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Wendy80:
N0 1 is so on point.

almostFamous:
Hmm..truth is,such men target the desperate women,women who are so desperate for love and attention,women who want to get married by all means and so they overlook the glaring signs. To all the women out there,love yourself,don't rush and be very alert. End time men

Mhizkel:
Nice one Op..even tho i know these signs already!

Mhizkel:
Nice one Op..even tho i know these signs already!

Jasmine00:
Some are not sure signs

Babymama1:
I know there are females who deliberately date married men,I am not talking about those.this is specifically for girls who inadvertently fall for the lying tongues of men already in relationships and string along a girl who falls in love only to have her heart shattered that she had been dealing with a man who was just after having her as a side chic.This is not just for people who are mistresses without knowing it but many of the points can be applicable to wives whose husbands have mistresses.The saying goes that a criminal has to be lucky all the tile and the police just needs to be lucky one time to apprehend him is so trueThere are tell tale signs cheaters and deceives in relationships drop along the way
These are a few



His stories don't add up
A lie usually cannot stand except by the support of many other lies so if a man is telling conflicting stories about his relationship or former wife,there is a chance he is hiding something.Most people cannot remember the lies they told previously in the exact way they told it so when you pick up inconsistencies.you should be be on the alert

Phone goes off while with him and he rushes out to take the calls
This is a big one
I had a friend whose husband would do this.He will jump out of bed and run off to answer phone calls,always speaking in very low tones and switches to yes and no and e he when she comes close,be warned. If he shuts off a ringing phone and starts texting continually afterwards.That is a sign not to be missed.he is telling lying to you or his wife about his location and probably apologizing for his absence. The frequency of the occurrences ought to set off a light bulb in your head.

You hardly ever get him when you call he does most of the calling
Another good sign.There are certain times of the day,most people you know are home and relaxing at home.If you cannot get the man to answer his phone at those times or he prefers to text only,you should wonder why that is the case.There could be another woman and he is having his family time.

He never takes you to his house
IMHO this is perhaps the most important sign.You don't know his house,he discourages you and gives reasons you cannot visit.He prefers to come to your place or see you anywhere buy his house,there is a woman there.No ifs or buts.If you doubt mega unannounced and see if he won't deny knowing who you are.

He calls only at specific times
Similar to the third point but not the same
If he only calls during work hours or at certain specific times,he may be married.those are his only freetimes

Conversations end abruptly
Of course it will.Once in a while his woman may walk in and he has to leave and tell you there was a bad network.The bad network was mama bomboi

He insists on avoiding certain locations or avoids public appearances with you entirely
Of course he doesn't want to take you to where he may run into people who know him and if he is the very careful type,he will avoid outings entirely.
Find a restaurant near where he lives and tell him you really want to go there next time he wants to take you out and watch his reaction.


Check for a ring mark on his finger
Some married men like my husband doesn't wear a ring so no ring is not a sign a man is single,however there are many married men who do wear rings but will take it out to meet women.
If you wear a ring on your finger long enough,you can't run away from a distinct ring mark on your finger.look out for a ring mark on his ring finger or a sign of him covering that finger.

He disappoints at obvious times he should be around
Your birthday,valentines day,public holidays.Times you expect him to be there but instead comes up with excuses upon excuses.He was probably tied up with family affairs and in as much as he would have wanted to be there but he couldn't.There are some he cannot explain away.

A gut feeling that something is not right
People have instincts,more so women,if you have this nagging feeling that you are being played, don't shake it off,you probably are

searching4love:


THIS THREAD IS ABSOLUTELY MEANINGLESS GOING BY THE MONEY HUNGRY NATURE OF NIGERIAN GIRLS, MANY OF THEM PREFER THESE MARRIED MEN FOR FINANCIAL AND MATERIAL GAINS. NAME A NIGERIAN GIRL THAT HAS ONE MAN IN HER LIFE IN THIS GENERATION THEY ARE SO SHAMELESS ABOUT THEIR PROMISCUITY AND KEEP JUMPING FROM DICK TO DICK ALL FOR MONEY. THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT MARRIAGE TILL ALL THEIR BREA.ST IS FLAT LIKE SLIPPERS AND THEIR VAGINA IS SMELLY AND WIDE LIKE WELLS.

#TEAM FOREIGN GIRLS

1stCitizen:
A Nigerian girl with one boyfriend? Are you dreaming? They all cheat. Foreign women all the way jare

almostFamous:
Hmm..truth is,such men target the desperate women,women who are so desperate for love and attention,women who want to get married by all means and so they overlook the glaring signs. To all the women out there,love yourself,don't rush and be very alert. End time men

Jasmine00:
Some are not sure signs

MizMyColi:
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!

Babymama1:
I know there are females who deliberately date married men,I am not talking about those.this is specifically for girls who inadvertently fall for the lying tongues of men already in relationships and string along a girl who falls in love only to have her heart shattered that she had been dealing with a man who was just after having her as a side chic.This is not just for people who are mistresses without knowing it but many of the points can be applicable to wives whose husbands have mistresses.The saying goes that a criminal has to be lucky all the tile and the police just needs to be lucky one time to apprehend him is so trueThere are tell tale signs cheaters and deceives in relationships drop along the way
These are a few



His stories don't add up
A lie usually cannot stand except by the support of many other lies so if a man is telling conflicting stories about his relationship or former wife,there is a chance he is hiding something.Most people cannot remember the lies they told previously in the exact way they told it so when you pick up inconsistencies.you should be be on the alert

Phone goes off while with him and he rushes out to take the calls
This is a big one
I had a friend whose husband would do this.He will jump out of bed and run off to answer phone calls,always speaking in very low tones and switches to yes and no and e he when she comes close,be warned. If he shuts off a ringing phone and starts texting continually afterwards.That is a sign not to be missed.he is telling lying to you or his wife about his location and probably apologizing for his absence. The frequency of the occurrences ought to set off a light bulb in your head.

You hardly ever get him when you call he does most of the calling
Another good sign.There are certain times of the day,most people you know are home and relaxing at home.If you cannot get the man to answer his phone at those times or he prefers to text only,you should wonder why that is the case.There could be another woman and he is having his family time.

He never takes you to his house
IMHO this is perhaps the most important sign.You don't know his house,he discourages you and gives reasons you cannot visit.He prefers to come to your place or see you anywhere buy his house,there is a woman there.No ifs or buts.If you doubt mega unannounced and see if he won't deny knowing who you are.

He calls only at specific times
Similar to the third point but not the same
If he only calls during work hours or at certain specific times,he may be married.those are his only freetimes

Conversations end abruptly
Of course it will.Once in a while his woman may walk in and he has to leave and tell you there was a bad network.The bad network was mama bomboi

He insists on avoiding certain locations or avoids public appearances with you entirely
Of course he doesn't want to take you to where he may run into people who know him and if he is the very careful type,he will avoid outings entirely.
Find a restaurant near where he lives and tell him you really want to go there next time he wants to take you out and watch his reaction.


Check for a ring mark on his finger
Some married men like my husband doesn't wear a ring so no ring is not a sign a man is single,however there are many married men who do wear rings but will take it out to meet women.
If you wear a ring on your finger long enough,you can't run away from a distinct ring mark on your finger.look out for a ring mark on his ring finger or a sign of him covering that finger.

He disappoints at obvious times he should be around
Your birthday,valentines day,public holidays.Times you expect him to be there but instead comes up with excuses upon excuses.He was probably tied up with family affairs and in as much as he would have wanted to be there but he couldn't.There are some he cannot explain away.

A gut feeling that something is not right
People have instincts,more so women,if you have this nagging feeling that you are being played, don't shake it off,you probably are

chynergy1:
don't you bother with those signs,
the truth is that most ladies enjoy
dating married men. they are more
comfortable and relaxed. these days
they aid and abet us.
many even hardly call us at the wrong hours.
so no need to pretend. take us or leave us, so no need
even to lie about our marital status.....

Vicotex:
Believe the OP at your own PERIL!

The day her strict father saw me kissing her, angrily he asked "who is he" terrified she said "NO! He is my cousin" nd i was lyk wtf... Ur papa no knw him own brother pikin again?

sunnico:
Hello miss Mhizkel nice glasses

papawemba:
bad geh. so even if you know the signs you go still chuk head. nothing do you sam sam.