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Kimoni:
I can bet my 2 cents the DIL didn't tell the MIL an outright no, I am sure she would have said something like "mama, can I please reprint these copies you have chosen and send them to you"

This is the norm when people like your pictures and want to have copies but agreed the OP didn't explain at length what she really said.

It was wrong for the DIL to get physical with the MIL but it was even worse for the MIL to slap her DIL, even slaves should not be treated that way. And the fact that she is insisting on having the son throw her out of her matrimonial home even when the wife is ready to apologise immediately tells you who the primary aggressor is.

But then, did most posters really justify the DIL fighting the MIL on that thread? that's not what I observed or was I reading the comments upside down

@Bold:

True

Shollypopzz:
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Stillfire is on a roll on MIL today

That her post was epic!

But honestly a number of guys supported the wife or came hard on the MIL.

Her referencing them would have made the OP balanced.

1000 likes for you, OP is probably not married, trying to act holier than though to please this naira men, smh,

Op needs to watch the movie mother in law, with patience ozokwor, see her slapping an innocent daughter in law, then come back here, then see if your blood with not boil.

When an action is wrong it is wrong, mother in law was wrong, daughter in law acted in self defence, suppose the poor girl was pregnant, being slapped around like a dog,

Stillfire:
There were men who justified the actions of the wife on that thread. But you chose to ignore that and focused on the females.
I can never take people like you seriously with your fraudulent reasoning and your sick, very sick thirst for male attention.
In time past, these are the type of women that engineered and policed the cutting of their daughters cli.to.ris just to adhere to tradition.
Thanks for posting this thread anyway, because I will finally use it to kill female misogyny.

If indeed we are Africans and you want to use tradition to rationalize why a MIL has a right to give her DIL uppercuts, when matters deteriorate into irredeemable measures, we blame the most oldest person in the group for allowing it to deteriorate like that. The MIL gets the greatest blame for every damn thing that happened that day! If it's not making you people sleep well at night, please do the needful and drink cyanide!

Imagine the nonsense! Is it that you guys don't want to be slapped back when you slap your DILs in future? Why are you having sleepless nights? Have you slapped your DIL before and you are scared she will retaliate one day by either returning the favor or visiting babalawo to kill you slowly? What is the problem? Confession time!

TooNoisy:
This issue again. But the summary is that Nigerian women are their own worst enemies. The wicked MIL of today were the innocent DIL thirty years ago. Women are just intolerant of each other.

If the husband beat up his MIL, he will be a beast but if the wife beats her MIL; then our frustrated wives association of Nairaland will say she has to be right.

The MIL asked for her grandchild's pictures. I don't think that is a ridiculous request that must be denied. The wife probably is one of those that believe all MIL are witches who must be fought and defeated just like some morons here. Now she has caused problems for herself.

bloody hell!

Stillfire:
There were men who justified the actions of the wife on that thread. But you chose to ignore that and focused on the females.
I can never take people like you seriously with your fraudulent reasoning and your sick, very sick thirst for male attention.
In time past, these are the type of women that engineered and policed the cutting of their daughters cli.to.ris just to adhere to tradition.
Thanks for posting this thread anyway, because I will finally use it to kill female misogyny.

If indeed we are Africans and you want to use tradition to rationalize why a MIL has a right to give her DIL uppercuts, when matters deteriorate into irredeemable measures, we blame the most oldest person in the group for allowing it to deteriorate like that. The MIL gets the greatest blame for every damn thing that happened that day! If it's not making you people sleep well at night, please do the needful and drink cyanide!

Imagine the nonsense! Is it that you guys don't want to be slapped back when you slap your DILs in future? Why are you having sleepless nights? Have you slapped your DIL before and you are scared she will retaliate one day by either returning the favor or visiting babalawo to kill you slowly? What is the problem? Confession time!

Epic

Yomieluv:
I don't want to believe you said this..so its now a crime for MIL to have the picture of their grandchild?

But your mum can have the picture of your child right?

I know my mom better than someone else's mom. I know what my mom is capable of doing, I don't know what another person's mother is capable of doing so don't get all emotional on me . Thank you sir

bebe2:
Ok, R u for real? Smh

yes ma I'm for real

SAMBARRY:
I know my mom better than someone else's mom. I know what my mom is capable of doing, I don't know what another person's mother is capable of doing so don't get all emotional on me . Thank you sir

too watery..

We are talking about the hubby's mum here,so she would harm the baby with the picture?

Madam,you need to purge your thoughts of some weird things.

Yomieluv:
too watery..

We are talking about the hubby's mum here,so she would harm the baby with the picture?

Madam,you need to purge your thoughts of some weird things.

like what?

SAMBARRY:
like what?

so If your brother's wife refused to give your mum the picture of her grandchild,would you say same?

Yomieluv:
so If your brother's wife refused to give your mum the picture of her grandchild,would you say same?

i will say nothing . If I have to talk sef I'll tell her that if she really needs the child's picture she should snap the child herself or call a photographer. At least she won't be able to say anything . It's very unreasonable asking a mother for her child's pictures.africans need to respect boundaries

TooNoisy:
This issue again. But the summary is that Nigerian women are their own worst enemies. [b]The wicked MIL of today were the innocent DIL thirty years ago. [/b]Women are just intolerant of each other.

If the husband beat up his MIL, he will be a beast but if the wife beats her MIL; then our frustrated wives association of Nairaland will say she has to be right.

The MIL asked for her grandchild's pictures. I don't think that is a ridiculous request that must be denied. The wife probably is one of those that believe all MIL are witches who must be fought and defeated just like some morons here. Now she has caused problems for herself.

People are here making this comment without even thinking deep.
What did mama do to her own MIL to warrant a dirty slap from her DIL in future? Mama obviously is NOT innocent after all. Please let Karma do its work. Let's not intrude.

When will all these conflicts between wives and their mothers inlaw end,though what the mother inlaw did was not right by slapping her,but sincerely speaking the wife went too far by retaliating in that manner,and for the husband to bring such serious family issues to public scrutiny is really very unwise of him,ciao!

Cutesexy1:
When will all these conflicts between wives and their mothers inlaw end,though what the mother inlaw did was not right by slapping her,but sincerely speaking the wife went too far by retaliating in that manner,and for the husband to bring such serious family issues to public scrutiny is really very unwise of him,ciao!

True.. This mother in law thing as become kind of a cliché now...

Between... You pretty o

A wife slapped her Mother-In-Law? Abomination, that wife has to go o.

maclatunji:
A wife slapped her Mother-In-Law? Abomination, that wife has to go o.

it's not that simple....
what about the kids?

SAMBARRY:
To start with what does the old woman need the picture for. Ahannn it looks suspicious na and very awkward. Just like a thread i saw the topic something like mother in law wants to bath with daughter in law. The topic was enough to give me an insight to what nauseating things I will see so I spared myself the details because the way the thread was expanding shows that there will be some irritants there. Abeg jare.

Small Time now someone will open a thread saying her mother in law asks her to bring her pants and because she didn't bring it her husband is quarrelling with her.


smh

How can you be asking what she wants the picture for? Are you for real?

Stillfire:
People are here making this comment without even thinking deep.
What did mama do to her own MIL to warrant a dirty slap from her DIL in future? Mama obviously is NOT innocent after all. Please let Karma do its work. Let's not intrude.

Karma is bullsh1t, like you don't know that bad things happen to good people and vice versa.

My own is that, DIL should not have retaliated, mama was wrong to slap her alright but it's the height of 'mannerlessness' to slap and elderly person, let alone your MIL.

coogar:
it's not that simple....
what about the kids?

Those children should be saved from a mother who thinks slapping their father's mother is justifiable.

SAMBARRY:
I know my mom better than someone else's mom. I know what my mom is capable of doing, I don't know what another person's mother is capable of doing so don't get all emotional on me . Thank you sir

Sweetie d day you married his son that day she has become your mother.

Slap your MIL? Abomination! God forbid! Egun.

Young ladies sha--- carry marriage for head because they have a ring on their finger and then the guy should have only them and nobody else.

The day any woman to abi ninu obirin abi ti a gbe jade ninu obirin go try am for my mum heeenn she will not only move out of my brother's house but will also learn a biiiggg lesson wen her parent nor teach her before she jump enter marriage.

BTW I am a wife and a mother myself with three children and will never try that with even my husband's elder ones let alone MIL no matter the confrontation.

misfab:
op..seriously wats d reason for this ur contorted opinion tell me.
addn more fuel to an already raging fire.

yes...d wife shuldnt hav slapped back MIL but dear shit happens n u were not der to see wat actually apnd.
d MIL is a troubleshooter n thats that.

stop blaming d young woman for her actions. she must hav regrettd her actions afterwards.
so shooo.....
lets al forget it
and pray neva to b in her shoes.
#peace

bring your mother foward let me beat her up you fool. I wonder the kind of home some of you are bred. Maybe your mother was bad woman to you.

But let me tell you that lots of people are well bred and nurtures by their mothers.

God knows I will NEVER tolerate such a wife... She will get 10 folds of whatever she did to my mum.

iwatch:
bring your mother foward let me beat her up you fool. I wonder the kind of home some of you are bred. Maybe your mother was bad woman to you.

But let me tell you that lots of people are well bred and nurtures by their mothers.

God knows I will NEVER tolerate such a wife... She will get 10 folds of whatever she did to my mum.

watever did i say to u mister. bringn my mother into this n calln me a fool ontop? niccur i hav a right to my opinion. well..i wont insult u back cos i cant let u get to me.ur question of wat kind of home am from shuld b directed to u. u sound mannerless n mean. dont mention me again..
steer clear scallywag

misfab:
watever did i say to u mister. bringn my mother into this n calln me a fool ontop? niccur i hav a right to my opinion. well..i wont insult u back cos i cant let u get to me.ur question of wat kind of home am from shuld b directed to u. u sound mannerless n mean. dont mention me again..
steer clear scallywag

oh... You felt pained cos I mentioned your mother right? But here you awhile ago you were in support of a woman slapping her MIL. Even had the temerity to say Shiiit happens... Walahi you go chop that shiiit if Na me.

Make thunder scatter that your hand Wey u take type that nonsense.



This how people come online to support what they wont tolerate.

Rubbish

Nairaland!

iwatch:
oh... You felt pained cos I mentioned your mother right? But here you awhile ago you were in support of a woman slapping her MIL. Even had the temerity to say Shiiit happens... Walahi you go chop that shiiit if Na me.

Make thunder scatter that your hand Wey u take type that nonsense.

This how people come online to support what they wont tolerate.

Rubbish

point is u dint read my first post or prolly u dint understand. did u read dpart whr i said d lady must hav regrettd her actions?? well d MIL has no rite to slap her.
thats assault.

as for u dear....i wont trade words wit u. kip rantn lik a deranged dog. yaba left awaits u.

sherrylo:
Sweetie d day you married his son that day she has become your mother.

really? Story for the






have you heard the yoruba proverb that says a mother knows her OWN children. When it gets to real issues that is when you will know there's a big difference between your own biological mother and another person's mother and that's why the elders say any woman that says she will love another person's child like hers is only deceiving herself because even me sef cannot love another person's child more than my own. So make no mistake about it your mother is your mother and another person's mother is another person's mother. The difference is as clear from East to West

SAMBARRY:
To start with what does the old woman need the picture for. Ahannn it looks suspicious na and very awkward. Just like a thread i saw the topic something like mother in law wants to bath with daughter in law. The topic was enough to give me an insight to what nauseating things I will see so I spared myself the details because the way the thread was expanding shows that there will be some irritants there. Abeg jare.

Small Time now someone will open a thread saying her mother in law asks her to bring her pants and because she didn't bring it her husband is quarrelling with her.


smh

exactly,after d dedication y didnt she ask d son to bring d pix but went to d wife.
Wat d wife did was very wrong but mama would ve control nt to slap her daughter inlaw.its nt fair call a spade a spade.

blesoh:
exactly,after d dedication y didnt she ask d son to bring d pix but went to d wife.
Wat d wife did was very wrong but mama would ve control nt to slap her daughter inlaw.its nt fair call a spade a spade.

what does the Bible say about parents provoking their children to anger, talk more of an adult and someone who is not your blood?



every sense of decorum will fly out and you will have landed 2 back on her cheeks before remembering anything like mil

SAMBARRY:
what does the Bible say about parents provoking their children to anger, talk more of an adult and someone who is not your blood?



every sense of decorum will fly out and you will have landed 2 back on her cheeks before remembering anything like mil

very true,hmmmm cant remember my MIL for once shouting @ me,she will only talk to me like a mother.if God blesses me wid a boy d wife will enjoy me.
D op opinion is one sided,talk frm both side and balance it.such mothers eh der cant talk bak @ deir daughters oh.

blesoh:
exactly,after d dedication y didnt she ask d son to bring d pix but went to d wife.
Wat d wife did was very wrong but mama would ve control nt to slap her daughter inlaw.its nt fair call a spade a spade.

It still doesn't make sense. How will I deny my MIL the picture of her grandchild, i don't understand. That's why the old woman got angry because she will be wondering why her DIL will do just that Do u think a wife that cannot release pictures will now give the baby to MIL to snap herself
She was wrong in denying her the pics in the first place, even more wrong in slapping back her MIL