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shumuel:
It just doesn't feel right, The Bible says and i quote ''It is not what goes into the Man that defiles the Man but what comes out of him''

Just think of it, the same tongue you use in Praying ''communicating'' with your maker is the same tongue you use to lick sper.m or cum, these things are meant for reproductions not Ice-creams.

But because the world has gone A wire, if you must, please protect the tongue. I heard there are Tongue Condo.ms now, use it.

joseph1832:
You should have asked, "should a born again be having sex?".

shumuel:
It just doesn't feel right, The Bible says and i quote ''It is not what goes into the Man that defiles the Man but what comes out of him''

Just think of it, the same tongue you use in Praying ''communicating'' with your maker is the same tongue you use to lick sper.m or cum, these things are meant for reproductions not Ice-creams.

But because the world has gone A wire, if you must, please protect the tongue. I heard there are Tongue Condo.ms now, use it.

Holmes07:
Get mental help b4 tinz get out ov hands bro. My God! Didnt u read diz post before commenting?? I said ''is giving a head during sex sinful??'' nt the nonsensical insinuations u av...

IHate9ja1:
Your thoughts though.....if you are romantic enough,there are better ways to sensitize and stimulate your partner than engage in such sexual pervertious acts.see what watching porn has caused many thus clouding their sense of jugdement.am not claiming i'm not a sinner,but engaging in such act like this is a NO NO,my inner man forbids this,and any DECENT SPOUSE wont agree that your treat her like a LovePeddler in the bedroom.BACK in my home town....i have only seen GOATS engage in such acts and not humans.
Was suprised to read a topic here on NL that many find it cool to sleep with a female during menses...maybe the headgivers wld also drink a cup of that...

chibwike:
Do people actually practice that dirty act?...thought its done only in porn movies

joseph1832:
Oh yea? You should read your post again and this time, try and let comprehension be your best friend!. Then you will truly understand what I said.

tosyne2much:
A pastor once said giving head as a chronic christian is a sinful act

All I know is that, Nigerians condemn some acts without Bible reference to back up their claims

shumuel:
Lol, am sure what you want to imply is that ''Fruit'' there means Sperm abi ?

Well i no know o coz i no dey there when them they do am but i question if i may ask - So Nigerians would say ''Ha the film is sweet'' even tho its wrong English does this mean the movies serve chocolate during the time he/she viewed it ? The same way a Nigerian would say ''Omo men that girl sweet die'' or ''that guy too sweet'' those this statement means the He or She that made those statment meant giving Head or just trying to explain how good or how they enjoyed sex with the other Person ?

Waiting your reply.

Holmes07:
I dnt knw som pple are too adamant in acknowledging their mistakes. What is the cannection between wat i asked nd wat u earlier suggested??

braintext:
I go skul but them no teach me that one

pillarmaria:
ma'am, you just seem too extra ordinary for me via ur comments and post... I love you for real joor

Ifebazz:
Bros must you require a bible reference to back up every thing you do in life?
Do you require a bible reference to tell you to eat when you are hungry? Or to take bike when the traffic is tight and you're running late for work?
I just wonder sometimes whether God gave us senses just to wait on others' opinions.
The first comment nailed it. Mutual agreement, by the couple, not adultery nor funication. Do anal, BDSM, masochism, voyeurs, bondage etc provided it's in mutual agreement. Haba....

bankyblue:
Dirty! hmmm, bros na because u never get the experinnce o, pls give ur joystick to some one that know our to chew it, and u will forever be obligated to that person.

and mind u too fit give head sha.

missclasssy:
[color=#000030]What I can't stand is when christians act too holy.
It's really annoying.

Okay, you say it is wrong to have sex till you marry, and now you are married, you are saying it's wrong to "give a head."?
This is rubbish in my opinion and it's a case of religious adherents forcing laws upon themselves.

I believe a couple is supposed to have sex in any way that suits them.
How will someone say that because you use the mouth in praying, then you shouldn't use it in giving a mouth action........
Is that not the same mouth you use In kissing?

Where in the bible did God direct us on the way a husband and wife should have sex?.

As far as I am concerned, any christian couple is free to indulge in any form of sexual practice so far as its just between the two of them and it gives then consensual pleasure.....[/color]

joseph1832:
Okay I admit my mistake, happy now?.

ireneony:
^^^
on a serious note(mis) this lady does not type like a lady(transgender)

Holmes07:
I came across someone who said he cant use the mouth that he uses to pray to give blow jobs, cuz he claims to be born again. In my own opinion, i dnt see anytin bad in giving blow jobs to ur partner(married) even iv u're born again.. I want u guys to throw more light on diz issue.

Ifebazz:
Bros must you require a bible reference to back up every thing you do in life?
Do you require a bible reference to tell you to eat when you are hungry? Or to take bike when the traffic is tight and you're running late for work?
I just wonder sometimes whether God gave us senses just to wait on others' opinions.
The first comment nailed it. Mutual agreement, by the couple, not adultery nor funication. Do anal, BDSM, masochism, voyeurs, bondage etc provided it's in mutual agreement. Haba....

missclasssy:
[color=#000030]Nonsense.

Did God ever instruct you that the _penis is supposed to enter the _virgina?
So you still need God to explain to you how you are supposed to enjoy sex with you partner?

I laugh in heavenly tongues.[/color]

braintext:
Why not simply give me an explanation

mhuyil:
Islam! Too complete.

buygala:
In Nigeria, everything the Pastor disagrees with IN PUBLIC is a sin from his standpoint, regardless of whether he does it or much worse in private


As far as I know, the Bible makes no provisions for oral intercourse.... so as long as it isn't done in furtherance of Fornication and Adultery or in public, It shouldn't be anyone's business how married peeps consensually choose to have sex with each other


Point is.... If the Bible says nothing about it, why should I give a fucck about some pastor's opinion?

Holmes07:
Watever..

Hexzyz:
Can you have anal sex with your spouse? Remember that act is sodomy, and its abomination before God. Some of these practices are orchestrated by the devil to make something God made beautiful to be at fault before God. As a believer, shun all abominable sexual practices. The devil is making sure, he gets at you in all aspect of your life, including sexual pleasure.

JoeCutie:
I'm so very sick & tired of naive, myopic, confused and in fact, silly Christians.

Okay, let's get something straight here. Sex and or sexual activities of any sort - before marriage - are sins. Apart from this single fact, which I've known and accepted since I was old enough to write my names, nobody should put any silly bullsheet to my face again! What's all this?

A good number of us have(had) sex even though we are(were) not married. Okay, we know it's a sin, and that's it - Sin. Nothing less, nothing more. We hope God forgives.

If and when I get married, I can have sex with my wife inside the bedroom - on the bed, on the floor, under the bed, inside the wardrobe; in the office, in the car, in the toilet/bathroom, in the kitchen, in the sitting room, at the dining table, in the garden, even at the balcony...if I(we) want to. We just need to make sure that the kids are not around, that they are not watching. Oh, before I was been restricted from having sex, and when I'm married, haven attained that height where I'd be given the go-ahead license to have sex, the story now changes to being restricted from enjoying it the way I deem fit? All these laws/rules/orders (or whatever silly name you give them) are meant for the weak - those who are weak enough, both in faith, in mentality, in themselves etc, to buy that fu_cked up idea, and not for the strong like me. I know my faith, I know my God, and I know what He wants from me.

People are funny! We have ten commandments. Just ten, but we know what it means to observe one out of the ten. Just ten. Now, we are trying our utmost best to see if we can in all sincerity, keep at least, one a day, and people are inventing more rules from God-knows-where, and adding to the already existing ones? Gawd! Who is telling them these? Oh, my...

Do these same people know this: that if they have sex using the missionary style (where the girl would annoyingly lay on her back like Margaret Thatcher's corpse, as if nothing is happening - which is more annoying and seriously, really uncalled for - because something is happening. Oh, you don't know what? Sex is 'happening', you biatch! ) and I have sex using a total of 107 styles, of course including "Head", that we are even? Seriously if the 'Trumpet' were to sound soon after, we are even. Off we go...to the same destination, baiby. Why deceive yourself?
If you have the license to do something, why not do it in a way that pleases you? I'd do it in a way that brings utmost satisfaction to my heart. Life is too short. I can't continue to live mine in restrictions. From who? Not even from God, but from "The Man of God".

Do you know what these people are saying deductively? They are saying that;
1.) If you're having sex using just missionary, you're committing one sin... Sex!
2.) But if you're having sex using other styles... Including "Head", you're committing two (or multiple) sins... Sex & Style!

If you're bold enough to have sex (notwithstanding the consequences), you should be bold enough to explore ALL the styles there is. My dear Nigerians, the 'problem' is not the styles of sex, the 'problem' is sex itself. If you're having sex, have sex and shut up. And if you're not having sex, shut up and shut up.

Oh, and uhmm... If I kiss, I must press yansh (Hello Pastor, is that one extra sinful sin too) Why? Because I love Rice & stew. So if you can't cook rice & stew, you move ahead!

kendrick9:
hmm. u might be right..... fair enough

akoaki:
The pastors also said that not coming regularly to church is a sin and the gullible congregation clapped and shouted loud amen to it. Very said. The bible says the people are perished because they lack knowledge. .....