Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,165,623 members, 7,861,928 topics. Date: Saturday, 15 June 2024 at 11:45 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Career / She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. (75482 Views)
How Should I Respond To My Boss Who Fired Me Via Email? / My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. / Why I Refused To Confirm Four Trainees After Their Assessment Centre. (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) ... (21) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by logica(m): 7:35pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
elomez:Sorry to burst your bubble; Bill Gates and Warren Buffet never carried anybody's bag and will NEVER (especially Bill) carry anybody's bag. They worked their way up through hard work, dedication, intelligence (astuteness) and timing. The examples that may fit your post may be Nigerian "Big Men". Americans (especially those that are self-made) will not carry anybody's bag. The main thing we should note here is: if you are not made to own a business, please by all means continue carrying bags. But if you feel you have what it takes to run a business of your own, then by all means give the finger and go start your own gig. 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by themejiwalker(m): 7:36pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
logica: Believe me all the girl did was test him..but his ego cost him his job I am a business owner today but i can proudly tell you i once carried my boss's handbag sometime in 2012 If you hear what nigerians abroad do for money ehn..u go throway pride sharply 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by ozedb(m): 7:36pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Go and apolozise rit away, you are wrong. U wan form 4 wetin u no get na ur papa get am 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Filmdirect: 7:36pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
klark3: Stop saying, "You know women." Man, you have problems with women, it shows. I know lots of boys or men that are lazy. I actually feel so sorry for you. Your male superiority complex is so ingrain, you can not hide it in your speech. 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by cococandy(f): 7:37pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
OP I hope your pride places you on a monthly salary. Mtchew. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:37pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
elomez:What demeaning things? You really should read about Mr. Gates. He doesn't take nonsense. And you see what you wish to see. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Thinkr(m): 7:37pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
D33VA:girl, your bag is your personal property used to convey personal stuffs like lipstick, mirror and other useless beauty stuffs(to me) so why should I carry that huh? I can carry your brief case or file though. And stop the insult little girl 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
logica: and while working their way up no body did any demeaning thing to them? Pleas just hush it there. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by logica(m): 7:39pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
elomez:Hush it? Are you mad? |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Thinkr(m): 7:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
cococandy:I expected nothing short of this. Hand bag is not official stuff for me to carry. Your feminist ideology is making you lose your mind 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by dollarlander: 7:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Pride goes before down fall. You are too proud. Even if it is you you will do worse than this to another person. You are wrong. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:40pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
elomez: Elisha had to do a lot demeaning things before he took over from Elija |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by logica(m): 7:41pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
dollarlander:You say it as if falling is always a bad thing. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by eyeview: 7:41pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
tmtech:May god bless you. You are one of the few who have a sense of self-worth. You are one of the few who would not carry a slave mentality because he want to feed. If you are qualified for the job you do,you wouldn't have to suck up to a girl of your age to keep it. Many people feel their employers do them a favour by keeping them but forget that they too render a professional service in return. 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by lovely17(m): 7:41pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
ordinary handbag SMH for you |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by bukatyne(f): 7:42pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
kaboninc: Amen! |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:43pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
RickRichards:lmao |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Houseofglam7(f): 7:43pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:43pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
logica: no i think you are. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by cococandy(f): 7:44pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Thinkr: What if his male boss asked him to help him carry his briefcase? Then he can be called a feminist?. May anti-feminism not make you lose not only your mind but also your livelihood. Amen. One unwritten rule, never outshine the Master. If you want to get ahead in your work place, little things that or helping your boss get coffee or lunch could be all it takes to get you ahead than your mates. Pride will be the undoing of many people. I know some people have deep comprehension issues so let me clarify that I don't think anyone should stomach abuse in any form to retain a job. But holding your boss's bag or briefcase doesn't count as one such incident. Just tuck your silly pride away and get what you want from there and move on with your life. The OP will still be searching for a new job while his mates there have gotten promotes to new levels. Let's hope hey don't Fire him at his new work place because he's too big to do something for his boss. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by bukatyne(f): 7:44pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
eyeview: Will it be better If he was towing behind a man? Besides the OP is not married And the lady is his boss It is about the confidence he possesses |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by logica(m): 7:44pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
elomez:Actually, don't mistake me for your FATHER. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by duni04(m): 7:45pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Filmdirect:Oga they are both architects in the same company. The only rank she has over him is that its her dads company. They're both architects for petes sake! She's about the same age as the OP. Why d fûck should she ask him to carry her bag? 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by bigfrancis21: 7:46pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
klark3: No you are not. She had no right to ask you to carry her handbag in the first place, not even because she is your boss. Except her hands were overloaded at that time and she asked for help and you declined, otherwise she had no right. She was over-stepping her boundaries and she knows that. When certain women get into power they tend to feel on top of the world and see it as an opportunity to boss men around just to feel good about it. In addition, your attitude towards it might have been snobbish to your superior. Even though she made the request when she had no right to, you could have humbly declined or found some other reason to decline her request. That way, the fault would not lie on you in anyway. By your attitude, based on what I read from your post, she can place a claim against you for insolence as her reason for firing you. 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Nobody: 7:47pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
logica: now i know you're realy mad. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Filmdirect: 7:47pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
logica: Don't believe everything you read. No person on top did not have to do a little something they might not have liked to get there. Not talking about immorality here. You know the show "Shark Tank?" see how the monied people treat the business person. in reality you wouldl not let someone talk down to you because you want their investment, and yes if it is abusive you should be a stop to it, but honestly unless than, you keep quiet and bid your time, knowing that one day you will use their resources to become greater. |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Thinkr(m): 7:48pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
cococandy:madam if a male boss holds a brief case its 99% sure those things contain office documents or so but a female hand bag? Are you kidding me? Why not say a female carrying brief case? I have worked in a bank and I had female bosses my dear. I do things and joke with them but anytime dey cross the line I make hell out of the office that day. Get that into your head 1 Like |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by SIRKAY98(m): 7:48pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
It happens to me.what have you face?....I was asked to go to ANTHONY VILLAGE UNDERBRIDGE TO BUY BOOLI AND GRANDNUT FOR A MANAGER THAT JUST STARTED WORKING IN OUR FIRM.AND I AM THE COMPANY COMPUTER ENGINEER.....MTWEEEW |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by D33VA(f): 7:49pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Thinkr: Lmao Ow u dnt like insults but u like throwing them around? Go back to ur post dt started ds. A bag Mr man can carry d exact same tin a briefcase does. N besides the op wasnt asked to stick his hand inside n grab a pad. It was a simple request until all u small minded folk started reading meaning into it. Besides a male boss's briefcase could contain his purse which could hav his condoms in it... u see what happens when u start ' over reading meaning'. Ur mentality is pathetic. Its quite weak |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by eyeview: 7:49pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Braggante: May God bless you. A lot of people on this thread have got slave mentality and are born as perpetual employees. They don't have self esteem. 2 Likes |
Re: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by Opey4luv(m): 7:50pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Remember the first law of power by Robert Greene. NEVER OUTSHINE YOUR MASTER! |
(1) (2) (3) ... (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) ... (21) (Reply)
I Caught My Boss Pants Down With The Organization's Secretary / Best Banks To Work In Nigeria: List Of Highest Paying Banks - FinancialWatchNgr / A Month After I Was Sacked, I Was Mistakenly Credited With ₦40,000
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 63 |