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Why Do Love Rate Reduce? by cabjoy(op): 8:54pm On Mar 11, 2015
Sometimes you want to say, “I love you, but…”
Yet the “but” takes away the ‘I love you’. In love their are no ‘buts’ or ‘if’s’ or ‘when’. It’s just there, and always. No beginning, no end. It’s the condition-less state of the heart. Not a feeling that comes and goes at the whim of the emotions. It is there in our heart, a part of our heart…eventually grafting itself into each limb and cell of our bodies. Love changes our brain, the way we move and talk. Love lives in our spirit and graces us with its presence each day, until death. by E.A. Bucchianeri
WHY DO HUMAN BEING FEEL MUCH HAPPY AT THE EARLY STAGE OF THEIR LOVE? After some time reduce or die off.
Re: Why Do Love Rate Reduce? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Mar 11, 2015
Having the same problem here, at times I wonder if I will ever get married sef
Re: Why Do Love Rate Reduce? by cabjoy(op): 9:19pm On Mar 11, 2015
edozie04:
Having the same problem here, at times I wonder if I will ever get married sef
men am product of hrtbrk bt jst pick new one bt don't real kw if the former will be better than this bt one tin am sure is dat am extremely happy now
Re: Why Do Love Rate Reduce? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Mar 11, 2015
cabjoy:
men am product of hrtbrk bt jst pick new one bt don't real kw if the former will be better than this bt one tin am sure is dat am extremely happy now
good for you bro
Re: Why Do Love Rate Reduce? by ronald4lif(m): 9:46pm On Mar 11, 2015
Because many people love for the wrong reasons, mainly for interest. When their interest reduces or is no longer forthcoming love reduces too.
Re: Why Do Love Rate Reduce? by psucc(m): 10:05pm On Mar 11, 2015
@Ronald. I beg to differ with you. Even when there were doing so with honest and genuine intention, it still die with time.

On my own, let me share from personal experience: love dwindles with time because one or both party(ies) fail to continue those acts that keep the bond.

Again, the saying that too much of familiarity breeds contempt holds true here.

Above all and sadly enough, the woman having seeded two or more issues(children) into that family now switched her duty, care and even love to her children to the detriment of her relationship with her husband. This is when you start having some men going outside wedlock to seek for love because they could no longer get the attention they needed at home. Rather than helping out, it aggravates the already strained relationship.
Re: Why Do Love Rate Reduce? by yomi007k(m): 10:33pm On Mar 11, 2015
Love aint real.
Re: Why Do Love Rate Reduce? by sinizia: 11:16pm On Mar 11, 2015
Love rate reduce because nothing last forever.

Love rate reduce when we found out it's an unappreciated love.

Love rate reduce when we found out that the person is not worth loving.

Love rate reduce when we discover it's all about lust and not love.

Love rate reduce when things fall apart.

Love rate reduce when the person we fell in love with changes from the person we used to love.

Love rate reduce because of long distance/out of sight.

Love rate reduces when the person we love cheats, physically an emotionally abuse us, etc.

There are many reasons.
Re: Why Do Love Rate Reduce? by cabjoy(op): 5:49am On Mar 12, 2015
psucc:
@Ronald. I beg to differ with you. Even when there were doing so with honest and genuine intention, it still die with time.

On my own, let me share from personal experience: love dwindles with time because one or both party(ies) fail to continue those acts that keep the bond.

Again, the saying that too much of familiarity breeds contempt holds true here.

Above all and sadly enough, the woman having seeded two or more issues(children) into that family now switched her duty, care and even love to her children to the detriment of her relationship with her husband. This is when you start having some men going outside wedlock to seek for love because they could no longer get the attention they needed at home. Rather than helping out, it aggravates the already strained relationship.
on point
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