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| How People Friend-zone Themselves by Mzflexydeeva(op): 1:29pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Friend- Zone.... a lot of boys and girls still live and nurse the hurt of been friend zoned. A lot of people have even missed out of a life of love cos of this syndrome. In truth, individuals who get the friend zoning usually bring dis fate on themselves. We never meet a person the first time and have our minds made up on what we want from them. Knowledge of a person is gradual and unending. It's is disastrous for you to assume especially when it has to do with dealing with individuals and the opposite sex. The reason some people are always in the friend zone is because they lost every sense of surprise and have self placed themselves in roles/positions not intended for them. You meet a girl you like, rather than voice out u stick around forming her knight in shiny armour. When she's stranded you are a call away : when the ex come running back you are the listening ear: when bored you are a ping away: when broke you are her charity knock: when sick you are her person health care provider bla bla bla but the one thing you are not is her special one(boyfriend/love). In most cases, the girl gets so use to you been there she never going too look beyond that. If you have accepted her to be your best friend there's every chance you friend zoned yourself. Girls like & want to date guys who can still surprise them, refuse them certain favours not guys that parade themselves like puppets running to meet the every need & desire of aa girl. You maay be nice, caring, generous and even handsome but the minute you become available at her beck and call you make it impossible for you to be taken serious. Don't stick around a girl who says we can only be friends hoping some day she'll change her mind. If you do that you make yourself a perfect candidate for "maga". If you really like her & all she says is we can only be friends then give her some space, develop yourself, let her miss you in her life. You may just be shocked at how much you'll be appreciated when you give it another try. Ladies; I know a lot of you don't get friend zoned but for the few that do please understand this statement "You can't force love". Don't watch him sleep around while you cry in the middle of the night all by yourself because he's your friend. No guy will take you serious if you visit & still cook for him and the other girl pretending you are just friends. When he needs advice on how to approach another lady your advice comes in handy because you are just friends. If only people would just come out of their she'll and express themselves. Don't complicate your life and the lives of other simply because you are too scared to take a risk of been rejected. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How People Friend-zone Themselves by Nobody: 2:13pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Interesting piece...... So, can we conclude that only those who are not confident to speak out are liable to be friend-zoned  |
| Re: How People Friend-zone Themselves by Mzflexydeeva(op): 4:11pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Ferdybaba:yes 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How People Friend-zone Themselves by zubinike(m): 2:02pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Strong note, I think I did something more similar dating the girl that just dumped me 2days ago after 2and half years. Could someone pretend to be in love for that long? |
| Re: How People Friend-zone Themselves by Mzflexydeeva(op): 7:25pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
zubinike:hell yes! |
| Re: How People Friend-zone Themselves by vislabraye(m): 9:35am On Apr 10, 2015 |
Friend zone is one, brother zone is another...non is good at all. |
| Re: How People Friend-zone Themselves by Mzflexydeeva(op): 10:20am On Apr 10, 2015 |
vislabraye:hahahahhahahahahhahah |
| Re: How People Friend-zone Themselves by SortCode(m): 10:56am On Apr 10, 2015 |
Hmmmm, friend zone......the most dangerous zone in the world |
| Re: How People Friend-zone Themselves by zubinike(m): 5:46pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva:Believe it or not, am confused. Loving in pretense. Wow, my heart skips |
| Re: How People Friend-zone Themselves by basille(m): 7:59pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Nice piece. I believe people should always define what they want out of every relationship before going into it. |
| Re: How People Friend-zone Themselves by Mzflexydeeva(op): 9:58pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
zubinike:reality my friend |
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