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Dimples192:
This is a very delicate matter but I feel you should respect your mothers privacy and not to tell her what you witnessed. Your mother isn't some lil girl on heat so she will see him for who he is soon. For all you know maybe their just seeing each other and the relationship isn't serious yet. Maybe their just dating and getting to know each other. If this was her husband I would advice you tell her but in this case I'd say save her the embarrassment of hearing it from you.

He is not respecting his mother's privacy by staying quiet. He better reveal it to her ASAP

Please look for a time when ur mum is in a good mood and tell her d story like it happened to someone else tell her to advise u.whatever advice she gives u will guide u further.

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pickabeau1:
H is for Helicopter..Are u by chance headed towards Otuoke... You know the Dynamic Duo need your services

Yeah, on May 29th, the first family will be employing the services of several helicopters to transport the extended relations of the first family from Otuoke to Aso Rock for the swearing in ceremony of His Excellency, Goodluck Ebele Jonathan for a second tenure. You know they can't afford to miss it

She should tell her mother asap

Oh I see. In any case it's pretty obvious that you are quite familiar with the territory and means of transportation. So you're the best man for the job. I'm sure your dreams would come through if you become His personal Chaperone

DeCritique:
Daura is a very under developed village, the hometown of Buhari. He will need the services of a keke on May 28th...

It depend on who's spending for each other, if it's your mum that was giving him money to buy happiness, you need to tell her, but if it's was the guy that's spending to make your mother happy, close yours eyes on the vital secret you saw and began to pray for your mother for journey mercy

DeCritique:
Yeah, on May 29th, the first family will be employing the services of several helicopters to transport the extended relations of the first family from Otuoke to Aso Rock for the swearing in ceremony of His Excellency, Goodluck Ebele Jonathan for a second tenure. You know they can't afford to miss it

Lets see

Tell your mum oooo

The question is, can you live with yourself knowing your mother is going to be hurt and catch an STI pretty soon?

Use a story like "you saw your friend's father who is divorced but currently in a relationship with a woman you know from church picking up an aristo chick from your hostel". That way you'll sample her opinion and know if she'd want to know or not before telling her.

Dimples192:
This is a very delicate matter but I feel you should respect your mothers privacy and not to tell her what you witnessed. Your mother isn't some lil girl on heat so she will see him for who he is soon. For all you know maybe their just seeing each other and the relationship isn't serious yet. Maybe their just dating and getting to know each other. If this was her husband I would advice you tell her but in this case I'd say save her the embarrassment of hearing it from you.

Women and secrets ?? Justifying evil by any means possible

anselm791:
The question is, can you live with yourself knowing your mother is going to be hurt and catch an STI pretty soon?

This guy here makes much more sense.

So you want to wait until the charming womanizer (they are always charming and very cunning) exploits your mum probably leech a huge sum off her, or your mum is so involved that she can't extricate herself before you tell her all you've known all along ?
I just don't know why we put up with evil instead of exposing them

Please talk to your mum , she raised you and I m sure she will understand. Make her understand that you want her to be happy and you like Uncle Tommy but not his womanizing ways . Family stick together and her joy is your joy.

Tell her before she gets a heartbreak

HIV IS REAL
PLEASE TELL YOUR MOTHER
YOU DONT AND CAN NOT GET ANOTHER MOTHER
IF HE INFECT YOUR MOTHER WITH HIV,
HE WILL RUN AND U WILL SPEND YOUR LIFE TIME SAVINGS
TO TREAT YOUR MOTHER

DeCritique:
Tell your mum before it is too late.


To avoid further heart break which might lead to high bp. You didnt tell us what happened to ur dad. Dead or abandoned his responsibilities?

If it's the later, the heart break and the thoughts of "Two men doing this to me? Where did I go wrong?" can make her lose her life.

Be warned

He said his mum is a widow. Don't u know wot a widow mean? It means a woman whose husband is dead. Or is it until he pronounces it out dat d dad is dead, dats when you'll know? Smh
Back to topic, Op its better u let ur mum know about his affair, then let her decide what she wants for herself..

There are instances where whatever happens in Vegas must not stay in Vegas. This is one of such time. Tell your mother.

Delicate matter my foot! The mother should be told now before the relationship ends up turning into something. I mean, there should not even be any questions to that, how could she have been on her own for so long taking care of her children and then have some man roll into her life just for her to be disrespected?

I wish the writer could see this, I am even pissed for him or her!

omotalkie:
He said he mum is a widow. Don't u know wot a widow mean? It means a woman whose husband is dead. Or is it until he pronounces it out dat d dad is dead, dats when you'll know? Smh
Back to topic, Op its better u let ur mum know about his affair, then let her decide what she wants for herself..

Sorry chic... I totally skipped jumped that area... Totally forgot it. Thanks for the corrections sweetie... Good to know that your brain is still intact. Hopefully, you are a GEJite right?

Because I know GEJites are the only set of supporters that still have their brains intact

pickabeau1:
Lets see

Yeah, let's see. I'll send over an I.V to you later against the d day

bigv:
Oh I see. In any case it's pretty obvious that you are quite familiar with the territory and means of transportation. So you're the best man for the job. I'm sure your dreams would come through if you become His personal Chaperone

Over my alive body!!


GEJtill2019

My problem isn't exposing the man but that the daughter is the one doing the exposing. This is her mother. Who's to say the mother doesn't already know about it.

pak:
Women and secrets ?? Justifying evil by any means possible



This guy here makes much more sense.

So you want to wait until the charming womanizer (they are always charming and very cunning) exploits your mum probably leech a huge sum off her, or your mum is so involved that she can't extricate herself before you tell her all you've known all along ?
I just don't know why we put up with evil instead of exposing them

Leave the issue alone. This is not some boyfriend/girlfrnd matter. Yur mom has been married and had u guys and u said d man lost his wife too. He had a right to date again or marry. Probably he's been dating dis girl before he met ur mum and he might want to take it serious with ur mum thereby discharging d small girl who obviously was just getting money frm d man in exchange for sex and has her boyfriend too. Unless u r jst uncomfortable wit d idea of ur mum having a sex life. Ur mum may knw abt it(she ought to knw he has a sex life) so don't make it embarrassing or make it look awkward. I even thought yu saw d man in a brothel or he has a reputation in ur sch for picking random girls hence the use of d word WOMANISER. A man whose wife is dead has a steady babe and comes only for her yet u have tagged him a womaniser? Watch d flow of d relatnship first and give dis man a chance to inform ur mum abt his personal life first.

Dimples192:
This is a very delicate matter but I feel you should respect your mothers privacy and not to tell her what you witnessed. Your mother isn't some lil girl on heat so she will see him for who he is soon. For all you know maybe their just seeing each other and the relationship isn't serious yet. Maybe their just dating and getting to know each other. If this was her husband I would advice you tell her but in this case I'd say save her the embarrassment of hearing it from you.

shiit...u can't watch ur mum date a cheat nd kip quiet.can u? Berra tel u mumsy nw b4 its to late.

Everybody dey shout tell 'your mother' ..'tell your mother' like say na so e simple. What makes you think that the mother would blink an eyelid if she gets to know

Tell ur mum o..d man no luv ur mum nd, tink abt it

Dear letting your mother know about this issue is just importing a hatred to yourself.
B/c u too don't know the total movement of your mum. where they met, how they behave or their likes and dislikes.
maybe your mum's way about is even worst than this man's.
As far your mum proved all is well u too believe its well with them.
if u let she know, she will always be suspecting u of one day monitoring her own movement..on that point both of them will overlap u with hatred.
Be wise and watch till your mum complain.

Womanisers are usually good storytellers.

Even if you tell your mum, he might still manage to wriggle himself out of it.

"Your daughter might just be jealous seeing another man who's not her father with you" he might say.

dis child under estimate the goodness this man

Don't lose ur mum next dat man might be a degree holder in STD

since ur mom is happy with him y cant u just leave them alone,soon uncle tommy will soon drop that side chick to marry to ur mom#that is how guys/men of nowadays roll#they have main and side chicks!!