Vickybee:

Romans16:1 Phoebe was called a deacon.

Acts 18 Priscilla and Aquilla were ministers. Priscilla was more prominent than her husband Appollo.

50calibre:

Lol Ironically, someday your dad is going to trade you for money to a man, you're going to drop your maiden name and adopt his.. When you get to his house, tell him you're equal.

Airforce1:
Cc feminist Vickybee

Trouble maker nneka123

Lalasticlala

freecocoa:
I don't like to just give it all out, it's fun to let these ones entertain you, you know.

How a woman who knows almost nothing about 'the struggle' can come up with the things I read on here leaves me laughing, wondering and finally feeling sorry for them, it's really sad sha.

hifaif:

Vickybee is not a feminist, she is a misandrist that needs therapy. As a psychologist that has worked in poor third world nations like Zimbabwe, Namibia, etc etc, I understand Vickybee's case. It is not uncommon. I have been successful with worse cases. She probably was abused as a child or she had such horrendous experience involving a guy or guys. She must not be mistaken for a feminist.
If in the end, we discover she has no such horrendous experience(s), then, we can conclude that she is just being ignorantly headstrong. We will leave her for time and future experiences to teach a serious lesson.

MzNelly:


Are you equal with a man socially? Can you work 12 hours on a construction site?

Are you equal with a man physically? Can you box with a man, if given the chance?

Are you equal with a man sexually? Can you sleep around and not be termed nasty names?

Are you equal with a man spiritually? (In the church, I mean) Preaching and teaching?



I dunno about you, but we are not equal in these areas.

ronald4lif:


Sorry but this is funny. Are you alluding that Nigerian women brand of feminism is different from that of the rest of the world?

sacredheart:

I just had to quote this.. im not a feminist but still I find your post rather disturbing!

God didn't command women to keep shut in church, Paul did(and it was a letter to the Corinthians not every woman in general) aside this, I'm finding it weird that any woman in this generation would rather prefer to be seen and not heard in the church.. and coming from a woman is just out of imagination.
there's no equality between a man and a woman even spiritually? wow! you mean God would answer a man's prayer before mine ? and vice versa.. that's bs! that a woman longs for her husband(which every body does anyways regardless of sex) means she's of no equal to him?
also socially cab you redefine this aspect please?
and by sexuality, I don't grab? what exactly?..
I only agree with the physical aspect. you need to start bringing up facts...seriously!

in marriage, the man is the head and was commanded to love his wife
the woman, commanded to be submissive
equally the man was commanded to respect his wife.
if men of today go by the marital law given to them , I'm quite sure there will be no need to fight for this gender equality in marriage.. but how can you expect me to submit to a man who cheats on me??! loool that's funny!

outside of marriage, no man dare says hes better than me and expect my submission.. he's Jonzing

Ilekeh:
Before Feminist, women weren't allowed to do these things....MzNelly, take note:


1. She could get fired for being pregnant. Working women could have their careers cut short if they became pregnant until the passage of the Pregnancy Discrimination Act of 1978, which outlawed the practice.

2. She couldn't sue for sexual harassment. When Title VII was passed in 1964, it was supposed to eliminate sex discrimination in the workplace. But courts didn't recognize sexual harassment in the workplace until 1977. That maybe because defining sexual harassment was still murky until 1980, when the term was officially defined by the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission.

3. Marital rape wasn't criminalized. Rape within the confines of marriage wasn't recognized as a crime in all 50 states until 1993. Meaning, a women basically couldn't refuse sex to her husband or legally fight back if he raped her.

4.In many states, women couldn't serve on juries. Using the justification that women shouldn't be asked to leave the home, or that their sensibilities were too delicate to hear the gory details during a trial, women in many states couldn't serve on a jury until 1973, when female jurors were permitted in the courtroom throughout the country.

5. They didn't have the right to vote. While the Constitution never prohibited women from voting in the past, the passing of the 19th Amendment made the right a standard for women across the country. Ironically, however, women could hold public office—the first female member of Congress was elected in 1917—but she couldn't even vote for herself to earn the position.

6. Apply to graduate school as a married woman.
At least if you were this woman. Harvard's response to her application has to be seen to be believed

7. Report cases of sexual harassment in the workplace.
The first time that a court recognized sexual harassment in the workplace was in 1977 and it wasn’t until 1980 that sexual harassment was officially defined by the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission.

freecocoa:
Wtf? Women can't work 12 hours on a construction site? Babe, there are women who can, just like there are men who can't.

Seriously, what are you talking about? Some women beat up men everyday.

Wow! Sleeping around is also a yardstick for measurement? And I thought I've seen and heard it all. Now why is it okay for a man to sleep around and it's not for a woman? This is part of what we are talking about, you still haven't said why this should be accepted. A bunch of evil men, made the society this way with their useless religion, traditions and ideas and we are asking for indisputable reasons why this should be, instead of giving me them to me, you are telling me to accept it because a man(who you still haven't told me why, he is superior to me) said so.

Girl you are almost not making sense.

MzNelly:


Phoebe wasn't a deacon.

Deacons were only 7 males.

Phoebe was a minister.
A minister is a preacher of the good news.

Priscilla and Aquilla were also ministers.

Never in the Bible did a woman speak before a synagogue or a church.

Vickybee:

Was there a church in the bible?

Did Jesus form a church?

Or Peter & Paul?

hamilton62:

Bravo!
Keep it up...
The truth is that no one gives what he/she doesn't have.
There's no B without calling first on A...
Is this generation better than the past in marriage, relationship with Man and God? So why do you people think that it's better and call it a CIVILIZED one?
Are the present women better than the past?
Education and civilisation teaches no pure honey morales. Answer the questions then you will have a better understanding.
God created all and there were perfect before people like you came into existence.
When anyone seek for what is no hers, it will definitely burn them.
The oldie is a time of regrets/rejoice... Just wait till that time comes then we SHALL see.

Vickybee:

Was there a church in the bible?

Did Jesus form a church?

Or Peter & Paul?

hamilton62:

Please, can you quote where it is in the bible that a MAN and a WOMAN are equal if you are a christian?
Mind you, don't accuse God if you know nothing about an idea, it's better you shy away because it could be detrimental.

Vickybee:

I wanted to ignore your post but couldn't help replying this part.

My dad isn't poor to trade me for money.

Gracias!

liquidmetall:




Please in which war front?? Can u show me please,
With pics and facts in the nigerian army

And please no inuslts

I know a lot about feminism, keep ur education to ur self
From when it started the motive was right until when nigerian women knew about it...

freecocoa:
Her hubby to be will be lucky because she would "keep quiet" and watch him run her life?

What a joke.

fellis:
is it just me or does this mznelly sound more and more like a man with every post of hers/his?

lol, na wa o,
I know its not hard for men to come online and act like women because their crippling self esteem issues won't let them accept that males and females are equal.

hamilton62:

I am not surprised it's a joke to you my sweetheart but I know it will only be a joke when you are seen by the spectators (everyone) as a leech in culling a marriage and every younger Tom,Dick and Harry need to eat their locust with the honey with you.
Marriage is not meant for every woman (man as the case may be)...
Both in marriage and outside marriage, equality in gender is vague but any man who walks up to you to bridge your integrity outside a TRUE relationship should be dealt with.
Thanks.

chumakk:

My friend, men have worked hard since the beginning of the world and they will just hand over to women over night(this the idea of feminism. share everything equal. It is our political zoning) It is just how they are created. Women have their place. They are the ones that make men work harder. Men and women are unit. They are not made to compete especially in marriage. The k-leg in feminism ideology is that of equality. Even all men are not equal. Equality is hard to achieve in this world because not everybody started equally

Vickybee:

When the featherbrained lady you posted her jargons get the meaning of feminism, you can mention me for an intelligent conversation.

I'm not fighting for any equal rights because i'm equal with anybody both male and female all-together. No one can trample and ride on my ego because i'm a female. Dude, the world is fast evolving!

Feminism is fighting on how to change men view about us, eh.
-Empowering women to work hard.
-Making women to stop depending on guys financially. Work to make your own money and spare their insults.
-Changing our female archaic view e.g how can a man whistle at you and you answer him?. Are you a dog?
-Stopping women from objectifying themselves etc

Y'all need to get an education. I'm tired of ignorance of Nigerian men.

50calibre:


So your dad is going to let you get married to a man just like that, without getting something in return hahahahahahaha don't kid yourself young girl, that ain't happening.

You just like every other Nigerian girl shall be traded for something. You wanna be true feminists, start from there. Charity begins at home, convince your dads to stop placing a price tag your heads like a commodity.

You can't pick and mix, you want to adopt a foreign ideology, you've got to adopt it in its totality.

liquidmetall:







Yes bro

When they knew about it

They took it to china and reduced the quality

Trust me brother, all these women in nairaland that are shouting feminism up and down or shouting they want gender equality in their homes
Take a trip to their house and see how their husband are dealing with them

They don't have a say in their homes

This is the only place where they pour out their frustration..

Lol @ they took it to China. China has suffered.

I for one, share a handful of sentiment with the feminist ideology. But, I'm always vulnerable to fail in such debate especially when references are made from Bible and mostly supported by religion.

Most feminists that I know are either Atheist or Agnostics. I find it hard to comprehend when a strong Christian/Muslim believer are supporting feminism. I think it's contradictory and hypocritical to their belief. I stand to be corrected though.

hifaif:


Vickybee is not a feminist, she is a misandrist that needs therapy. As a psychologist that has worked in poor third world nations like Zimbabwe, Namibia, etc etc, I understand Vickybee's case. It is not uncommon. I have been successful with worse cases. She probably was abused as a child or she had such horrendous experience involving a guy or guys. She must not be mistaken for a feminist.

If in the end, we discover she has no such horrendous experience(s), then, we can conclude that she is just being ignorantly headstrong. We will leave her for time and future experiences to teach a serious lesson.

Vickybee:

You don't know my dad. Stop speaking for him.

Thanks

ronald4lif:


Lol @ they took it to China. China has suffered.

I for one, share a handful of sentiment with the feminist ideology. But, I'm always vulnerable to fail in such debate especially when references are made from Bible and mostly supported by religion.

Most feminists that I know are either Atheist or Agnostics. I find it hard to comprehend when a strong Christian/Muslim believer are supporting feminism. I think it's contradictory and hypocritical to their belief. I stand to be corrected though.