This thread raises a good question: what do the women bring to the table that we need to spend so much on their wedding.

Lol rice without meat.lol

Chizzy20:
hmm..op dis ur weddin nah one in town...did u guys take picture sef...or u used phones...

Chisos !!!!!!
Na techno phone dem use snap ..

menix:
Ow I wish I can ve such courage.

Had a funny experience, budgeted 1.5million last year buh had a million jan. 2014 instead of proposing nd takin d bull by d horn.
Had 2 postpone d proposing till I get d extra 500k.
While I waited she did not wait nd now I don't even ve d million box nd ve lost out on her.

Wish we culd really learn to cut our boxers to size us..

A million for a wedding?

Dear, that's too much. although, i dnt know what u earn.

But, i believe u can achieve or invest in a more reasonable tin with that amount. than, wasting it all in a day on a wedding ceremony.

We made available about 7 drums of water. After eating you take water. No drinks or meat were provided.

this op must be this man....

*wipes tears*

menix:


Tot about dat too buh I jst blived its peer pressure, cous almost all her fwend were getting married.

that's rubbish! she is a different person from her friends, she shldnt do tinz cos som1 else did it. guy go thnk your God say u no marry her oooo.

BigBashiru:
This thread raises a good question: what do the women bring to the table that we need to spend so much on their wedding.

The interesting answer to your question, which is yet another question, is why do you need any woman at all if you're confused as to what they bring to the table?

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nedu2000:
Africans & their "I must marry mentality".....you never get money & ur relying on hope,why not wait till the white collar job comes first,that's how we bring children into this world to suffer!!!*hisses*

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Hahahahah, honestly this guy is unbelievable. smh

Lolz @ seven drums of water! @ OP, it's either you are trying to be sarcastic with you story or you are being economical with the truth. There's no way u can organized a wedding no matter how small with 30k!
On the other hand you refuse to give alcohol for the trad, but still gives money for the same alcohol, what different does that makes?

Medunah:
So u also rented hall from that 30k? Bought tux and wedding gown from 30k?? With a budget of 30k, reception wasnt necessary, jzt church wedding that will consist of family members and close frnds, after taking ur vows, u share the food in the church and dats all.

Don't mind this guy. I guess he had church mass wedding (morning mass wedding as some would call it)

Dnt blame him o. I dnt even knw why some pple wud reply pple like dis. Anyway, if ur own god is as poor as blessin u with just 50k 4 ur weddin, my own GOD is so wealthy and has more than enof to take care of my weddin. May b u dnt invite dat ur own god to ur weddin. My own GOD was invited to the first weddin in the bible and the groom was never ashamed. Oga Ade! U brot the shame upon urself cos u forgot to invite the one who can do it all. Yeye post! Get away jor

menix:


Re u not a christian?
Did Jesus not feed 5k guest wiv 5 Agege bread nd two titus fish.
Don't 4get d parties involved re strong Jesus followers.

Lmao. Mehn I love reading comments on this thread. Lols. Strong Jesus followers indeed

Bringing kids to d world to suffer.
This is what it is.
Although,I dnt like it when people waste too much money for wedding,but that Ur 30K is way too too small mehn!
I understand U didn't want to commit sin of fornication.
Okay oh! All d best

Chizzy20:
hmm..op dis ur weddin nah one in town...did u guys take picture sef...or u used phones...

Lol. My God!!!

50k for both trad and white? Am not subscribing to this super story. So u want to tell me dat u performed d marriage rites, got ur suit and wedding gown, even paid for pictures with just 50k abi una snap with phones. A wedding is a one in a lifetime event so should be memorable and atleast classy not necessary flamboyant, if itz real wuz d difference btw u and a stack illeterate? Haba now u for wait small abi d babe dey Run?

Oh please all ye negative coMmenters should cut d Op some slack! I admire his courage. Buh thank God it was a village wedding sha cuz u cnt try dis in d city

It is well with us all, #whatever rocks ur boat, u do #

this story na lie...I refuse to believe
drums of water not even bags of water
2bags of rice are up to 12k ooo with fresh fish soup
u even rented a hall700 guests with 30k??
u know buy ring?wedding gown??...guy na lie
oya show us d wedding picturesthis story na lie...I refuse to believe
drums of water not even bags of water
2bags of rice are up to 12k ooo with fresh fish soup
u even rented a hall700 guests with 30k??
u know buy ring?wedding gown??...guy na lie
oya show us d wedding picturesthis story na lie...I refuse to believe
drums of water not even bags of water
2bags of rice are up to 12k ooo with fresh fish soup
u even rented a hall700 guests with 30k??
u know buy ring?wedding gown??...guy na lie
oya show us d wedding pictures

Medunah:
So u also rented hall from that 30k? Bought tux and wedding gown from 30k?? With a budget of 30k, reception wasnt necessary, jzt church wedding that will consist of family members and close frnds, after taking ur vows, u share the food in the church and dats all.

WHAT if na her normal cloths she wore to her weddng?




op u try sef for d food if na me na toothpick n satchet water i go give them. that 30k for remain plenty.

This topic has been on nairaland nahhhh... Since 2012 or so... www.nairaland.com/932540/wedding-story .so op should stop making sound like it happened last week

mrking3:
@OP stop giving us zobo here!! Even 50k can't be enough to celebrate one's birthday let alone of wedding!! You can't tell this honourable house of nairaland that you bought 2 bags of rice which I know is worth 20k, bought packs of fish and other miscellaneous expenses with 30k!! That's trash man! WHAT IS WORTH DOING IS WORTH DOING WELL! You ended up embarrassing yourself before your inlaws and the entire whole village! You should have saved up atleast 200k for an average wedding I wonder why the rush in the first place when you aint even ready!! I'm planning to do my white and Trad this year and I've tried all I can to make an average budget evrything will cost about 400k. That's even the minimum!!! For both traditional Rites which include marriage LIST, Trad, and white wedding. All will be done same day just to save cost. When I saw your thread I got attracted to read how you made it with just 50k but then, that's way below average! Just CLASSLESS! How do you do such lifetime event without serving people with common pure water, mineral and meat? Wow!! Who does that? Shameful bro!!!

U v said it all, n i think this story(wedding per say) was a fat lie.

Galilee bread not Agege bread

menix:


Re u not a christian?
Did Jesus not feed 5k guest wiv 5 Agege bread nd two titus fish.
Don't 4get d parties involved re strong Jesus followers.

No photographs?

Drums of water, concortion rice and bonga fish on a wedding day? You should have settled with Court wedding or Home based blessings.

While trying to play some "IJEBU'' stunts on your guests, you shouldn't have embarrassed yourself.

Meanwhile, I can bet with my head on the fact that OP is an IJEBU man. Those guys are unpredictable.

I can bit that with even #10,000

dkronicle:
if she is urs, she would av stayd

If he had wanted her.., he wouldn't have let her go.

Even if someone else sponsors your wedding, you will still spend more than 30k. Is logistics no longer part of expenses? All those trips to the village, na fly una fly? OP, I will not call you a liar but you are not being truthful.

freshness2020:
Seven drums of water?
Hmmm...are ♈όϋ dat poor ♈όϋ couldn't afford #80 bags of water!..
That seven drums of water got me thinking if this Ūя̲̅ story was real...who still drinks water from drum in this dispensation!

I can't just imagine 7 drums of water in these civilized world. The guy stingy die....Marriage once ia life time...I we celebrate it like kilode....

Poverty your FADA!!!!!


@OP

If you love your life and that of your unborn, don't start making babies because you will hear the noise of Aba market.

must u do reception, since u knew u dot have enough, y not just wed and forget about reception. but No, u want Wedding Gift.