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ceny6:
What the OP is trying to say is that since ladies are naturally emotional it's a dangerous signal when u are in relationship and the lady has little or no contribution in sustaining the relationship . Op am I correct?

Jamesdman:
I can't agree more with you @OP.
Women were created and placed in a supplementary role; to make up for the deficiencies of men. One of such deficiencies is a lower emotional capacity as compared to women. Thus, when a woman loves, she does so much more strongly than most men. Logically then, if in a relationship, the woman really loves her partner, then she should be much more into him than he to her.
However, this is only hypothetical, as there are always variations in human populations. Some men tend to be more emotional than women and vice versa. More so, environmental factors, such as, parental training, childhood experience, past experiences and peer influence could negatively impart on a woman's emotional capabilities and its influence in a relationship.

ebonflex:
Women are naturally more emotional and nurturing so it balances out on the man's end from his efforts.
If the woman, who is supposedly naturally more nurturing, is sitting down watching the man do too much, then it's just not going to work in the long haul. We see the negative effects everyday of guys doing too much.

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ZedX6:
[color=#150000]This is very correct. I'm glad you buy into this philosophy as well.

Every where in nature, a female chooses her male. It's the same with humans. If a woman doesn't go over the mmon for her man no matter what he does for her, that union will not last. Guys may try to deceive themselves but it's really all about the woman. That is why when they do the chasing, it's with all their heart. That is why it is also said that when a girl says she loves you, she really means it. . . It takes a lot for a woman to fore go her innate pride and confess her love for her man, when she has crossed that barrier, there is no going back and that is why when you hurt a woman who truly loves you, she could kill you.

I laugh when I see guys chasing one girl for weeks, months or years. I always tell those who care to listen that it takes a lady less than 5 seconds to decide if she likes you and would want to date you. As she sees you approaching her for the first time, her mind is already made up about you. If she accepts to get to know you better at that instant, it doesn't mean she is cheap. She knows what she's doing.

The struggle for males should be to find that woman who loves them more than he loves her. . . 5 star thread.[/color]

ZedX6:
[color=#150000]This is very correct. I'm glad you buy into this philosophy as well.
Every where in nature, a female chooses her male. It's the same with humans. If a woman doesn't go over the mmon for her man no matter what he does for her, that union will not last. Guys may try to deceive themselves but it's really all about the woman. That is why when they do the chasing, it's with all their heart. That is why it is also said that when a girl says she loves you, she really means it. . . It takes a lot for a woman to fore go her innate pride and confess her love for her man, when she has crossed that barrier, there is no going back and that is why when you hurt a woman who truly loves you, she could kill you.
I laugh when I see guys chasing one girl for weeks, months or years. I always tell those who care to listen that it takes a lady less than 5 seconds to decide if she likes you and would want to date you. As she sees you approaching her for the first time, her mind is already made up about you. If she accepts to get to know you better at that instant, it doesn't mean she is cheap. She knows what she's doing.
The struggle for males should be to find that woman who loves them more than he loves her. . . 5 star thread.[/color]

Jamesdman:
@Bolded is so so true.
Just that, socioculturally, men are supposed to ask ladies out and not the other way round. Hence, most ladies shy away from outrightly asking out a guy they've mentally chosen. However, they do indirectly, try to get his attention.
That's one reason why, 80% of the time, if a guy acts on greenlight emissions from a lady, he ends up successfully dating her.