₦airaland Forum

missclasssy:
Blame it on alcohol

mirexxx:
yea that's true!
what's her moniker?

mirexxx:
that u're really drunk

oloyolo:
No nor no
That is a classified information
I promised not to say it to any one on NL
We sealed it with a kiss

*winks*

missclasssy:
Okpo

mirexxx:
meaning?

missclasssy:
Ask ireneony of naijaboy

missclasssy:
Op, first of all, is the guy in question the father of the child?
If he is then we have a whole different case, but if he isn't the father then all you have to do is consider these points

~ firstly, is this the man that you want to help raise your kids? Do you think he has the financial capacity to cater for the needs of you and your child
Is he hard-working?. What's the nature of his current Job.
Finance is a critical part of any relationship.

~ secondly, you said you don't like the company he keeps. Do you think such environment is what's suitable in raising your child.

Op, I don't know how much you love this guy but if you feel the relationship isn't yielding positive results, it's better you just break-off, instead of causing more problems for you and your child.

Op, I wish you good luck and I hope you make the right decision

Thanks and God bless

YUNGLURD:
arrant nonsense

mirexxx:
I just hope u didn't insult me!

nickyblinky:
Am in a relationship which is just four months old now,I know he truly love me as he claim, but he is broke and also I don't like d friends he keep.actually at first I never love him wen he ask me out d first time, now I think I really love him.but his friends talks dirty

missclasssy:
Did I?

mirexxx:
I dont care cockroach!

mirexxx:
I dont care cockroach!

missclasssy:
Me cockroach, you mosquito

missclasssy:
Haters

Romanciella:
b*tch

kinglekan:
Ok, when you say he is broke, I would have loved if you were a little bit more specific. Does he have a job? Or any source of income?

Finance is definitely an important aspect when considering a serious relationship but definitely not all that there is to making a relationship work.

You should factor things like, his plans, his goals, his ambition, his resilience in dire situations etc.

Being broke might just be a phase in his life now and if you truly love him and have considered some of the factors I listed above, you would stick with him and be there for him.

On the other hand if he is the un serious type, who just enjoys gallivanting with his friends and spends little or no time at all making productive plans for himself, then you need to consider carefully if you would want to continue in such a relationship.

elantraceey:
If he has very very good reasons why I should .

Baddestguyp:
good reasons like they talk dirty. will you?

mirexxx:
nairaland is for everybody na
i can be anywhere i wanna be

RomanceLander:
OP PLEASE CORRECT YOUR GRAchangeChangeEED' TO 'NEEDED'

nickyblinky:
How can I correct it

missclasssy:
Op, first of all, is the guy in question the father of the child?
If he is then we have a whole different case, but if he isn't the father then all you have to do is consider these points

~ firstly, is this the man that you want to help raise your kids? Do you think he has the financial capacity to cater for your needs?
Is he hard-working?. What's the nature of his current Job.
Finance is a critical part of any relationship.

~ secondly, you said you don't like the company he keeps. Do you think his friends are having a negative influence on him?

Op, I don't know how much you love this guy but if you feel the relationship isn't yielding positive results, it's better you just break-off, instead of causing more problems for yourself

Op, I wish you good luck and I hope you make the right decision

Thanks