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pickabeau1:
So what do u believe now

Its funny how u rated your environment while growinh up to be more influential than ur own family unit

Daddy never cheated yet you believed all men did

What I believe now is clearly stated in that post.

Show me a research that says parents are more influential in a child's life than the child's environment, and community.

Most children grow up seeing their parents as perfect, so perfect that they are not human. My dad was an obvious exception to the rule in my mind.

Shollypopzz:
What I believe now is clearly stated in that post.

Show me a research that says parents are more influential in a child's life than the child's environment, and community.

Most children grow up seeing their parents as perfect, so perfect that they are not human. My dad was an obvious exception to the rule in my mind.

Your post just said the ideology did not last for long
Hence i asked

What do you believe

On research of influence of family vs environment... I think family is more crucial for the early years

pickabeau1:
On research of influence of family vs environment... I think family is more crucial for the early years

Post a link that proves your claim.

Shollypopzz:
Post a link that proves your claim.

Let's leave that for now
I will look for information to back that up

I still ask

What do you believe now about men

pickabeau1:
Let's leave that for now
I will look for information to back that up

I still ask

What do you believe now about men

I will pay you $100 if u can find a link that supports your claim.

You'll find out with time. "Cheating is not a one gender thing" and I'm too lazy to type.

Shollypopzz:
I will pay you $100 if u can find a link that supports your claim.

You'll find out with time. "Cheating is not a one gender thing" and I'm too lazy to type.

Lol..don't bother about the 100 dollars

However your second statement has not refuted your earlier held beliefs rather it strengthens it

From a POV that all men cheat now its both sexes cheat

Is that right?

pickabeau1:
Lol..don't bother about the 100 dollars

However your second statement has not refuted your earlier held beliefs rather it strengthens it

From a POV that all men cheat now its both sexes cheat

Is that right?

Both sexes can be cheats.

Shollypopzz:
Both sexes can be cheats.

OK

No wahala

This right here is why mothers shouldn't stay in abusive marriages for "the sake of the children" . The children end up even more messed up, with the boys growing up believing it's acceptable and even expected to beat their wives and the girls thinking it's normal for their men to beat them since Daddy beat Mum regularly and their marriage was "fine". That lady obviously needs physiological help, she needs reorientation about what love is