I feel like I deserve better

omowumee:
you know...those kinda guys that:

they talk less n do more
they put you in their future plans
they dress responsibly
they have decent jobs
they are good looking
they dont give unnecessary stories
they dont want a "no-strings" sex relationship
they cook soo well too..
the list goez on...is it jez me or are they all taken...?

you think any good guy would come close to you with ur signature and political orientation?
only the touts will.

omowumee:
you know...those kinda guys that:

they talk less n do more
they put you in their future plans
they dress responsibly
they have decent jobs
they are good looking
they dont give unnecessary stories
they dont want a "no-strings" sex relationship
they cook soo well too..
the list goez on...is it jez me or are they all taken...?

Point of correction, am still available, find out yourself if you are a good girl too.

omowumee:
you know...those kinda guys that:

they talk less n do more
they put you in their future plans
they dress responsibly
they have decent jobs
they are good looking
they dont give unnecessary stories
they dont want a "no-strings" sex relationship
they cook soo well too..
the list goez on...is it jez me or are they all taken...?

Trust me, d good guys are out dr. Just dat such may not be complete with all dos qualities at a time. It is even d good ones dat d babes avoid. U gals prefer having dem as friends. They are d "nice guys". A friend say "d boy is nice, apa lo n je be. And u forgot to sat they don't cheat.

That concept "good guys" give them a few shortcomings that make the ladies stay off their tracks

Trust me, if he possess all qualities listed above and lack a good/decent job with fat envelop, he's no longer a 9ice guy coz he wouldn't doll out the cash n gift as required by them ladies.
Then again, if the decent/good job isn't there it is practically or almost impossible to dress well....

And being a nice guy he wouldn't want to get involved in dirty deals,. So he manage what he has, a few cheap clothes, squat with family or friends, eats any available food not what he really want to eat and so on.... Judging by your list, how can a guy be nice without a decent/good job?
Therefore, bearing your list in mind I hear by conclude that there are a million nice/good guys out there but they lack on quality, "money/decent job"
Money makes a guy nice/good

@op there are other qualities reputed to good guys outside those qualities listed there

swtme:
The annoying thing is that they are taken by irresponsible chics who don't appreciate them

They way you fall for irresponsible boys who don't appreciate you. The ones that appreciate you have be termed too clingy/always around. You needed space and now you have all the space.



But don't forget, GEJ till 2019

omowumee:
you know...those kinda guys that:

they talk less n do more
they put you in their future plans
they dress responsibly
they have decent jobs
they are good looking
they dont give unnecessary stories
they dont want a "no-strings" sex relationship
they cook soo well too..
the list goez on...is it jez me or are they all taken...?

Good girls attract good guys. Its natural! If u dress decently, have a decent job, cook so well, have future plans, gist/gossip less, u will attract the good guys.

cutieepearl:
U r damn funny,there are few out dere who possess all dis qualities buh just lyk four leaf clover
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND

Naa so e suppose dey na

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Such guys are in the friend zone put there by the likes of you op

Ladies them self don't want good guys....remembered a story of my lady friend... We been Together as friends for over 3years and nothing between us.. One day she abused me.. .and said am Too quiet.. M Too shy.. She has never see my kind of guy before.. we knew each other for long and I never asked her out..m always at home...in fact no girl will dated me.. .m boring...m these n DT. ..Just watch it... U will hardly find one & if u get it & u might take it for granted



Funny part this Op and the girl are bearing the same name lmao

Cutehector:
And why are all d bad girls not taken

Perfect girls are not real and real girls are not perfect.

omowumee:
you know...those kinda guys that:

they talk less n do more
they put you in their future plans
they dress responsibly
they have decent jobs
they are good looking
they dont give unnecessary stories
they dont want a "no-strings" sex relationship
they cook soo well too..
he list goez on...is it jez me or are they all taken...?

Get urself a cook or a houshouse-boy, not a boifriend

omowumee:
you know...those kinda guys that:

they talk less n do more
they put you in their future plans
they dress responsibly
they have decent jobs
they are good looking
they dont give unnecessary stories
they dont want a "no-strings" sex relationship
they cook soo well too..
the list goez on...is it jez me or are they all taken...?

You kept listing my characteristics and yet saying I'm taken. My questing is (by who?)

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omowumee:
you know...those kinda guys that:

they talk less n do more
they put you in their future plans
they dress responsibly
they have decent jobs
they are good looking
they dont give unnecessary stories
they dont want a "no-strings" sex relationship
they cook soo well too..
the list goez on...is it jez me or are they all taken...?

Just holla at Whatsapp @ 08157265929........am gonna show what a good guy is like though I just broke up with my gf cos she cheated

swtme:
The annoying thing is that they are taken by irresponsible chics who don't appreciate them

cos in the midst of in-appreciation. You won't appreciate them either.