phemphem:
. u re highly welcome

Thanks

hormordunneey:
June 28 here
Mk una wlcm mee o

u re welcome! i guess u must hv read some of cancerian trait here, we also welcome u to our bbm group chat! kindly drop ur pin number. tanx

rukky2000:
u re welcome! i guess u must hv read some of cancerian trait here, we also welcome u to our bbm group chat! kindly drop ur pin number. tanx

Thank yu dear. Some of the traits are nt gud ones thou.
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eaziaque:
Hi, I'm Eaziaque, born on the 22nd of July. I'm creating this group for all Cancerian individuals i.e. people born between June 21 and July 22, if you are interested, join in and let's chat. Updating expected soon. Thanks.

July 22? Wao.. Av gat a birthday mate.

Am july 7th and proud to be a cancerian!though sometimes I wish I wasn't!we care too much,love hard and can walk a mile for the ones we care about.

July 18. Birthmate wit d great Nelson Mandela. Anyone else??

Rajjah:
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Rajjah, how are you doing? long time no see oo, been too busy trying to tie ends ni jare, i hope you are good.

hormordunneey:
June 28 here
Mk una wlcm mee o

hormordunneey, you are much welcome to this house, i'm the o.p of the group but unfortunately haven't been on nairaland for sometimes now, if not, i would have welcomed you. your contributions and participation will highly be welcomed too, thanks in advance.

hormordunneey:


Thank yu dear. Some of the traits are nt gud ones thou.
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not exactly, hormordunneey, though some seems not that good, there is no single trait that can't be channeled positively if you are conscious of it. and if you go deeper in reading about cancer as a sign, you will realize that it is the best sign of all 12, and that is why we are creating some kind of awareness on this forum so we all can learn more about these "not too good traits" and make amendment where possible, imagine the result. kindly share with us what you consider as not too good trait you posses, some of us will surely learn from it. rukky used to be a procastinator, i used to be too, me plus having an excessive love for the indoor, it is all changing now though. please be free

Harkindeylee:
July 22? Wao.. Av gat a birthday mate.

welcome bro, pleasure having you around, we will all appreciate your contributions here, be free to table any issue for discussion, we will all be glad to participate. i hope everybody is noting ooo, 22nd july cancerians are growing in number than all others. meanwhile rukky, i'm now 3 time stronger than you.

Blackbeauty:
Am july 7th and proud to be a cancerian!though sometimes I wish I wasn't!we care too much,love hard and can walk a mile for the ones we care about.

you are welcome ma to this forum, your participation will highly be welcomed. but you don't have to regret anything about you being a cancerian, believe me, we are the most blessed of all signs. even these traits of caring, sharing, accomodating, tolerance, listening...etc., that most people tends to take us for granted for are the best traits any human being can ever posses and in most cases, they don't always have it all, but we cancerians are readily born with these traits, so tell me what better a priviledge can you have other than these? though it should be noted that we have the not too good traits too, we can always make a better use of them once we are conscious of how they are affecting us negatively. hope you will share with us thought on these traits.

gregzone:
July 18. Birthmate wit d great Nelson Mandela. Anyone else??

welcome bro, happy to have you around, it is priviledge sharing a month with the likes of Mandela. your participation will highly be welcomed, be free to bring issues for discussion anytime, we will all be glad to share with you. remember no taboo, all topics allowed once it is tabled in a respectable manner. good day baba!

eaziaque:
not exactly, hormordunneey, though some seems not that good, there is no single trait that can't be channeled positively if you are conscious of it. and if you go deeper in reading about cancer as a sign, you will realize that it is the best sign of all 12, and that is why we are creating some kind of awareness on this forum so we all can learn more about these "not too good traits" and make amendment where possible, imagine the result. kindly share with us what you consider as not too good trait you posses, some of us will surely learn from it. rukky used to be a procastinator, i used to be too, me plus having an excessive love for the indoor, it is all changing now though. please be free

Thank yu, I hope I wl learn andd improve too. The procastination iss dia, I lov bin alone, I overthink abt tins expecially future, I walk out of rltnship ssooo easily. I get depressed most tyms, I av bad temper! Hmm! Av nt read much abt cancer trait thou.

eaziaque:

hormordunneey, you are much welcome to this house, i'm the o.p of the group but unfortunately haven't been on nairaland for sometimes now, if not, i would have welcomed you. your contributions and participation will highly be welcomed too, thanks in advance.

Aiity

eaziaque:

welcome bro, happy to have you around, it is priviledge sharing a month with the likes of Mandela. your participation will highly be welcomed, be free to bring issues for discussion anytime, we will all be glad to share with you. remember no taboo, all topics allowed once it is tabled in a respectable manner. good day baba!

Tnx eaziaque 4 d warm reception dat was very "cancerish" of you.
Well, I've taken my time 2 read and re-read every post on dis thread and man if I say it blew my mind dat will b a gross understatement. All u guys said about character traits of cancers is totally true, take me 4 instance, I'm very talented in music and writing, due to d fact dat I'm a quiet person naturally I let my pen «or my keyboard/pad as d case may be» do the talking. As 4 my music aspect I've not bn able 2 overcome dat shyness to sing in public though I sing 2 my girlfriend behind closed doors.
I really like wat I'm seeing here, people like me who share most character traits wit me both d good, d bad and d ugly traits and are not ashamed 2 open up. I didn't take Zodiac signs and astrology seriously b4 now but wit what oga boss eaziaque is doing here, I'm gonna have a massive rethink.
Here's my pin: 2293D04F

I am not cancer but let me just say I love you guys!
Yea, I love cancerians to bits!
You people tend to know how to care for your families and you are selfless to a fault
I also love how you get other people's thoughts and feelings easily so they don't have to spell it out for you everytime.
My dad is cancer and I wouldn't trade him for any other dad in the world, he is the reason I love cancers by default even before I get to know them well.
You guys rock, seriously.
But you should learn to open up more and talk about your feelings; let your loved ones know when they hurt you instead of suffering in silence.
Stay awesome.

Rajjah:
mine is july 7th

Am July 7th too...can we hook up for a chat?

eaziaque:

welcome bro, pleasure having you around, we will all appreciate your contributions here, be free to table any issue for discussion, we will all be glad to participate. i hope everybody is noting ooo, 22nd july cancerians are growing in number than all others. meanwhile rukky, i'm now 3 time stronger than you.

i surrender my oga at d top! 3 times stronger, i just hope it wont increase

July 16 here. Looks like am the only one...

chuksp09:
July 16 here. Looks like am the only one...

u wont be the only one! ur mnth match is on his/her way. welcome and happy to have you around, it is priviledge sharing a
month with the likes of Mandela. your participation will highly be
welcomed, be free to bring issues for discussion anytime, we will
all be glad to share with you. remember no taboo, all topics
allowed once it is tabled in a respectable manner. good day and hv a swt weekend

eaziaque:

Rajjah, how are you doing? long time no see oo, been too busy trying to tie ends ni jare, i hope you are good.

my doing wonderfully good I.

i need ur views pple, its about making myself better. I am a student with really good grades and fairly popular in my level, i relate well with my departmental mates, and they have a certain level of apprehensive regard for me and a day never goes by without one or two of my mates asking my opinion about their personal matters. But as much as i relate well with them, i have this serious phobia of standing up and positing my opinions to the whole class, whether its lectures or just class matters. If am asked a question directly i do my best to answer to the best of my knowledge, but to stand up and posit my own idea is a problem. Its not that i dont have ideas or opinion about the subject matter, but raising my hand, standing up and saying my mind seems like a big deal to me.
Any idea on how to discourage this behaviour? Its personally annoying!

chuksp09:
i need ur views pple, its about making myself better. I am a student with really good grades and fairly popular in my level, i relate well with my departmental mates, and they have a certain level of apprehensive regard for me and a day never goes by without one or two of my mates asking my opinion about their personal matters. But as much as i relate well with them, i have this serious phobia of standing up and positing my opinions to the whole class, whether its lectures or just class matters. If am asked a question directly i do my best to answer to the best of my knowledge, but to stand up and posit my own idea is a problem. Its not that i dont have ideas or opinion about the subject matter, but raising my hand, standing up and saying my mind seems like a big deal to me.
Any idea on how to discourage this behaviour? Its personally annoying!

halo chuksp! first u hv to erase d impression that people might reject your opinion! be confident and bold enough, have it in your mind that no body is better than u are........ erase any fair of being laugh at, or make fun of.... those people u are shy from cant do better than you. and be free to express yoursef to your coursemate! professors too make mistakes

rukky2000:
halo chuksp! first u hv to erase d impression that people might reject your opinion! be confident and bold enough, have it in your mind that no body is better than u are........ erase any fair of being laugh at, or make fun of.... those people u are shy from cant do better than you. and be free to express yoursef to your coursemate! professors too make mistakes

thats the plan already in motion, still working on it though.

June 22nd dats my date

chijiaku:
June 22nd dats my date

halo chijiaku welcome
and happy to have you around, your participation will highly be
welcomed, be free to bring issues for discussion anytime, we will
all be glad to share with you. remember no taboo, all topics
allowed once it is tabled in a respectable manner. good day and hv
a swt weekend. u can as well drop ur bbm pin for cancerian group chat

1st of July is here. I am very happy to blong to d cancer zodaic sign. All d attributes for cancer born are for real and 90% true, it is in me. Giving genuine love nd care av made me to b taken for granted by many pple. I also dnt open up easily wen pple wrong me.so many finz I can share. I love dis idea!

hormordunneey:

Thank yu, I hope I wl learn andd improve too. The procastination iss dia, I lov bin alone, I overthink abt tins expecially future, I walk out of rltnship ssooo easily. I get depressed most tyms, I av bad temper! Hmm! Av nt read much abt cancer trait thou.

Forgive my long write-up ooo, I can't help it, I talk for long a lot, and the old mates here are used to it.
Every single trait you've mentioned in your post are typical of most cancerians, but thanks to God we are always so good to people that they tend to understand these things as part of us. My pleasure having you thinking of improving on them, believe me you have taken the greatest step already; that of accepting these traits as "defectious", though the step remained to be actualised, I'm saying this because, we cancerians, though pure conservs, we detect the need for change and accept change naturally but it is always very hard for us to get moving the change, I pray God be with us all in our efforts to amend these traits. The love for the indoor defines our love for being alone, unfortunately, safety from being misunderstood, being hurt, being taken for granted, being rejected, as it guarantees us, the price to pay for this "Lone" affection is enormous as I've discussed with our mates in previous posts, it is always a story of taking 3 steps forward and taking 4 backwards after, it kills the talent cancer in us; I mean, we have a talent that we developed, most times in solitude, unfortunately, we never give ourselves the chance to showcase this talent, and the cause; it is either you are too shy to perform in public, or you fear too much to see your act been rejected or rather after summoning the courage to perform in public, you didn't perform to expectation, so you crawl back and never come out to express this talent even though you have corrected the mistakes and improved largely on it, or we spend so much time indoor and eventually waving the idea off saying we will do it another time, or as we have it in case of most cancer guys, we keep our comfort zones, indoor, playing PS games, always like, "let me finish this session and I will go, but then another session starts and another and then you are late" and funny enough, you hear us say, "omo mehnnn, I don miss this thing today sha, anyway, anoda opportunity go show" and we continue the game, believe me, we are never lazy, we just don't seem to ever be in a hurry for a new thing, most especially if we have one we are hanging on to! Another thing hormordunneey wrote that caught my attention most is walking out of realtionships easily, however, it is not only in relationships, it happened to me even on jobs and groups, one of the reasons sometimes could be the fact that I can't stand the neglecting and unsincere attitude of a partner or a boss towards me or my mates, it puts me off, cancerians love loyalty a great deal, so when u see your partner as not being great with loyalty, or your boss not being compassionate, even though it is not towards you, you feel cheated too because he is cheating your collegues or friends, you tell him (the boss) to f**k off; forgive my language, but we forget that things can't always go our ways, the effect of this attitude of turning our backs every time we sense insecurity is that we become more and more unstable, that being my own biggest problems over the years, today I'm here, tomorrow I'm there and next tommorrow I'm somewhere else again, and like that, the chance of early success is very slim, on that too, I'm working, as it affects many aspects of my life, love, work, abilities, talent, accomodation...etc. I think what is needed of us is accepting that every body can't be cancerian in nature, compromising and embracing others' dirty attitudes to a certain scale, but mostly, realizing that we can't change some things, they might seem immoral to us but we just have to let the urge and quest for moral and justice lay low sometimes, after all we always turn out to be the loosers in most cases, for example, I left a job because my boss wasn't appreciative enough to me and unjust towards my collegues, this always bring issues and eventually mistrust between me and my boss, finally I resigned but I "suffer like winch", 6 months out of jobs, got demoted in terms of accomadation, but funny enough, those for whom I fought didn't resign, while I roam the streets of Lagos in search of a job, spending my account dry, they were steadily working, some of them even got promoted and even worse, most of them didn't even deem it fit to call me over the matter, I lost it all, they won it all! So other mates who has the same problem as hormordunneey and I over walking off easily should think it twice before walking away, if you don't seem to be the head and will probably be the looser, then accept and live while you work towards being fulfilled. "Fingers don dey pain me cos na from phone I dey post" Lolzzzz!!! I will continue in the another post by God's grace, expecting your thought on this writeup, wonderful Easter to y'all! To the christians in the house, I never see my easter goat meat ooo.

I haven't seen June 25th yet

gregzone:

Tnx eaziaque 4 d warm reception dat was very "cancerish" of you.
Well, I've taken my time 2 read and re-read every post on dis thread and man if I say it blew my mind dat will b a gross understatement. All u guys said about character traits of cancers is totally true, take me 4 instance, I'm very talented in music and writing, due to d fact dat I'm a quiet person naturally I let my pen «or my keyboard/pad as d case may be» do the talking. As 4 my music aspect I've not bn able 2 overcome dat shyness to sing in public though I sing 2 my girlfriend behind closed doors.
I really like wat I'm seeing here, people like me who share most character traits wit me both d good, d bad and d ugly traits and are not ashamed 2 open up. I didn't take Zodiac signs and astrology seriously b4 now but wit what oga boss eaziaque is doing here, I'm gonna have a massive rethink.
Here's my pin: 2293D04F

U r welcome bro, glad you are picking more interest in zodiacs, it really is gonna help answer many of the questions that you keep asking yourself about your own nature, though like I wrote in earlier post, I don't explore the spiritual aspect of zodiacs, because apart from not feeling it personally, it is againt my principles as a muslim. But the trait/character aspect of zodiac is not offensive, it only make us understand what we are, our strenght and wekness and hence creating the avenue for appreciation and adjustment of the traits and maximise the essense of life. Thank God it is not too late for me. Just like you (and most cancerians anyway), I have some talents, I can sing, I can rap and write good lyrics, in addition, I used play good football, but I never get the courage to perform in front of the public and people who would have eventually helped me out in materialising these talents, what a waste! Too shy, and cares too much about mistakes to come out in public, sometimes I swallow some uncommon responses to uncommon questions that would have brought me moments of grace in the class because of shyness, some of my teachers in secondary school would have to call my name to give a response to a question nobody has a clue to because they know that though I possibly have the correct answer, I will never say it willingly due to shyness. One of the talents that I have and am expressing now is designing and drawing, I now work as a graphic designer for someone, took some time to eventually engage in that but it is never too late, believe me bro, many of us have lost a lot different things because of this. Reason why you need to talk to that cancerian guy or lazy next to you so they can wake up and shine. And that is why I'm getting us together here. It won't be easy to change that nature, but it is possible. We have the best traits in the zodiacs (no be say I dey fumble), unfortunately the few bad/ugly ones we posses are loosing jokers, imagine if you can correct these ugly traits, sum it up with the good ones, you are gonna be a better person! Cheers baba, happy easter, even if we no see our own easter goat meat, we go still greet una. Lolzzzzzz!

hormordunneey:
Thank yu, I hope I wl learn andd improve too. The procastination iss dia, I lov bin alone, I overthink abt tins expecially future, I walk out of rltnship ssooo easily. I get depressed most tyms, I av bad temper! Hmm! Av nt read much abt cancer trait thou.

I also love bin alone most tyms, I also overfink abt future, I get depressed too most tym esp. Wen finz are nt workin d way I xpected it to, that is not to say I giv up on finz easily. I am vry strong nd dnt giv up. I used to av bad temper buh dat has bin sorted. I dnt walk outta relatnship, infact my 2 relatnships breakup has bin as a result of my exs inconsistency nd selfishness, I dnt giv up jst like dat... Most of d peculiar attributes of a typical cancer is vry true.

rukky2000:
i surrender my oga at d top! 3 times stronger, i just hope it wont increase

for ur mind, I seem to be luckiest in number here, we will see overtake the whole blog. Lols. Hw r you doing? Hope u r good.