Medunah:
most feminists in Nigeria are wannabes, all bark no bite

Blackett:
Feminism has always been nonsense. It's so inconsequential I only nod when I'm discussing..........

I only want to shut them the hell up since it's pointless engaging in a conversation with them.

Medunah:
most feminists in Nigeria are wannabes, all bark no bite

Xiadnat:


Hm. Really? This begs the question; what is your definition of a feminist?

I am a feminist: I believe in the social, political, and economic rights of women. You don't agree with this?

*Interesting*.....

rudebouy:
For all the ladies in the house, if you wanna be a true feminist, you have to follow these principles, if not, you're a scam.

1. If you see a guy u like, go toast d niccur. If ur date is slacking and u nid marriage, den u can PROPOSE to him or tell him u wanna get married.

2. If u are in a relationship:

- Call as often as d guy, sometimes. Call him everyday if possible and spend at least 5mins on each call. Dont just ask for airtime, send him airtime also.

- Be d one to initiate the kissing and the sex, sometimes.

- Pay for the drinks and food when u guys are out on a date, sometimes.

- When it's his birthday, get him something expensive, not a boxer short or single, I mean something worth thousands of naira. Take him out on a date and spend YOUR money on him, sometimes. And der is absolutely nothing wrong with bearing all d expenses on ur valentine day's outing.

3. When planning for the wedding, split the total expenses 50-50 and also pay with YOUR money. Its equal rights we are talking abt here, abi?.

4. If u guys are married:

- Take up some masculine responsibilies in d home. E.g. Learn to fix the bulbs, change d car tyres unaided. If d gen or tv is bad, fix it. Dont wait for hubby to do it.

- Split the total bills at home into two equal parts since its equal rights . So if my money is our money therefore YOUR MONEY becomes OUR MONEY also. So u hav to take up 50 percent of the bills too.

5. During SEX:

- Initiate or be the one to ask for it sometimes.

- Do most of d fvcking sometimes. Encourage him to sit down or lie down, while you sit on his dickk and ride it, bounce on it and cowgirl dat tin to the north, south, west and east for over 30 mins till ur satisfied. Why shd the man do all the work all the time, huh? :/

6. When d man is not happy, do provide some emotional support and ginger to motivate him.

7. When der is a challenge at home or he's facing some challenges in d ofis, do provide some sound ideas dat can be of help.

If u wanna be a true feminist, stop being on the receiving side and start staying on the giving and contributing side of life.

Dis is d only way to be a true feminist becos EQUAL RIGHTS means EQUAL RESPONSIBILITIES also.

Vickybee:

Life isn't all about marriage.
Feminists have many things to think about than worrying over marrage which is inconsequential and not source of happiness.


Feminism speaks about gender equality not placing women above men.
It's not by force to call him. I can call him if I wish not because you said it.
I don't beg any guy for airtime neither does he beg me. He's well to do.


Life isn't all about sex and meanwhile, women have low libido when compared to men.
A married woman might go for years without having sex unlike men.
Anyone that's interested in sex among the two, should initiate it first.


If a man wants to pay for the drink; so be it.
If a woman wants to pay for the drink; so be it.

Peoples relationship shouldn't be your business. Mind yours!


Just because your girlfriend is poor and doesn't do all these things to you, means some women don't get tangible things for their boyfriends, abi?.
Speak for yourself.
Take a look at Foluronsho Alakija, Chimamanda Adichie, Omotola Jalade Ekeinde etc; do you mean they don't buy things for their husband?


Some women actually sponsor the wedding. Get out from your cave and explore the world.


I can fix a bulb.
If I want to change a tire, I can get a mechanic to help me.
If it's generator or TV, I can get repairers and pay them with my money.


Who told you many women don't do this?
Stop using women around you to judge others.


Some women actually ask for sex first.


Because your girlfriend is lazy in bed doesn't equate other women.


Which good wife doesn't do this?


Which good wife doesn't do this?


Have you dated a feminist to think they are on a receiving end?.

P.S Not all women are feminist. Don't think any lazy woman receiving from her husband is a feminist.

Date a feminist and share your story(good news).