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Yomieluv:
Loving friends more than the family broke my brother's marriage..

He would be at home,yet be chatting with his numerous babes outside,he keeps late niteout,he drinks alcohol like a drowning fish.

He does opposite of a married man,the marriage only lasted 3years,the rest is history..

I can't just allow my marriage to crash,I pray God gives me a very good wife,who understands,and values the essence of marriage..

Op,nice point.

More reason I love Nairaland.

Discussing your brother's family issue in a public forum shows that you are irresponsible

I HATE NUMBER 5 WITH PASSION.

femi4:
Discussing your brother's family issue in a public forum shows that you are irresponsible

quoting me senselessly shows you are daft..

Little foxes that spoil the vines!

Used to practise habit 1. Don't anymore. I'm wiser now. I try to resolve my issues myself now. Mine sissies aren't the worst.

I consider it a sign of weakness to share our private issues with the public.

Point 3 na problem. With the advent of the social media, one tends to spend less time with loved ones. My woman complains of this, and I'm taking steps to increase time with them.

greatgod2012:
@op, thanks for this beautiful thread. But your thread title should have been directed not only to men(husbands) but also to women (wives) as well. Something like '5 signs of irresponsibility shown by married people' would have been better.

Let everyone who is guilty of any of these bad signs adjusts and make amends for the sake of one's marriage.

Olorun a ko wa moo se o. Amin.

mama woli
@ ur dp na ur pi in b DAT

No 1.....is the very most annoying and very irresponsible.

omexy4real:
There are certain characters shown by some men that depicts irresponsibility. these acts or rather attitudes has left many homes,friendship shattered because its aftermath effects are usually disasterous. this article will be pick-pointing some signs that shows irresponsibility in men. these points are not to judge but to expose the wrongs which makes a man irresponsible. these things are better talked about than overlooked
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1. Discussing Family issues in Public:

This act is one which has to do with sharing with the public an issue which is a family thing. the public will only hear but can never understand with you or give any serious helpful recommendationsbecause when everybody is talking, nobody is talking.

2. Arguing or Nagging When a Responsibility Arises:

Some men display this act when their wives or children talk to them about a need in the home. the truth is whether you have the capacity to do it or not, just listen and never argue because it will mean you do not desire to take up any responsibility that pertains the home.showing care is paramount.

3. Starving The Home Of Your Time:

The greatest gift one can ever give his loved ones is time. when you share the time you have with your family, trust and love will grow but the absence of time sharing gives room for suspicion and hate which will lead to fightS and quarrels most times.

4. Having More Love For The Outside Than The Home:

When you cherish your friends ,work or outside events than your home, you'll gradually shift your love for the home to the outside world. this singular act alone demolishes the foundation of your home.
Watch out for the things that steals your heart away from your beloved home.

5. Transferring Aggressions On Your Family Member:

Sometimes you may be annoyed or offended at work or something. these events are normal but what becomes abnormal or wrong is when you get home and shift the aggression on your innocent loved ones. this will give room for more anger which may give birth to hatred and resentments.you can learn more on the effects of transferred aggression Here.

The above signs are better taken note of than ignored. some men are guilty of the above acts but that doesn't mean they are bad cause sometimes they may not know that it is that serious in terms of its effects on their homes. all men can be loving and caring if they put their heart to it.


SOURCE: http://www.ikeaniblog.com/2015/02/5-signs-of-irresponsibilty-shown-by-men.html

valuing nairaland More than ur wife...op tnxalot for dis..there is nothin irritating to a woman Dan a carefree husband n d other way round.. I pray it's not too late for dem

I am blessed! He is just amazing!
Thank u Lord!

Yomieluv:
Loving friends more than the family broke my brother's marriage..

He would be at home,yet be chatting with his numerous babes outside,he keeps late niteout,he drinks alcohol like a drowning fish.

He does opposite of a married man,the marriage only lasted 3years,the rest is history..

I can't just allow my marriage to crash,I pray God gives me a very good wife,who understands,and values the essence of marriage..

Op,nice point.

More reason I love Nairaland.

And you just broke rule no. 1

EggovinMma:
I HATE NUMBER 5 WITH PASSION.

my sister I hate 5 n 3 wit every Ounce of my being

None of the above.. I already have a house in heaven:-D

5minsmadness:
Amen.

Are you his brother?

dirtymoney:
And you just broke rule no. 1

Rule No 1: Discussing family issues in public

Guilty as charged

Yea,I agree with number 1,I have a colleague who always nag about his wife everytime at work sometimes those tins he complains about his wife never really make any sense I think he stil behaves lyk a baby mama.....

Like seriously is true shaa

Good point.... Pls married people should take note of the above... It will really help...

Anyway God bless Nigeria





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SAMBARRY:
Bukky stop arguing with a deaf and blind person. It's a futile exercise

Referring to someone as deaf and blind cos they don't agree with your opinion is very wrong , in the very least asking for their opinion and explaining why it might be wrong isn't too much to ask for. You owe pickabeau1 an apology for that statement , I know I'm guilty of it and I apologize to anyone I may have insulted on this forum , and off it , in the past

fexichi:
Getting drunk.

what are you drinking?

olu77:
Are you his brother?

she doesnt used to let me rest in the house. always checking my phone and shouting if she sees anything resembling woman's name! anytime come home its you didnt do this, you didnt do that, when will you do this why did you do that, i couldnt take it anymore! so i had to escape to my friends outside. when i ask her for sex she refuses, when i hug her she tells me to stop rough play she doesnt like it, what do you want me to do? abeg free me jo!

On point

martinskelly:
Yea,I agree with number 1,I have a colleague who always nag about his wife everytime at work sometimes those tins he complains about his wife never really make any sense I think he stil behaves lyk a baby mama.....

Really?

5minsmadness:
she doesnt used to let me rest in the house. always checking my phone and shouting if she sees anything resembling woman's name! anytime come home its you didnt do this, you didnt do that, when will you do this why did you do that, i couldnt take it anymore! so i had to escape to my friends outside. when i ask her for sex she refuses, when i hug her she tells me to stop rough play she doesnt like it, what do you want me to do? abeg free me jo!

she did all these?!!! and your bro is up there painting the wrong picture of you! They must be having affairs since you are always coming home late

Give me her phone number.I need to talk sense into her brain

neoapocalypse:
Referring to someone as deaf and dumb cos they don't agree with your opinion is very wrong , in the very least asking for their opinion and explaining why it might be wrong isn't too much to ask for. You owe pickabeau1 an apology for that statement , I know I'm guilty of it and I apologize to anyone I may have insulted on this forum , and off it , in the past

Dont bother with her
I dont know why she can't post on this section without roping either myself or coogar into her web.

Thanks

Seen

5minsmadness:
Amen.

Here I am

subbieD:
Here I am

wow.
speechless i am right now
you complete me
please be mine

5minsmadness:
wow.
speechless i am right now
you complete me
please be mine

Lol.....yeye

subbieD:
Lol.....yeye

Happy easter dearie.

darlenese:
I am blessed! He is just amazing!
Thank u Lord!

hope u are also amazing to him.

neoapocalypse:
Referring to someone as deaf and dumb cos they don't agree with your opinion is very wrong , in the very least asking for their opinion and explaining why it might be wrong isn't too much to ask for. You owe pickabeau1 an apology for that statement , I know I'm guilty of it and I apologize to anyone I may have insulted on this forum , and off it , in the past

did I mention anybodys name? Nawa o