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Quality Time

In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time.

Words of Affirmation

Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important— hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. You thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build you up.


Acts of Service

Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. When others serve you out of love (and not obligation), you feel truly valued and loved.




Physical Touch

A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and love to you.


Receiving Gifts

Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to you of someone else's love and affection for you.



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Mine is Acts of service and words of affirmations. So what's your language? It can be more than one but one is always more important than others. For me the most important language is Acts of Service. And yours?

Didn't read that all

for me, none of the above.

More than one but my number one is words of affirmation not necessarily I love you o, I think that's lame when it's premature

Dharniel:
for me, none of the above.

Liar liar Everybody has at least one of the five love languages

Dharniel:
for me, none of the above.

Do you have a different language? Please share

[color=#150000]All of the above. [/color]

[color=olive]The user below me has something to say[/color]

sweettease:
More than one put my number one is words of affirmation

So you want to be appreciated and for your man voice his appreciation. I'm like that too but I've been with men who were all talk and that's why acts of service is more important to me now.

Blackett:
[color=#150000]All of the above. [/color]

Don't you find one more important than the other. Maybe quality time?

Nubian113:
Don't you find one more important than the other. Maybe quality time?

[color=#150000]Nope.

None can stand alone. [/color]

Blackett:
[color=#150000]Nope.

None can stand alone. [/color]

Oh absolutely none stand alone but maybe you could put it in order of importance for you?

Nubian113:
Oh absolutely none stand alone but maybe you could put it in order of importance for you?

[color=#150000]Here is a compendium for you: I can spend quality time doing the remaining 4. . . [/color]

Blackett:
[color=#150000]Here is a compendium for you: I can spend quality time doing the remaining 4. . . [/color]

Ok although it's about how you like to receive love and not how you show it lol. But thanks

Social status (recognition) especially by the females. They want you to introduce them to all the Tom, dicq and Harry in your life as a sign of your love for them.

Nubian113:
So you want to be appreciated and for your man voice his appreciation. I'm like that too but I've been with men who were all talk and that's why acts of service is more important to me now.

My dear I can't help it, typical woman I know but the difference is not being gullible, I used to be though. For me showing isn't just enough, I like to hear him confess it because I do same. People think it's the easiest but it's actually more difficult when that's your love language and you have trust issues.

sweettease:
My dear I can't help it, typical woman I know but the difference is not being gullible, I used to be though. For me showing isn't just enough, I like to hear him confess it because I do same. People think it's the easiest but it's actually more difficult when that's your love language and you have trust issues.

I know! That's me in a nutshell lol maybe that's why I've pushed towards Acts of service because I too have trust issues and find it hard to accept affirmations of love. You're spot on dearest

Strongfaze:
Social status (recognition) especially by the females. They want you to introduce them to all the Tom, dicq and Harry in your life as a sign of your love for them.

And what's your sign of love. How do you want to receive love?

Strongfaze:
Social status (recognition) especially by the females. They want you to introduce them to all the Tom, dicq and Harry in your life as a sign of your love for them.

I have a feeling this is how you want to receive love. I might be wrong cause I'm just guessing.


Quality Time

In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time.

Nubian113:
And what's your sign of love. How do you want to receive love?

. I'm not too keen on love. I prefer space and spontaneity in such matters. Maybe a lady who must not wait for me to initiate everything.

Funny thing is , I wrote about this and no one commented.

Romancelanders are all interested in those silly threads.

chipmunkey:
Funny thing is , I wrote about this and no one commented.

Romancelanders are all interested in those silly threads.

Anything remotely intelligent is avoided on this section lol I'm not tooting my own horn but I've noticed people comment on very silly threads a lot more. So what was your language of love?

Nubian113:
Anything remotely intelligent is avoided on this section lol I'm not tooting my own horn but I've noticed people comment on very silly threads a lot more. So what was your language of love?

Word of affirmation works like magic for me.
Definitely not the popular "I love you".
But stuff like "you did a great job" or a genuine appreciation on how I saved you a whole lot of hassle something like that keeps me going.