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Lala247:
Nice write up hun .
Yh its true about the kids part .. But even mature ppl can fall victim to this

the mature one's might rather breakup with u and starting dating ur friend after a while.

danbrowndmf:
the mature one's might rather breakup with u and starting dating ur friend after a while.

Yh true

Lala24 how far

oluwasunshine:
Lala24 how far

Im good hun how u dey

As the Adage says,''Trust no one'', We are dealing with human being with blood flowning through their Vein.. The relationship of my Best friend to my GF will have a class or level, Dodge a Satan to dodge you. I won't give a chance of putting flame on a roof..... If the landlord is not vigilant enough then his properties belong to the thieves..... becareful, relationship is a fragile thing. handle with care...

fajani:
As the Adage says,''Trust no one'', We are dealing with human being with blood flowning through their Vein.. The relationship of my Best friend to my GF will have a class or level, Dodge a Satan to dodge you. I won't give a chance of putting flame on a roof..... If the landlord is not vigilant enough then his properties belong to the thieves..... becareful, relationship is a fragile thing. handle with care...

Hmm ok some points there

Lala247:
Hey peeps

Ok, this is a big issue in realtionship .

Ladies/ guys would you allow ur bae to be friendly with your friends or bestfriend?
Have you ever liked your baes friend and wish you could swap ?
Can you forgive a guy/chic that cheated on you with your bestfriend? Can you forgive the friend?

Do you think confiding with friends can be the downfall of a relationship? ..

Discuss!
Share your experience.
Advice.

Cc

Lalasticlala
Ishilove

I sight you......

fajani:
I sight you......

Huh?

Lala247:
Huh?

seriously Lala247 I want to be ur Frnd apart of this Nairaland.

fajani:
seriously Lala247 I want to be ur Frnd apart of this Nairaland.

Really

Lala247:
Really

Yes... Let me add u on whatsapp

fajani:
Yes... Let me add u on whatsapp

Dont do wts app or bb u cn pm if u want

Lala247

This is confessions so let me confess

I dnt allow my man and friends to mix. I introduce them and they know of each other but they are no friends. She is my friend and he is my man. Can I add I know of and have met my friends boyfriends, huśbands or baby daddies but we are not friends. I only really chat to these men when their women are there or greetings if I see them around town.

I have never fancied or wanted my man's friends. I have eyes and they see good tings but never better tings




I've only ever experienced this once while I was still a virgin I met this man omg I thought I was gonna marry him. My best friend slept with him for months without me knowing in my flat whenever I left her there for a night she would call him over and they'd do it in my bed I only found out when my other friend found them when she came looking for me. She pushed past her and she saw him in his boxers on my bed and my friend in her sexy pjs lol. She called me straight away while still in the flat.
I forgave my best friends and we are best friends til today. My revenge was sweet though 6yrs later she was madly in love with this fool who was drooling after me. He'd give me money, phones, anything I wanted always telling me he'd leave her for me while she tells me how mad she was about him. I slept with him a couple of times and he dumped her and she was heart broken because he said he met someone else. He then tells me he left her and wants a relationship with me and I told him. ... You was a fvck and forget so get over it!!. Never told her to date and I never will lol we were young and dumb she still talks about him as the one that got away.

I only confide in my one best friend about my relationship and she never meets my man aft our history lol fool me once....

Lala247:
Dont do wts app or bb u cn pm if u want

U mean our friendship could not be more than this..

Chiam55:
Lala247

This is confessions so let me confess

I dnt allow my man and friends to mix. I introduce them and they know of each other but they are no friends. She is my friend and he is my man. Can I add I know of and have met my friends boyfriends, huśbands or baby daddies but we are not friends. I only really chat to these men when their women are there or greetings if I see them around town.

I have never fancied or wanted my man's friends. I have eyes and they see good tings but never better tings




I've only ever experienced this once while I was still a virgin I met this man omg I thought I was gonna marry him. My best friend slept with him for months without me knowing in my flat whenever I left her there for a night she would call him over and they'd do it in my bed I only found out when my other friend found them when she came looking for me. She pushed past her and she saw him in his boxers on my bed and my friend in her sexy pjs lol. She called me straight away while still in the flat.
I forgave my best friends and we are best friends til today. My revenge was sweet though 6yrs later she was madly in love with this fool who was drooling after me. He'd give me money, phones, anything I wanted always telling me he'd leave her for me while she tells me how mad she was about him. I slept with him a couple of times and he dumped her and she was heart broken because he said he met someone else. He then tells me he left her and wants a relationship with me and I told him. ... You was a fvck and forget so get over it!!. Never told her to date and I never will lol we were young and dumb she still talks about him as the one that got away.

I only confide in my one best friend about my relationship and she never meets my man aft our history lol fool me once....

Awww chaim55
Thanks so much for your input.. Really nice u sharing your experience with us.
Omg very similar story


I also forgave my friend
Ok she was with me when a guy aproachee me on day ... But i didnt like him onebit .
When we got home she kept going on n on n on about how his a catch , the loaded bla bla
In the past ppl said i can be stoosh some times , so i decided to give him a go .
Meanwhile my frind was living with me ( family issues)
So one faithful night the guy called me told me to get dresses his taking me and my friend out .
So i got excited .
He rang my bell and i flew to the bathroom leaving my friend and the guy in my room ..
I came out opene my door n she was ontop of him yes not less than 15 mins she was on him ..

Still forgave her sha lol but i dont chat to the guy anymore ..

Well chiam u can trust when it comes to that. Lol i understand completely ..
Being in relationship is hard man .

Lala247:
Awww chaim55
Thanks so much for your input.. Really nice u sharing your experience with us.
Omg very similar story


I also forgave my friend
Ok she was with me when a guy aproachee me on day ... But i didnt like him onebit .
When we got home she kept going on n on n on about how his a catch , the loaded bla bla
In the past ppl said i can be stoosh some times , so i decided to give him a go .
Meanwhile my frind was living with me ( family issues)
So one faithful night the guy called me told me to get dresses his taking me and my friend out .
So i got excited .
He rang my bell and i flew to the bathroom leaving my friend and the guy in my room ..
I came out opene my door n she was ontop of him yes not less than 15 mins she was on him ..

Still forgave her sha lol but i dont chat to the guy anymore ..

Well chiam u can trust when it comes to that. Lol i understand completely ..
Being in relationship is hard man .

Nice write-up Lala247 and Chiam55.

Lala247 I have to ask are you based in London or grew up there?

I just happened to notice your use of the word 'stoosh' which is commonly used by black Londoners, in particular those from a Jamaican/West Indian background.

Lala247:
Awww chaim55
Thanks so much for your input.. Really nice u sharing your experience with us.
Omg very similar story


I also forgave my friend
Ok she was with me when a guy aproachee me on day ... But i didnt like him onebit .
When we got home she kept going on n on n on about how his a catch , the loaded bla bla
In the past ppl said i can be stoosh some times , so i decided to give him a go .
Meanwhile my frind was living with me ( family issues)
So one faithful night the guy called me told me to get dresses his taking me and my friend out .
So i got excited .
He rang my bell and i flew to the bathroom leaving my friend and the guy in my room ..
I came out opene my door n she was ontop of him yes not less than 15 mins she was on him ..

Still forgave her sha lol but i dont chat to the guy anymore ..

Well chiam u can trust when it comes to that. Lol i understand completely ..
Being in relationship is hard man .

Nice write-up Lala247 and Chiam55.

Lala247 I have to ask are you based in London or grew up there?

I just happened to notice your use of the word 'stoosh' which is commonly used by black Londoners, in particular by those from a Jamaican/West Indian background.

heo88:
Nice write-up Lala247 and Chiam55.

Lala247 I have to ask are you based in London or grew up there?

I just happened to notice your use of the word 'stoosh' which is commonly used by black Londoners, in particular by those from a Jamaican/West Indian background.

Yh