MARKone:
you record your Family private problems and want people to watch to what end OP

golddust6000:
bro, we are no longer family, now i am free to shear it, it hurts.

Anyi3:
Very immature thing to do OP. If she sees this video how do you think she'd feel.

So here's my immature answer to help your marriage. Take 15mg of Cialis and 15mg of viagra and then ask for breakup se..x

She'd beg you not to leave afterwards.

Justfollowit:
Nooooooo

They are very submissive

They fear and respect African men

They do not nag

MusaIbrahim1:
Am thinking that you married her for the wrong reasons which is paper.... And you are not open to her and you do need to spend more time with her... They all need attention... Why are you always on PC, are you yahoo boy?

babygirlfl:
People who record conversations of misunderstanding without informing the other person are not nice people. They are on their best behaviour because they know they are recording the whole thing.

From the video, you said you have no fault. If you think you don't accept your part in the breakdown of the marriage, how can you work on it. How are you even going to work on it when you married her for the wrong reason. she said you are always on the computer and phone. What have you done about it?
that is her own opinion, it is not true bro.

dustydee:
@OP,
Congrats, you jam your mate. I can't believe you were stupid enough to have a baby with her.
And if I may ask, why didn't you marry a "fresh" one? As our people say: "If you wan chop frog, chop the one wey fat".
You did something wrong and you ran here seeking for sympathy.


~some guys ehn, giving Nigeria a bad name.

Timbuktou:
Oga sorry o. Haven't watched the video but this is classic woman behaviour. Truth is you don't seem to hold much value to her and value or the appearance of it is all that matters to women. You are not the first man to be divorce-raped and you won't be the last.

If you like come home and marry Silifa, the moment she thinks she's got higher value than you, that relationship is doomed. The only difference between both societies is the contents of the laws. Give a Nigerian woman that liberty and you're done. I'd advise you to try and finish your degree and while you're at it get something doing on the side.

In the mean time, google the word "hypergamy" and see if that could help. Good luck in your endeavours. And make sure you visit and take care of that child of yours. Cheers.

berekete86:
The woman even tried sef......don't think of marrying a Nigerian woman after you divorce her, cos no well-thinking Nigerian woman will put up with that shit........YOU are the one that has to change.
* She kept telling you to move out......like she owns the place or pays for the rent....and you were saying "i will move out", what are you not telling us....cos i know no woman will like to have a free-loader for a husband, Oga pay your rent.
*you are not straightforward, in the video it appears you're really hiding something, maybe a side-chick or so, no woman will be happy with that
*you were arguing in front of that ADORABLE baby.....how could you? Don't mess that child up psychologically with your drama abeg...huge NO
*All through your video, you were on the defensive, a simple i'm sorry would have calmed things down, but no, YOU are always right.

I can't type again.......it's not too late.....call her to say you're sorry and leave your computer and get something doing, it doesn't matter if na Oyibo or Naija woman, woman na woman, treat her right and she'll never leave your side.........

i know shes not perfect, but two wrongs don't make a right......just apologize and end this madness please....thanks.

golddust6000:
Can you tell me what did i do wrong?

Chillisauce:
You don carry your polygamous attitude enter obodo Oyibo.

Let's believe you weren't cheating on her, why are you always in your pc or phone 24hrs and you say you are a student.
Hope you are not into Fraud?
Instead of you to be bothered about how to make sure you reconcile and be with your child, you are here shouting 150 euro child support.

Someone called her and disconnected the no. You are here asking her of evidence again.

Anyway, if she tired of your arssss, move out and get your life sorted out. Get a good lawyer and get a visitation right f or your child while paying for child support.
This way you can have more time for your Nigerian girlfriend Sandra

dustydee:

You married her so she could help you avoid paying school fees and also help you with some expenses or why else are you living in "her" house instead of "Your" (i.e both of you) house?
You didn't have to marry her yet especially given that you cannot at the moment afford to take care of her and your daughter.

golddust6000:
I repeat, that is her thought, where else can i go if its not staying at home after my study, she wasn't the one that gave me residency, it's my daughter document i am using not hers, i am still paying my school fee, and child support, house bills. What else did she want? she told her friend right from the very start that she will hide our marriage certificate, this is common with European women.

dustydee:

Ok, I can already see the problem with your relationship. You have refused to accept guilt even after you mentioned that you wanted someone to marry because of "papers".