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How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by duperola(f): 6:34am On Mar 21, 2015 |
am creating ds thread 4 a friend who is on d verge of desperation.she sought my advice on what else 2 do 2 attract eligible serious guys 2 herself! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by NifemiOlu(m): 6:38am On Mar 21, 2015 |
What's her personality like? What past has she had? What present is she living? As terrible as we men are, we are always scared of a woman's past. If so 'many waters have passed under her bridge' well... but so many things have to be addressed before talking about attraction...Nothing wrong with the age. All things being normal, if she's a Christian or a church goer...lol... can't she join a 'marriage miracle' group called USHERING unit? Many single ladies I know never spent a year in that unit without getting married...in a big church anyway. 100 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Tallesty1(m): 6:39am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Attracting a man isn't the problem, keeping him is. It is a lie If you tell me that she hasn't attracted a man since her teens but she turned them down because her eyes were set on the Impossible. Sha, she still has a chance, thou it may not last but at least her name go enter book. Take her to this man(see pic) 50 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by xreal: 6:40am On Mar 21, 2015 |
She should change her bad attitude(s)/behavior(s). That's all. 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by uchebest2006(m): 6:43am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Change her life style nwanne......characters matters alotDn't dress secxy rather dresss well nd always put smile on pipos face. 7 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 6:45am On Mar 21, 2015 |
lol! tell your friend - the bus driver she turned down is now happily married with kids the motor mechanic she rejected now has a big workshop in town, married with kids the bus conductor she slapped for toasting her has traveled to Europe, married to oyibo wife the ladipo trader she rejected because he is not a graduate is now married to a banker life is what happens when you are too busy making other plans 250 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Fabdedon(m): 6:52am On Mar 21, 2015 |
print posters abd hand bills with her picture on it written boldy Husband needed Urgently Dont mind me.. Let her work on getting more money inthe process she would meet her dream man.. We love determined girls 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by ITbomb(m): 6:59am On Mar 21, 2015 |
How was her lifestyle 15 years ago, that is what I need to know to sort it out for her 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by madridguy(m): 7:03am On Mar 21, 2015 |
My brother you dey vex ooo. MrPresident: 20 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by centmichael101(m): 7:07am On Mar 21, 2015 |
She shld look 4 an older single man I ask for his hand in marriage NO TIME ( if muhammed can't go to the mounting let the mounting go to muhammed) 12 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by EfemenaXY: 7:16am On Mar 21, 2015 |
duperola: Advice her to stop being desperate. Even if it takes her another 10-20 years to find the RIGHT person, then so be it. The importance of one's happiness and emotional well being cannot be over emphasized. That should come first, even before kids. And even if she never finds the "right one", so what? It isn't the crime of the century to be single. As for having kids, she can either have her biological kids outside of marriage, or she can adopt. Heavens knows there are thousands of vulnerable, needy orphans in desperate need of a loving home. 57 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 7:29am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Op. Follow the tips here https://www.nairaland.com/2179580/7-tips-beautiful-ladies-above Here is an excerpt. Check the link for the full description. 1. Prepare to marry a man you earn more than: 2. Prepare to marry a man you are older than: 3. Divorced men and widowers can make great husbands: 4. Be ready to be a step-mother and share your home: 5.Spot out men with potentials and mentor them to success: 6. Stop shopping for men and start investing in one: (c) woged2005 44 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 7:42am On Mar 21, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: you gat to be kiddin right? 37 + 20 = 57yrs, you must be one hell of a EfemenaXY: same mentality that created the problem she's having today EfemenaXY: Bro, this oyibo ideology doesn't work here ok, embrace reality, this is Africa. 94 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by boolet: 7:44am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Social media, churches and owambe parties. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Godfullsam(m): 7:48am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Tell her to forget about marriage. I mean let her stop thinking about marriage and move on with her life. I tell you suitors will soon locate her. But if she still dey carry marriage issues for head as if na only her remain for this world wey neva marry, she will never be happy and her gloomy face will scare serious guys away from her. 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by EfemenaXY: 8:09am On Mar 21, 2015 |
MrPresident: No, I'm not joking. I know where the joke section is if I need it. Unlike you, I don't attest to marriage bring a do-or-die affair. You need to understand that it's never about how soon one gets married but how well the couple stay married. same mentality that created the problem she's having today What problem? You think being single is a problem that needs to be "solved"? Problem for whom? If you don't mind my asking? You realise the real problem starts if she rushes into marriage out of blind desperation, all in the vain bid to satisfy societal values and perception of her, whatever those may be? And when that happens, would you/society be there in that marriage with her? Or will she be dished out the usual "grin and bear" Nollywood advice?
Really. And you wonder why there are so many failing marriages? It doesn't take a genius to figure out that the root cause of this is because the foundation was faulty. Marrying out of desperation can never be a good thing, nor will it ever yield positive results. A desperate woman such as this one would overlook so many red flags, so many flaws and warning signs in a potential spouse she would normally not have even considered, but now will, simply out of desperation. Stop pressurizing people to get married. Stop the trend of ostracizing and being unnecessarily judgemental of singletons. Marriage isn't for everyone. The world won't come crashing if a person chooses to remain single. 55 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Justyce(m): 8:25am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Op if that your friend is interested in a man who can takia of her, regardless of her age... Let her call dis number 08106065084... 1 Like |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 8:29am On Mar 21, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: wrong assumption dear, trust me, i understand marriage more than you assume i do. EfemenaXY: find the answer below duperola: EfemenaXY: i guess you re talking to the op's friend here, we dey nairaland dem carry dia desperation come seeking 4 advice, we begin put mouth for matter na. cheers!! 19 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Nobody: 8:30am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Justyce: 9 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by ugosonics: 8:32am On Mar 21, 2015 |
you mustnt expose ur body to attract suitors. jst be nice to pple |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by anonimi: 8:32am On Mar 21, 2015 |
She needs to "lower" her search/eligibility criteria including deciding if she needs a child MORE than a husband and proceed accordingly in a COLD, unemotional rationally efficient manner to achieve her objective! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by opelipoas: 8:33am On Mar 21, 2015 |
oplwrgiu:Seconded |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Sanguine77(m): 8:33am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Wasted years? I know that 37 is a lot of years for a woman cos it translates to wrinkles hidden by layers of make-up,sleepless nights, suicidal thoughts, praying and fasting etc. Even @ 37, all hope is not lost: let her be herself, be cheerful always, be prayerful and keep believing that everything is possible. Also she can seek spiritual help cos there are some families that are tied and no matter how hard they try, the females cannot get married. She should also keep all options open: single,divorced or widowers. Poligamy is also allowed cos this is Africa. Tenk u 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by Burger01(m): 8:33am On Mar 21, 2015 |
The lady should just be herself. The right suitor will come along. In addition, she should check her excesses and maintain her basic humanity. Men of these days are social Robots. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by kekakuz(m): 8:33am On Mar 21, 2015 |
hmmmmm online dating will help 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by joanprice: 8:33am On Mar 21, 2015 |
i na underdand ooo |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by lovat(m): 8:33am On Mar 21, 2015 |
Marriage is not a must for every lady, I'd rather advise her to get pregnant for a random person and take care of her baby. Sometimes being unmarried has its advantages and with time she will get over this her *I must marry* ish 6 Likes |
Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by GEJmustGO(f): 8:34am On Mar 21, 2015 |
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