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DEAR LADIES; Public Service Announcement by leggo(op): 12:32pm On Mar 09, 2015
So many times I hear the expression, he took advantage of me, he used me for sex. Anytime a lady says this i just shake my head ,in embarrassment for the lady. Only a stupid person gives such silly statements at the end of a relationship.
The major driving force for this ignorant display of sexism has to be the sexual orientation the society as a whole gives our young girls. So many smart ladies have found themselves rendered foolish because they actually believe that sex is [s]"Something a man does to a woman"[/s], they ignore the fact that it was a mutually benefitting consensual experience.
Sex is not a weapon and if you have to give it up only as a means to getting some sort of commitment from your partner, then I'm sorry for you , you'll get screwed and no one is going to give two shits. Both of you get under the sheets and bump uglies and you have the nerve to claim he took advantage of you? When you were moaning in Morse code and biting your pillow while on all fours were you at some sort of disadvantage? I might as well claim that all the ladies i have been with have used me for sex, but no i won't, because i gained satisfaction and so did they. I will not be held at ransom because you let me put my rod in your cave, there are so many caves in China.
Emotional blackmail should not be tolerated, the only people who get taken advantage of are the terrible defenders in the English premier league, if people keep scoring, then get better! It's not the man's fault you value sex so much you treat it like some sort of binding contract...
Claiming someone took advantage of you is plain stupid and has an intonation of rappe , and the real victims of rape have a hard time getting justice without you lot spewing jargon.

No one is using you for sex, stop being dramatic.
#CHANGE
Re: DEAR LADIES; Public Service Announcement by CloneX: 12:36pm On Mar 09, 2015
[color=#000030]Preach bro. . .

Lmao @ moaning in morse code. That's some funny _shit.

Men are getting wiser and rising above those _stupid "playing the victim" tricks by ladies.
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Re: DEAR LADIES; Public Service Announcement by leggo(op): 12:50pm On Mar 09, 2015
CloneX:
[color=#000030]Preach bro. . .

Lmao @ moaning in morse code. That's some funny _shit.

Men are getting wiser and rising above those _stupid "playing the victim" tricks by ladies.
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only sex slaves get used for sex, even prostitutes get paid.
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