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Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Apr 16, 2015
Can anyone actually give us any biblical reference that giving head or receiving head is bad?

PS: how does giving head or receiving head offend anyone?
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Barnabaseloka(m): 12:54pm On Apr 16, 2015
Nature as created by God has taught us restrictions to some forms of sex. Different body parts have their different functions. Any abuse or misuse of any will lead to serious problems. The mouth and the anus are not meant for the penis but only the vagina. This is b/c the vagina becomes lubricated naturally to receive such penetration. God has put everything in place and we know this. What make us seek new ways to explore our partners' bodies through oral or anal sex are lust (always tying new, dangerous ways) and lack of self control. God owns the bodies of the man and woman, even though the body of the man is meant for the wife and vice versa. Even in marriage and during sex, you should know when you have crossed the boundary that nature provides. In christianity, it is not everything that is explicitly written in the Scriptures. This is why the Holy Spirit is in you to guide you into all truth, even when such practices seem 'normal' to the world. Whatever you do,even during sex, do all to God's glory! Self-control is one of the fruit of the Spirit, so exhibit it, so that you will not put your health in danger. Do not let your sexual pleasures lead you astray and away from God.

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Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by shumuel(m): 12:54pm On Apr 16, 2015
Vickybee:

Many sins were mentioned in Leviticus.

Anal sex isn't the main reason like you stated but one of the sin .


hahaha Lol, i told you you were funny, dont worry you are getting close you would soon get there.

I feared the first time i read that book in the bible and all i could say when i finished was ''No one would make Heaven''
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Nicepoker(m): 12:56pm On Apr 16, 2015
datguru:
God made the dicck for the pusssy, putting it elsewhere is a sin of uncleanness
even putting it inside ur pants. Lol.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 12:57pm On Apr 16, 2015
This we see in the front page this days shocked
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by JoeCutie(m): 12:57pm On Apr 16, 2015
I'm so very sick & tired of naive, myopic, confused and in fact, silly Christians. undecided

Okay, let's get something straight here. Sex and or sexual activities of any sort - before marriage - are sins. Apart from this single fact, which I've known and accepted since I was old enough to write my names, nobody should put any silly bullsheet to my face again! What's all this?

A good number of us have(had) sex even though we are(were) not married. Okay, we know it's a sin, and that's it - Sin. Nothing less, nothing more. We hope God forgives.

If and when I get married, I can have sex with my wife inside the bedroom - on the bed, on the floor, under the bed, inside the wardrobe; in the office, in the car, in the toilet/bathroom, in the kitchen, in the sitting room, at the dining table, in the garden, even at the balcony...if I(we) want to. We just need to make sure that the kids are not around, that they are not watching. Oh, before I was been restricted from having sex, and when I'm married, haven attained that height where I'd be given the go-ahead license to have sex, the story now changes to being restricted from enjoying it the way I deem fit? All these laws/rules/orders (or whatever silly name you give them) are meant for the weak - those who are weak enough, both in faith, in mentality, in themselves etc, to buy that fu_cked up idea, and not for the strong like me. I know my faith, I know my God, and I know what He wants from me.

People are funny! We have ten commandments. Just ten, but we know what it means to observe one out of the ten. Just one. Now, we are trying our utmost best to see if we can in all sincerity, keep at least, one a day, and people are inventing more rules from God-knows-where, and adding to the already existing ones? Gawd! Who is telling them these things? Oh, my... embarassed

Do these same people know this: that if they have sex using the missionary style (where the girl would annoyingly lay on her back like Margaret Thatcher's corpse, as if nothing is happening - which is more annoying and seriously, really uncalled for - because something is happening. Oh, you don't know what? Sex is 'happening', you biatch! ) and I have sex using a total of 107 styles, of course including "Head", that we are even? Seriously if the 'Trumpet' were to sound soon after, we are even. Off we go...to the same destination, baiby. Why deceive yourself? undecided
If you have the license to do something, why not do it in a way that pleases you? I'd do it in a way that brings utmost satisfaction to my heart. Life is too short. I can't continue to live mine in restrictions. From who? Not even from God, but from "The Man of God". undecided

Do you know what these people are saying deductively? They are saying that;
1.) If you're having sex using just missionary, you're committing one sin... Sex!
2.) But if you're having sex using other styles... Including "Head", you're committing two (or multiple) sins... Sex & Style! grin

If you're bold enough to have sex (notwithstanding the consequences), you should be bold enough to explore ALL the styles there is. My dear Nigerians, the 'problem' is not the styles of sex, the 'problem' is sex itself. If you're having sex, have sex and shut up. And if you're not having sex, shut up and shut up.

Oh, and uhmm... If I kiss, I must press yansh (Hello Pastor, is that one extra-sinful-sin too) Why? Because I love Rice & stew. So if you can't cook (by "cook" you know what I mean, right? wink ) rice & stew, you move ahead! cheesy wink

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Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by tosyne2much(m): 12:58pm On Apr 16, 2015
akoaki:



The pastors also said that not coming regularly to church is a sin and the gullible congregation clapped and shouted loud amen to it. Very said. The bible says the people are perished because they lack knowledge. .....

May God deliver us and open our eyes
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by naijaboiy: 12:58pm On Apr 16, 2015
grin
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Toks2008(m): 12:59pm On Apr 16, 2015
Lol

There is no rule of sex within the confinement of marriage..

If i dont give my wife mouth action then who will?

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Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by t2luv1: 1:00pm On Apr 16, 2015
agarawu23:
ladies should do anything that will keep their marriage not relationship.

dick wasn't giving instruction s to enter the pusssy before we know how to use it.

if my wife can't give me head, I wonder why i married her.

Thanks to you, we now know why you married her. The question is can you give her head? or does she also need to start wondering why she married you.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by olatricia(m): 1:00pm On Apr 16, 2015
ireneony:
the question is, is he marriedundecided if not, I don't see any born again in himgrin. ..why would a born again have sex in the first place...
op the truth is God would never answer his prayer if he fornicate.

born again my foot.

if he is a married man, he should go ahead with...
Solomon married more 300 wives with lot of concubines yet God answered his prayerundecided

he better start giving head o grin

This ur bright bold eyes would not lemme stop looking at you oooo... I dont mind a head oooo wink
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Demmzy15(m): 1:01pm On Apr 16, 2015
Islamically, MouthAction is allowed even though it's discouraged! But what is highly prohibited is going through the 'Nyash', also known as 'doggy style'. grin
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Nicepoker(m): 1:01pm On Apr 16, 2015
Nnemuka:
Christians should learn the 69 position during sex.
speed limit of sex. 69km per hour.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Joe4real1988(m): 1:01pm On Apr 16, 2015
missclasssy:


Nonsense.

Did God ever instruct you that the _penis is supposed to enter the _virgina?
So you still need God to explain to you how you are supposed to enjoy sex with you partner?

I laugh in heavenly tongues.
miss know it all, let me ask u: is it hygienic to hav sex wit sum1 who is menstruatin? if no, dat simply means evrytyn abt d vagina is not hygienic. If u so much bliv dat d vagina is so clean 2 b lickd, y do u wash ur pant? U shud b wearin same pant all yr round nw.. I pity sum guyz coz dey dnt knw dat MouthAction is anoda easier way of contractin STD. If u nt satisfied wit my dick, den u fvck off
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Reference(m): 1:04pm On Apr 16, 2015
wrench:
Bl.ow Job or cunnilingus

Now you are getting more complicated. The first one sounds like the job of the Army Corps of Engineers, the second....well I'll ask my linguistic teacher.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Helkayklassic(m): 1:06pm On Apr 16, 2015
datguru:
God made the dicck for the pusssy, putting it elsewhere is a sin of uncleanness

Must you park ur car at the garage always? you can try somewhere else, may be the airport!! Lool.

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Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by naijaboiy: 1:06pm On Apr 16, 2015
JoeCutie:
I'm so very sick & tired of naive, myopic, confused and in fact, silly Christians. undecided

Okay, let's get something straight here. Sex and or sexual activities of any sort - before marriage - are sins. Apart from this single fact, which I've known and accepted since I was old enough to write my names, nobody should put any silly bullsheet to my face again! What's all this?

A good number of us have(had) sex even though we are(were) not married. Okay, we know it's a sin, and that's it - Sin. Nothing less, nothing more. We hope God forgives.

If and when I get married, I can have sex with my wife inside the bedroom - on the bed, on the floor, under the bed, inside the wardrobe; in the office, in the car, in the toilet/bathroom, in the kitchen, in the sitting room, at the dining table, in the garden, even at the balcony...if I(we) want to. We just need to make sure that the kids are not around, that they are not watching. Oh, before I was been restricted from having sex, and when I'm married, haven attained that height where I'd be given the go-ahead license to have sex, the story now changes to being restricted from enjoying it the way I deem fit? All these laws/rules/orders (or whatever silly name you give them) are meant for the weak - those who are weak enough, both in faith, in mentality, in themselves etc, to buy that fu_cked up idea, and not for the strong like me. I know my faith, I know my God, and I know what He wants from me.

People are funny! We have ten commandments. Just ten, but we know what it means to observe one out of the ten. Just ten. Now, we are trying our utmost best to see if we can in all sincerity, keep at least, one a day, and people are inventing more rules from God-knows-where, and adding to the already existing ones? Gawd! Who is telling them these? Oh, my... embarassed

Do these same people know this: that if they have sex using the missionary style (where the girl would annoyingly lay on her back like Margaret Thatcher's corpse, as if nothing is happening - which is more annoying and seriously, really uncalled for - because something is happening. Oh, you don't know what? Sex is 'happening', you biatch! ) and I have sex using a total of 107 styles, of course including "Head", that we are even? Seriously if the 'Trumpet' were to sound soon after, we are even. Off we go...to the same destination, baiby. Why deceive yourself? undecided
If you have the license to do something, why not do it in a way that pleases you? I'd do it in a way that brings utmost satisfaction to my heart. Life is too short. I can't continue to live mine in restrictions. From who? Not even from God, but from "The Man of God". undecided

Do you know what these people are saying deductively? They are saying that;
1.) If you're having sex using just missionary, you're committing one sin... Sex!
2.) But if you're having sex using other styles... Including "Head", you're committing two (or multiple) sins... Sex & Style! grin

If you're bold enough to have sex (notwithstanding the consequences), you should be bold enough to explore ALL the styles there is. My dear Nigerians, the 'problem' is not the styles of sex, the 'problem' is sex itself. If you're having sex, have sex and shut up. And if you're not having sex, shut up and shut up.

Oh, and uhmm... If I kiss, I must press yansh (Hello Pastor, is that one extra sinful sin too) Why? Because I love Rice & stew. So if you can't cook rice & stew, you move ahead! cheesy wink
gringrin
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Apr 16, 2015
donshaddow:
Now my argument!

Nigerians are so myopic in nature. We fo think sex should be all about the man putting his dik in the vagyna!!!

Well, that's sex actually, but its never love making.

I real woman wants a man to make love to her and not just a random sex (5mins).

You need to pre-intimacy with her, and that's where romance, 69, head-giving, kiss and MouthAction comes to play.

It takes a man less the 5mins to cum, but to a woman, it takes eternity.

You can't just satisfy yourself and leave the woman wanting, she goes out to get well-served.

I do wanna have sex with a lady, I do make sure I arouse all her sensual parts (center of gravity inclusive), and if I'm to marry will do same to my wife.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed and explored.

I have my unique way of doing things due to my work experience, Called Erotic Body Massage.

So, its not wrong at all and the Bible never expressly condemn it.

My take though.
Your thoughts though.....if you are romantic enough,there are better ways to sensitize and stimulate your partner than engage in such sexual pervertious acts.see what watching porn has caused many thus clouding their sense of jugdement.am not claiming i'm not a sinner,but engaging in such act like this is a NO NO,my inner man forbids this,and any DECENT SPOUSE wont agree that your treat her like a LovePeddler in the bedroom.BACK in my home town....i have only seen GOATS engage in such acts and not humans.
Was suprised to read a topic here on NL that many find it cool to sleep with a female during menses...maybe the headgivers wld also drink a cup of that...
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by NonnyDot(m): 1:08pm On Apr 16, 2015
wait, let me get married b4 I can answer the question.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by forkadict(m): 1:12pm On Apr 16, 2015
datguru:
God made the dicck for the pusssy, putting it elsewhere is a sin of uncleanness

So if your wife give you handjob, its also a sin of uncleanness. Or is the hand the same as the pusssy now?

LMAO! Nairalanders, una no go kill person.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by felixawe(m): 1:15pm On Apr 16, 2015
That's rubbish . There are lots of dangerous bacteria within human genitals. Some can make man mouth bend go back sef. Don't tempt Devil to tempt u.

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Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by abbey621(m): 1:16pm On Apr 16, 2015
Everybody needs to just calm the f*ck down! Why must everything be religious in 9ja? I just don't get it! In this life, everyone is unique, what gets some people off won't work for others. Some people need oral stimulation to reach their peak while others are satisfied with regular intercourse. There's no sin in exploring our bodies and discovering ways to make sex more pleasurable, the sin occurs when you do it with the wrong person. If you are married, you are free to give your all to your partner if it will keep him or her satisfied!
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by dayodare49o: 1:18pm On Apr 16, 2015
missclasssy:
What I can't stand is when christians act too holy.
It's really annoying.

Okay, you say it is wrong to have sex till you marry, and now you are married, you are saying it's wrong to "give a head."?
This is rubbish in my opinion and it's a case of religious adherents forcing laws upon themselves.

I believe a couple is supposed to have sex in any way that suits them.
How will someone say that because you use the mouth in praying, then you shouldn't use it in giving a mouth action........
Is that not the same mouth you use In kissing?

Where in the bible did God direct us on the way a husband and wife should have sex?.

As far as I am concerned, any christian couple is free to indulge in any form of sexual practice so far as its just between the two of them and it gives then consensual pleasure.....


because she uses the mouth to pray? Does God force her to pray in first place? If she uses her mouth and her body for whatever she likes how does that change God's position? The point here is the mouth she uses to pray to God is not a good reason since God does not have anything to lose if she does not pray to him. Maybe with other reasons people will see it fr another angle.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by frank043(m): 1:27pm On Apr 16, 2015
missclasssy:


Yours is the dumbest comment I have read so far.
First of all, what does the bible say about our bodies?

It says "Your Body Is The Temple Of God"
So if I am to go by your dumb logic, then it's right for me to say that you are not supposed to defile your body by having sex because it's the temple of God.

By the way stop quoting scriptures out of context.

According to you, the world has gone hay-wire because people give mouth action?
How old are you? because you are thinking and writing like a toddler.
Forms of sexual practice are as old as man himself. "MouthAction" didn't just start now.

And did I just see tongue condom?.

Don't mind the kiddo jare...his knowledge of history,religion and sex is a mess. He is only commenting cos he has some MB,and others are commenting. Let them myopic fellows keep deceiving themselves and quoting the bible out of context in order to suit their whims and caprice. So long as I'm married,no pastor has the RIGHT to tell or dictate any shit to me. What then happened to my sense of reasoning? Mtchewww.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by forkadict(m): 1:29pm On Apr 16, 2015
Demmzy15:
Islamically, MouthAction is allowed even though it's discouraged! But what is highly prohibited is going through the 'Nyash', also known as 'doggy style'. grin

LMAO!

If you borrow your alfa your wife for just one night, he go dogggy her so tey, she no go fit waka straight again. You go ask her the following morning say why she dey waka like dat, she go tell you say she fall from on top okada inside the alfa house.

You never jam.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by OjayDavido(m): 1:32pm On Apr 16, 2015
Hmm! IYAMA!

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Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Fourwinds: 1:36pm On Apr 16, 2015
tosyne2much:
Personally, I think it has to do with indivudual's discretion

Others may find pleasure in what looks irritating to you
yeah. Dats true.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by MrMandilas: 1:36pm On Apr 16, 2015
missclasssy:


Nonsense.

Did God ever instruct you that the _penis is supposed to enter the _virgina?
So you still need God to explain to you how you are supposed to enjoy sex with you partner?

I laugh in heavenly tongues.
This is getting u more angry. I will give u more than head. Be calm. Much more is coming! And u gonna love it.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Mcponpin(m): 1:36pm On Apr 16, 2015
chibwike:
Do people actually practice that dirty act?...thought its done only in porn movies

Pls allow me to practice it on your girlfriend... #pepsi... Ask for more!!!
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by slimzypink(f): 1:38pm On Apr 16, 2015
missclasssy:


Yours is the dumbest comment I have read so far.
First of all, what does the bible say about our bodies?

It says "Your Body Is The Temple Of God"
So if I am to go by your dumb logic, then it's right for me to say that you are not supposed to defile your body by having sex because it's the temple of God.

By the way stop quoting scriptures out of context.

According to you, the world has gone hay-wire because people give mouth action?
How old are you? because you are thinking and writing like a toddler.
Forms of sexual practice are as old as man himself. "MouthAction" didn't just start now.

And did I just see tongue condom?.

you like Mouth Action
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Apr 16, 2015
ireneony:
^^^
on a serious note(mis) this lady does not type like a lady(transgender)

I just dey watch am....
I got all the necessary info to expose him/her...
But i'll just pretend and act like a Rev father.
Re: Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? by Demmzy15(m): 1:41pm On Apr 16, 2015
forkadict:


LMAO!

If you borrow your alfa your wife for just one night, he go dogggy her so tey, she no go fit waka straight again. You go ask her the following morning say why she dey waka like dat, she go tell you say she fall from on top okada inside the alfa house.

You never jam.
Lol grin grin u dis man enh?, u no go kill person! But no b my wife sha tongue

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