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Islie:
That man is just not fit for marriage and doesn't understand what it takes to be married......





He believes marriage is all about physical attraction alone

yes o I can only pity the second wife, same will apply

goodmorning40:
Oloriburuku

Ashi

cococandy:
you think women don't like good looks?
Maybe you should be considering it a wake up call for men to not let themselves go after marriage so that the wife won't seek 'help' outside

Orisirisi.

Anything to excuse misbehavior.

For a man to say he wants to divorce his wife for her looks..... I guess he must have had a good look also,


But, its never a reasons to divorce in the real sense..........
we now operate in a weird world were people can manufacture baseless reasons for wanting a divorce

bennyrazz:
yes o I can only pity the second wife, same will apply

And the cycle will go on until he is old because at 40years old if he still harbour such believe



I pity the incoming wify

Daughterzion:
And the man is?


The reverse is the case. His wife deserves someone better

The man believes he is a gift to all women that's why he wants a wife with the perfect figure

Tashaamania:
She is no more beautiful and you want to take another one, and then when the new one is no more beautiful, you take another one.. Very soon, you would see yourself 6ft below all by yourself wallowing in hell

Your marriage is holding you back from achieving which true potential?
Your true potential of woman-wrappering?
Admit it old man, you're a chronic womanizer.. Simple!

You have simply Dissert the man in its pieces

Islie:
And the cycle will go on until he is old because at 40years old if he still harbour such believe



I pity the incoming wify

will the incoming wife pity herself?

This man married iyabo becos of her perfect body shape before bearing children.

Now iyabo figure 8 shape don become figure 0, him dey luk 4 another shooting star.

Congrats oo Mr man. U are giving your breakfast to cat and digging your early grave.

bennyrazz:
will the incoming wife pity herself?

Would she knows what the man taste is and am sure she would be blinded by what the term 'love' and she won't notice the man obsession with figure and beauty
Cc lalasticlala

Na wah o
Which kind man bé this

Oga, fulfulling your potential should bé making your marriage work, stop talking all that rubbish about beauty,even if there's perfect beauty anywher,you DON'T deserve it.

Islie:
Would she knows what the man taste is and am sure she would be blinded by what the term 'love' and she won't notice the man obsession with figure and beauty
Cc lalasticlala

dre11:
http://www.tribune.com.ng/crime/item/33669-marrying-my-husband-is-destiny-fulfilled

This is what you get when Somali Weed floods the streets of Lagos!

Shey dey put gun for the man head before marriage ni?
Abi dey Runs am for am (fake packaging. )

Whats my concen? When dem don use their body anyhow during their young days.

goodmorning40:
Oloriburuku

why?

Nonsense


Dat man get side chic b4 jarri

Tashaamania:
She is no more beautiful and you want to take another one, and then when the new one is no more beautiful, you take another one.. Very soon, you would see yourself 6ft below all by yourself wallowing in hell

Your marriage is holding you back from achieving which true potential?
Your true potential of woman-wrappering?
Admit it old man, you're a chronic womanizer.. Simple!

calm your tits

Daughterzion:
And the man is?


The reverse is the case. His wife deserves someone better

the reverse is not the case.

Coughs like Shekua

Is that how you marry her?

It is perfectly reasonable that the man seeks divorce since the woman he married has morphed into something else after just 5 years. Fuc*k love, that's an exponential rate of metamorphosis, at that rate, in the next 10-15 years, she'd become a full blown Jabba the Hutt no man should have to endure that.

I can't understand why some women (especially black women) think it's ok to eat themselves to obesity once they're married.

The court need to grant the man's request, it should serve as a deterrent to other gluttonous women out there.

Women need to check themselves. Too many babes with pot belly all over naija.

Maybe the man is just exercising his inner Kanye west



Most men look at beauty first before other qualities. Women are not necessarily wired like that. they want a man they can trust etc

This is why polygamy should be encouraged. The man is only being honest.
If he cheats now,wahala.
Should be remain unhappy 4 d rest of his life?

Hahahahahaha!!!! See level.

the excuse is flimsy... he should just divorce her and NOT try to make her look bad.

50calibre:
It is perfectly reasonable that the man seeks divorce since the woman he married has morphed into something else after just 5 years. Fuc*k love, that's an exponential rate of metamorphosis, at that rate, in the next 10-15 years, she'd become a full blown Jabba the Hutt no man should have to endure that.

I can't understand why some women (especially black women) think it's ok to eat themselves to obesity once they're married.

The court need to grant the man's request, it should serve as a deterrent to other gluttonous women out there.

I don't like the bolded part meehn. Its annoying. I know someone who started getting fat after marriage, I asked her to at least exercise a little or go dieting. She said "I no get time jo" I just hope the young husband keep finding her sexy that way. Btw, the Man is a mad man for this silly(well, not too silly sha lol) excuse

I know the man is not right, but he is still not crazy. The woman should make herself attractive again I'm sure the artisan man would adore her once more.

Summary: apportion part of the blame to the woman, she knows what to do, to put her house in order.

Here's the sad reality. Everyone, male or female wants to keep what attracted us to our lovers/spouses as much as possible. Why do you think most married men chase younger girls? mostly because what attracted them to their spouse in the first place is gone. It's sad but true. Everyone is attracted first to physical attributes, all other qualities comes second. Think about it, did you go "oh he/she's cute/handsome" when you first met your present boyfriend/girlfriend? most likely you did. Since this is the case, once the physical has attracted us, it is very important to build on it by building a very solid friendship. So when the physical deteriorates, which eventually happens to all of us, you have something to fall back on. My wife is my best friend. Although she's beautiful as hell, i don't really see that as what is holding us together. I mostly see a battle buddy, friend, helper, and companion. Accept the realities of life and the realities will be easy to manage.

Tashaamania:
She is no more beautiful and you want to take another one, and then when the new one is no more beautiful, you take another one.. Very soon, you would see yourself 6ft below all by yourself wallowing in hell

Your marriage is holding you back from achieving which true potential?
Your true potential of woman-wrappering?
Admit it old man, you're a chronic womanizer.. Simple!

If he wants to chase women, he doesn't need to divorce her in a customary court to do that. From his story the woman nags and monitors him all around. I think he only added the beauty aspect just to pad up his story. No man wants a nagging, jealous wife who is an impediment to his progress. There is more to this story than the sensational headline. He sounds like a frustrated man looking for any way to get out of a frustrating marriage.

He should take the case to the court house in Igando where 70% of divorce cases I read are handled.