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Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by francizy(m): 2:20pm On Mar 21, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
What is a 37 yr-old MALE or FEMALE looking for suitors for? undecided
Time done pass abeg!
NAnSenZe! angry
Ka anyi wulia.. Choi!

grin

Make person no marry again ni?
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by KanwuliaJara:
francizy:
Ka anyi wulia.. Choi!

grin

Make person no marry again ni?
37 and single? lipsrsealed
After how many abortions for BOTH THE MALE AND FEMALE COMBINED? shocked
God and Satan time don pass tey tey na!
Haba!!!!!! cheesy

Make dem go join convent and monastery to "Saaaaav" dem "GOD" abeg!
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew!
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by francizy(m): 2:26pm On Mar 21, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
37 and single? lipsrsealed
After how many abortions for BITH THE MALE AND FEMALES COMBINED? shocked
God and Satan time don pass tey tey na!
Haba!!!!!! cheesy

Make dem go join convent and monastery to "Saaaaav" dem "GOD" abeg!
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew!
Hahahahahaha, I like you, you know why? grin
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by pastorsmiling(m): 2:32pm On Mar 21, 2015
There's always a way out and the only solution is to seek God first and everyother things shall be added not only getting husband dat matter but getting a God fearing man because its better to remain single and happy than getting married and remain unhappy. Marriage is dff ball game cos you cant offer wat u dont have.
Secondly, be focus, truthful and be good your husband will come
And finally be cheerful and change ur look i mean dress very well dnt look at ur age its jst a numba u can even get marry to a younger and nice person
GOD BLESS YOU
I BELIEVE ITS NOT OVER UNTIL YOU WIN
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by KanwuliaJara: 2:33pm On Mar 21, 2015
francizy:
Hahahahahaha, I like you, you know why? grin
I can't wait!
Please, tell me! wink
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by todayguest(m): 2:34pm On Mar 21, 2015
If has messed up herself in the locality where she lives. It's important she moves out into a new one and be nice. If she's the type that wants to marry a man, who works and lives abroad. Now let her consider home guys. If, she the lady that, had taste for guys in an oil firm, let her look out for guys in the non oil sectors. If she's one who dreams of a tall guy as husband, let her consider the not-too-tall. If her expectation is a man of over 50k as monthly take home. Now, let her look below. If she's the 'I must marry from my town, local govt and tribe.' Now it's time to look beyond. If she's the 'no white wedding no marriage. Now, it's time trads. **cheers**
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by manot: 2:39pm On Mar 21, 2015
[quote
author=NifemiOlu post=31842147]What's her personality like? What past
has she had? What present is she living? As terrible as we men are, we
are always scared of a woman's past. If so 'many waters have passed
under her bridge' well... but so many things have to be addressed before
talking about attraction...Nothing wrong with the age.








All things being normal, if she's a Christian or a church goer...lol...
can't she join a 'marriage miracle' group called USHERING unit? Many
single ladies I know never spent a year in that unit without getting
married...in a big church anyway.[/quote]u mean advertsing themselves, l know many after rocking d world they became ushers because they are looking for husband.
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by francizy(m): 2:51pm On Mar 21, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
I can't wait!
Please, tell me! wink
You speak your mind and you so naughty tho.. smiley

When someone sees stuff you wrote here, they'd think you're some 23-26years old lady..

I hope you are fun to be with in person, else I'll call your hubby and tell him how you show yourself here and then dull him over there.. tongue
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by KanwuliaJara:
francizy:
You speak your mind and you so naughty tho.. smiley

When someone sees stuff you wrote here, they'd think you're some 23-26years old lady..

I hope you are fun to be with in person, else I'll call your hubby and tell him how you show yourself here and then dull him over there.. tongue
Age is but a state of mind my dear! grin
Only to "bush Nigerians" is age a biggest deal!
You are sooooo correct!
I don't givva tart's azzzz what nonentities might do or think!


I will always speak my mind.
I am sooooooo fun to be with.
As for my husband, please. . . Feel free!
He knows me better than any of you can imagine or DREAM to understand! grin
Just let me know if you ever get lost trying to find him, so I can help you get to him faster!

I am from EDO state, not CHIBOK, SAMBISA, OGUN OR ABIA!
We do not worship HUSBANDS or MARRIAGE! We have our own lives even WITH HUSBANDS AND CHILDREN!
You tink say we be "NL Newly-Weds"? cheesy

You see 'grey bia-bia" for my toto or head? wink
If you carry NL and NIGERIANS and their nonsense for ya head, you go age die KE!


MUCHECHECHECHECHE

Off to take my darling mom for breakfast AND shopping jare!!!!

Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by InvertedHammer: 3:02pm On Mar 21, 2015
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It is either she is not physically appealing OR she has bad character.

Her matter don pass "attract suitors" level. Suitors wey she no find in the last 18years?

Jazz all the way. Lace "it" with "forget me not". Whoever chop don enter. Marriage na marriage.

grin grin grin
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Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by manot: 3:08pm On Mar 21, 2015
in Africa, we take marriage as a do or die affair. d society look at people who are not married as failure. her case is not isolated we have many single ladies between 35yrs to 45yrs.
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by KanwuliaJara: 3:13pm On Mar 21, 2015
Single men over 40 na taboo for my village o!
They have to relocate to marry desperate women from other tribes! grin
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by mechanics(m): 3:13pm On Mar 21, 2015
Dats serious, i wonder d way she lived her life wen she was young, she shud be social, interact with people around her, she shud meet her marriage comittee members 4 counselling n she shud pray.
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Mar 21, 2015
Viciyus:
change of location or environment. Sometimes your environment determine the rate of your success(husband potential)
even if she changes environment, will she not have to be patient to get a husband? Or is her relocation a 100% guarantee she will get a husband? Next time think before you jump like a squirrel to attack someone's comment.
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 3:27pm On Mar 21, 2015
firstEVA:
even if she changes environment, will she not have to be patient to get a husband? Or is her relocation a 100% guarantee she will get a husband? Next time think before you jump like a squirrel to attack someone's comment.
dumbo!!

Keep on waiting for Dame patient.


And stop misleading someone

And stop quoting me.
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by xreal: 3:27pm On Mar 21, 2015
Neplusultra:
Haba! Uv concluded alrdy on bad attitude!!!
Sorry to make such conclusion ; but, those are major factors. Could be pride, snubbing, 'forming', et.c
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by lordhippo(m): 3:30pm On Mar 21, 2015
duperola:
am creating ds thread 4 a friend who is on d verge of desperation.she sought my advice on what else 2 do 2 attract eligible serious guys 2 herself!
She shud just try to be good to pple around her male or female ....cos you neva can tell whose watching..
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by manot: 3:30pm On Mar 21, 2015
Nigeria will soon be like America Another 50yrs frm now people will not be too desperate for marriage. y she wan kill herself
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Kereokwu(f): 4:26pm On Mar 21, 2015
ferdimako:
right or rich man?
D right man(God fearing). See with God, hardwork and patience 1'll make it.
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by olushowunm(m): 4:37pm On Mar 21, 2015
duperola:
am creating ds thread 4 a friend who is on d verge of desperation.she sought my advice on what else 2 do 2 attract eligible serious guys 2 herself!
I can help her... She just need to have kids... I will give her two kids with no strings attached and I don't need her money...
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by francizy(m): 4:48pm On Mar 21, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
Age is but a state of mind my dear! grin
Only to "bush Nigerians" is age a biggest deal!
You are sooooo correct!
I don't givva tart's azzzz what nonentities might do or think!
The bolded tho.
Lmao, you just contradicted yourself ni.. Thought you said a woman/man at 37 shouldn't be thinking of marriage any more?

I will always speak my mind.
I am sooooooo fun to be with.
As for my husband, please. . . Feel free!
He knows me better than any of you can imagine or DREAM to understand! grin
Just let me know if you ever get lost trying to find him, so I can help you get to him faster!
Hehehe, am waiting for your Hubby's contact tho..

I am from EDO state, not CHIBOK, SAMBISA, OGUN OR ABIA!
We do not worship HUSBANDS or MARRIAGE! We have our own lives even WITH HUSBANDS AND CHILDREN!
You tink say we be "NL Newly-Weds"? cheesy
You're from Edo state?? shocked shocked :
Who come dash you Igbo name (Kanwulia) na?

You see 'grey bia-bia" for my [size=18pt]toto[/size] or head? wink
If you carry NL and NIGERIANS and their nonsense for ya head, you go age die KE!
Gray hairs for your toto? shocked shocked shocked
How I wan know whether gray hairs dey dia when you never show me before. Till I assess am den I fit know whether gray hairs dey dia..
On NL matter, me no get time to carry the matter for head na, unlike those ones way dey trade insults like small pikin.

MUCHECHECHECHECHE

Off to take my darling mom for breakfast AND shopping jare!!!!
Finally, nice pic tho.. wink
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by austine4real(m): 4:57pm On Mar 21, 2015
searching4love:
undecided

AFTER DOING YANGA IN HER 20'S FOR SERIOUS MINDED MEN NOW YOU ARE DESPERATELY IN NEED OF ANY MAN THAT COMES YOUR WAY undecided

THIS IS THE FATE THAT AWAITS ALL YOU NIGERIAN GIRLS WHO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF MEN WHO MEAN WELL


MANY OF YOU WILL REACH MENOPAUSE WITHOUT ATTRACTING ANY SUITORS

NO SANE MAN WILL MARRY A HARLOT WHO HAS SLEPT WITH UNCOUNTABLE MEN IN HER YOUNGER YEARS

BUNCH OF HOPELESS HOES undecided

#team foreign girls
gals beware dis op dey vex o.
Cover mysef wt blood of Jesus x7
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Agrika: 6:04pm On Mar 21, 2015
Change ur location
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Mar 21, 2015
duperola:
am creating ds thread 4 a friend who is on d verge of desperation.she sought my advice on what else 2 do 2 attract eligible serious guys 2 herself!
Anybody that wants to marry will marry
If I were in the market today I will marry fiam like that,if I wanted to
If you give out an attractive personality,people will be drawn to you
Anyone that wants a friend should themselves be friendly
If you want a spouse,conduct yourself as a spouse material
Simple
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by WORLDPEACE(m): 6:45pm On Mar 21, 2015
Stop saying its your friend. You are the one needing a husband. Has it stopped mo.ro.ns from insulting you here? You can pray but don't forget to smile and take care of yourself. Every man wants a happy woman.
Tell your mother, father, siblings, friends, Co-workers and relatives without looking or sounding pitiful that getting married is the single most important thing to you right now. Be very specific about the kind of guy you want. If you can marry someone younger say the highest age difference you can handle. Tell them the least amount he should be earning. Tell them the education level. Be specific. The worst kind of house he should live in. face-me-i-face-you? Be specific. His tribe and religion. Be nice to people, you never know who's watching. A lady i know wanted so much to get married. She attended an event every other weekend just to meet a man. After two years of that she ended up marrying a colleague she had known for six years.
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by InZA: 6:47pm On Mar 21, 2015
NifemiOlu:
What's her personality like? What past has she had? What present is she living? As terrible as we men are, we are always scared of a woman's past. If so 'many waters have passed under her bridge' well.
I wish every di:ck hungry woman would sit her ass down and eat this statement... Women don't just get it!... They just don't. Pity
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by koyyess: 7:07pm On Mar 21, 2015
duperola:
am creating ds thread 4 a friend who is on d verge of desperation.she sought my advice on what else 2 do 2 attract eligible serious guys 2 herself!
Op, my folks just came back from a wedding ceremony today. The bride used to be a widow with no kids and waited for 10 good years before she found her present husband who has been single all his life. Is it impossible for your friend to find her prince charming? Let her be herself and pray for her own husband. You on the other hand should help in match making her with any responsible single man you know. Bye.
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by koyyess: 7:20pm On Mar 21, 2015
searching4love:
undecided

AFTER DOING YANGA IN HER 20'S FOR SERIOUS MINDED MEN NOW YOU ARE DESPERATELY IN NEED OF ANY MAN THAT COMES YOUR WAY undecided

THIS IS THE FATE THAT AWAITS ALL YOU NIGERIAN GIRLS WHO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF MEN WHO MEAN WELL


MANY OF YOU WILL REACH MENOPAUSE WITHOUT ATTRACTING ANY SUITORS

NO SANE MAN WILL MARRY A HARLOT WHO HAS SLEPT WITH UNCOUNTABLE MEN IN HER YOUNGER YEARS

BUNCH OF HOPELESS HOES undecided

#team foreign girls
I pity the 35 fagg*ts that liked your shiitty ghetto speech. All you do is come to NL and parade like a miserable deluded mad boy wh*re. You need psychiatric help.
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Mar 21, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
Age is but a state of mind my dear! grin
Only to "bush Nigerians" is age a biggest deal!
You are sooooo correct!
I don't givva tart's azzzz what nonentities might do or think!


I will always speak my mind.
I am sooooooo fun to be with.
As for my husband, please. . . Feel free!
He knows me better than any of you can imagine or DREAM to understand! grin
Just let me know if you ever get lost trying to find him, so I can help you get to him faster!

I am from EDO state, not CHIBOK, SAMBISA, OGUN OR ABIA!
We do not worship HUSBANDS or MARRIAGE! We have our own lives even WITH HUSBANDS AND CHILDREN!
You tink say we be "NL Newly-Weds"? cheesy

You see 'grey bia-bia" for my toto or head? wink
If you carry NL and NIGERIANS and their nonsense for ya head, you go age die KE!


MUCHECHECHECHECHE

Off to take my darling mom for breakfast AND shopping jare!!!!
grin grin I just love this woman....
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by akinademayowa(m): 8:01pm On Mar 21, 2015
duperola:
am creating ds thread 4 a friend who is on d verge of desperation.she sought my advice on what else 2 do 2 attract eligible serious guys 2 herself!
very funny and silly responses here that provide no solution to the matter at hand...
to that sister,nothing is impossible,and God's delay is not God's denial(though I can never say whether hers is God's delay or self delay)...Anyway,I can't say much because I don't know the person personally,what has happened in the past,what things are happening in the present and Why she thinks she has not been able to attract a man he desires...it's not OK to offer some specific solutions to an unidentified problem... maybe if she can show up sha
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by EfemenaXY: 8:16pm On Mar 21, 2015
lolaxavier:
Your advice is disastrous and misleading.
Maybe the op should elaborate more. I'm so sure the reason why she is still unmarried by now is what you are painting clearly again. Don't get me wrong, it is not a sin to be single at that age but if the op has mentioned that she's getting depressed, then obviously it is already becoming a burden on her life.
Do you always go about assuming that any single person (woman) in her late thirties is single because she must have led a scandalous life as you're so quick to assume?

Like seriously?

It's not yours or anyone's place to judge people you don't know, much less cast aspersions on the supposedly "unhappy" lives singletons live. I reiterate: marriage is not a do-or-die affair, and there are people out there who chose not to get hitched at all. Purely their choice and this should be respected.
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