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Dear Agatha,

You are indeed God sent to our society. I am a 29 year old graduate, serving my nation in Cross River State. My plan is to get married at 35 years of age, when hopefully I should have put in place some of the things that make life meaningful.

Being a devoted Christian, I have never been involved in any sexual relationship with any lady and don’t intend to until my wedding night.

However, there is a particular girl in my home town, who is 20 years old and in her first year in the university, who has most of the qualities I want in my would-be wife. I am actually close to her family, especially her mother. But my fear is that, her late father was said to be a cult member who ruined the destinies of many young men that served him as apprentices and even used some of them for money rituals. Although, her whole family members are now Christians, but my fear is what will likely be the effects of her background on my future family if I eventually marry her? I’m particularly concerned because of what the scripture said about the consequences of the sins of parents on their children. Please I need your candid and urgent advice on this.

http://dailyindependentnig.com/2015/03/consequence-marry-3/

Chiam55:
I'm not sure about the religion part but I think it's unfair to judge her for something she had no part in and that she wasn't able to change. What about all the don't judge others part of your religion. If you're too proud then leave the girl.

As for whether anything would happen to your future family because of her father's history; maybe it will maybe it won't but that's life, it's unpredictable.

ijustdey:
but just know that the spiritual determine the physical

so religion do play a part

elantraceey:
#offtopic At first I was thinking so dre finally wants to get married

Only to get disappointed



#Back to the topic.


First its absolutely not right to judge someone by their background even though its true that some curses do rob of on the children but here you're a Christian and from your stand a devout one as that , you shouldn't be scared of some occult curses rubbing of on your spouse , moreover you said they're all now Christians remember that one in Christ is a new creation and old things have past away . Pray for her and pray with her , she might just be the best for you .

Cutehector:
Now take a look at this adjective "her late father" dis means her father is dead and gone. My bible tells me dead people dnt hear, feel or do anythn. So I duno what u believe in buh wat I wana assure u is dat nothing is gona happen. U will regret if u dnt marry her since you hav already concluded she is a very good woman and u hav seen wifely traits in her.

ijustdey:
but just know that the spiritual determine the physical
so religion do play a part

dre11:
Why did you feel disappointed........
When you decide to say goodbye

elantraceey:
#offtopic At first I was thinking so dre finally wants to get married

Only to get disappointed



#Back to the topic.


First its absolutely not right to judge someone by their background even though its true that some curses do rob of on the children but here you're a Christian and from your stand a devout one as that , you shouldn't be scared of some occult curses rubbing of on your spouse , moreover you said they're all now Christians remember that one in Christ is a new creation and old things have past away . Pray for her and pray with her , she might just be the best for you .

Being a devoted Christian, I have never been involved in any sexual relationship with any lady and don’t intend to until my wedding night.

dre11:
Hum......

But don't you agree with this quote..
Because I do feel marriage is not just only you considering the person but the family, her background etc
That's why in the olden days..... Our fathers will consult the oracle to give insight about the family their sons or daughter wants to get married by doing so, the will check the past deed of his father and see if it won't have an effect on the marriage....

Just saying and the quote here is just to collaborate what am trying to pass across

Cutehector:
you are talkn as if u dnt serve a living God. To hell wit oracles and deities!

elantraceey:
Me say goodbye?


When did I say that?

Chiam55:
I respect your opinion but I dnt believe the sins of the father stuff. It sounds sexist what about mother??

dre11:
I do serve a living God .....

But he said he will vent the wrong of a father on the children even till the fifth generations

starlingleanets:
Mercy Triumph over Judgment. That judgment will only be for those who continue to hate God. Sir, God said everybody will bear his own punishment. There is no battle anywhere to fight.

dre11:
I heard you.


Have experience what I just told you and I know quite a few too.......

Until you go into intense spiritual battle to break this curse.......
You are own your own

dre11:
That's one to deny it in public

starlingleanets:
Bro don't create problem for yourself. Satan will use that against u. There is only one covenant and that is d one established with God. No other covenant can be made except u accept it.

elantraceey:
I'm not denying anything joor

dre11:
You actions speak louder than voice.....
That's what I was talking about

zyzxx:
Be ready for a fire to fire prayer if not hmmm

sambright2012:
in the book of exodus God said, and I quote: I am a jealous God,I shall visit the iniquities of the fore fathers upon the children even to the forth generations,bt I shal spare the generation dat worship me. if u re of God u hv no fear cos he says in conrithians dat the old things has passed away behold all is new.both of u are new,in the spiritual world. such iniquity can only be erase with blood ,bt the blood of Christ has paid all our debt,we do no more blood sacrifice why becos the blood of Christ supersedes any other blood ,,God ahead only if ur of God if nt be ready to pay some accumulated spiritual debt ,a part share of the girl in question.

elantraceey:
You're not innocent of the abandonment too if you say so

starlingleanets:
You are the kind of brainwashed Christians..