cap28:

I actually like Kelis - I think she's cute and smart, Nas is an unrepentant womaniser and he knew that Kelis was no door mat when he married her, therefore he deserves everything he got ie the $60K a month maintenance that he is now having to shell out for her and his son. (even though Im one of his biggest fans and love his music) Which begs the question why get married if you know you're not ready to stay faithful to one woman? This is the reason why I respect Charlie Sheen, I mean here is a man who only dates porn stars and pro..stitutes because he only sees women as sex objects not as life long companions.

Tiger Woods is just another self hating black American with issues about his identity and it seems that he needs to have a blonde on his arm in order to feel good about himself,the problem is that when you have his kind of money the majority of women that will be hovering around you will be up to no good. Hope he learns to love himself one day and embrace his blackness.

Oh, Nas is the unrepentant womaniser now, when it was actually Kelis who cheated on him with a s3x tape someone was about to release.

Brev, keep making excuses for crazy black biitches - you'll become a victim soon, with ya mouth wide open.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1f4R3owxkI

cap28:
Sounds like he got what he deserved, did he expect her to be happy after hearing that he slept with her sister?

If I were her defence attorney I would argue that this was a case of diminished responsibility brought on by years of emotional and physical abuse. It sounds like she endured years of abuse from him and to make matters worse he was even sleeping with her own sister and their (possibly underaged) nanny's daughter
She is the victim here not him.

Emotional torment can cause a saint to behave like a wild animal, if she were not a good wife he wouldn't have allowed her back into his life after he sent her to live in Nigeria.

This should serve as a wake up call to women who continue to live with abusive spouses. Abusers do not usually get better with time unless they seek help, usually a random slap will escalate into a full blown beating, its all about control. If she had got out at the initial stage she would have saved herself a long prison sentence.
My heart goes out to the children who will now become wards of the state.

Do you know him? Do you know her?

SirShymexx:


Oh, Nas is the unrepentant womaniser now, when it was actually Kelis who cheated on him with a s3x tape someone was about to release.

Brev, keep making excuses for crazy black biitches - you'll become a victim soon, with ya mouth wide open.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1f4R3owxkI

I thought kelis is also a musician who is supposed to be making good money as well, so why is nas ordered to be paying such ridiculous amount? And it also seems the kid may belong to another man who cheated with. Well, I somehow doubt, cos nas was supposed to demand for the DNA before accepting court order.
Here's what I saw online.....


Kelis is keeping a secret. The father of her son is former football player Wale Ogunleye not Nasir Jones. After adult freaky tape allegations leaked featuring Kelis and a man other than her husband she decided to become pregnant to save her failing marriage. She though it would take a few months for her to conceive but she was pregnant within a month. She and Ogunleye were having an affair and things happened so quick she was uncertain of the child’s paternity.

That’s why she refused to allow Nas into the delivery room and refuses to allow him to visit her son without her or the nanny. Her son has striking features he inherited from his biological father who is of Nigerian decent. She just recently purchased a foreclosure in Glendale California, and is desperately seeking a sponsor. She fears losing another property she has had two foreclosures and two evictions since her divorce. Ogunleye has since upgraded and is now dating Michelle Williams of Destiny’s Child.

chibic:
truth is that most cheating women do it mostly when their husbands are good and faithful. Or maybe they thought so. Women are more jealous than men. They want to own every men in this world, a cheating wife will get extremely jealous once her hubby gets a girlfriend and at this point, she might retrace her steps to win her hubby back. They always want to eat their cake and have it. That's why a married woman will be extremely jealous if she finds out that her secret lover also has a girfriend. I've witnessed it before. I know a man who got himself a girlfriend when it was almost clear that the wife was cheating, though she constantly denied it. Immediatley the wife noticed that the hubby had a GF, she changed and started fighting to win him back. The man came up with her infidelity habit which she used to deny, she confessed immediately(crying and begging) and promised never to do it again because she feared that another woman may take her place. Now this a woman who was hapilly cheating but stopped because her hubby is playing the game too.

Bottomline is; most women won't cheat back when their hubbies are doing it because cheating back means she is ready for a break up which she can also file for. They will fight to get him back. Women mostly cheat not because they suspect their hubbies too.
.But then, a woman who cheats in that situation will only end with the wrong man who will be fuccking her freely and regarding her as a hoe.

sweet heart you are absolutely wrong with this. Majority of women cheat because their husbands are cheating and they are not ready to quit their marriages. Those women that do not give much material things to their bfs or request much are only into the relationship to get fuccked not minding if their bfs are faithful to them or not. I can boldly tell you that when most women starts cheating on their husbands they care less about the next side chic their husbands will wack.


Cheating atimes helps a cheated or abused woman to forget her worries. It does magic for women almost the same way it does for men apart from the truth that God hates it. Cheating sometimes heals a broken hearted woman. Woo betide that husband if the side guy has powerful affection for the woman cos that's actually where quiting the game becomes difficult.

So sweet heart do not use your case study to judge because these days many women marry knowing fully well that they will be cheated on so they care less on that aspect but frown at being beaten. They hate being assaulted mainly.

Two wrongs cannot make a right.She should have walked out of the relationship than to have ended up killing a man and destroying her life.

After killing the man, is she free? I see her as a fooli-----sh woman with no sense of reasoning.

chibic:
you should have preached your gospel in this thread where a cheating wife was set on fire.

https://www.nairaland.com/2030782/jealous-expatriate-kills-cheating-wife/3

Atleast, you need to preach to women too so they will stop being promiscous. You know you women are even worst.

Mr man

Same thing applies to you

AreaFada2:
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So the new greatness is the capacity/ability to kill?

My mum was a great woman. She didn't have to kill a man to be one.

Copycat pseudofeminists who have no idea what femininism is all about are having it all twisted.

I have dated highly successful caucasians: a lawyer, a senior executive, a senior nurse, and a teacher. All still under age of 27. All obviously upwardly mobile in their respective areas. None of them let it get into their head. Even when I was still finding my feet as a foreigner.

AreaFada2:
. Since u hv no evidence of any abuse, do not claim such as if it was biblical truth. At best be neutral since the dead is not here to dispute such claim. A woman apparently capable of physical harm to the point of killing, who's to say she wasn't the one abusing him physically and emotionally hiding behind the western legal system that favours women? What stopped her from leaving? A man stands to lose more in divorce in America.

Exactly.

They need to sentence this girl to death.

You can't go around killing people because you object to who they sleep with.

Ilekeh, come and see your sister oh.



You sabi hide oh!!!

mtcheww

fairlyisabel:
sweet heart you are absolutely wrong with this. Majority of women cheat because their husbands are cheating and they are not ready to quit their marriages. Those women that do not give much material things to their bfs or request much are only into the relationship to get fuccked not minding if their bfs are faithful to them or not. I can boldly tell you that when most women starts cheating on their husbands they care less about the next side chic their husbands will wack.


Cheating atimes helps a cheated or abused woman to forget her worries. It does magic for women almost the same way it does for men apart from the truth that God hates it. Cheating sometimes heals a broken hearted woman. Woo betide that husband if the side guy has powerful affection for the woman cos that's actually where quiting the game becomes difficult.

So sweet heart do not use your case study to judge because these days many women marry knowing fully well that they will be cheated on so they care less on that aspect but frown at being beaten. They hate being assaulted mainly.

pls tell me you were joking on that emboldened parts

IdealMolecular:
I hope it is not Pharmacist Adeyinka Adebamiro that is the elder brother of Dr Dotun Adebamiro whose family residence is at Felele, Ibadan that was murdered by this lady?

He is the one o...
We were in Felele when the man came to pick her to the US..

cap28,

Like you, I started blaming the poor dead man already until mumsy gave me her life history

joromi:
cap28,

Like you, I started blaming the poor dead man already until mumsy gave me her life history

Aha. People like you need to have bad things happen to men you know for your heads to function properly.

logica:
Aha. People like you need to have bad things happen to men you know for your heads to function properly.

ijustdey:


pls tell me you were joking on that emboldened parts

does it seem like I was joking?

fairlyisabel:
does it seem like I was joking?

am trying to reconcile how two wrong can make a right

ijustdey:



am trying to reconcile how two wrong can make a right

and forgetting that as long as the world shall last there will be wrongs and if nobody objected and nobody rebelled, those wrongs would last forever. Men..... always on the wrong side in this type of case.

fairlyisabel:
and forgetting that as long as the world shall last there will be wrongs and if nobody objected and nobody rebelled, those wrongs would last forever. Men..... always on the wrong side in this type of case.

am sure you knew that a lot factors do make a man cheat......
let the woman I quote check what caused the man to cheat and if its from her side..... let her make amends
and if its from his side..... don't you think someone good character and response when a spouse is cheating could change the man....


have seen countless men change from their cheating habit because of their wife responsible actions when they discover that their man cheat and change for the better

ijustdey:



am sure you knew that a lot factors do make a man cheat......
let the woman I quote check what caused the man to cheat and if its from her side..... let her make amends
and if its from his side..... don't you think someone good character and response when a spouse is cheating could change the man....


have seen countless men change from their cheating habit because of their wife responsible actions when they discover that their man cheat and change for the better

What's all this talk about cheating blah blah? It has already been pointed out that the woman's allegations were ALL lies. She was even caught lying by the Police about power failure when they checked and found nothing like that happened. I guess for a minute she thought she was in Nigeria.

ijustdey:



am sure you knew that a lot factors do make a man cheat......
let the woman I quote check what caused the man to cheat and if its from her side..... let her make amends
and if its from his side..... don't you think someone good character and response when a spouse is cheating could change the man....


have seen countless men change from their cheating habit because of their wife responsible actions when they discover that their man cheat and change for the better

Jesus. Didd you just type this? Sweet heart come back and read what you posted. So you think a cheating woman cannot repent from her bad ways due to her husband's good way of life ?. Are women without feelings bikonu? Sweet heart please get this right. Women are human beings that have body soul and spirit just like men. Both gender has similarities when it comes to behaviour and emotion. Please stop making me run around this issue.

fairlyisabel:
Jesus. Didd you just type this? Sweet heart come back and read what you posted. So you think a cheating woman cannot repent from her bad ways due to her husband's good way of life ?. Are women without feelings bikonu? Sweet heart please get this right. Women are human beings that have body soul and spirit just like men. Both gender has similarities when it comes to behaviour and emotion. Please stop making me run around this issue.

check what you did posted before I did start to quote you......

you said two can play the game ie if the husband is a cheat, then the wife too can be one to balance the whole equation and ease her of any worry that could arise from his husband cheating ways....


I now ask....... is this the best way to go about it

ijustdey:


check what you did posted before I did start to quote you......

you said two can play the game ie if the husband is a cheat, then the wife too can be one to balance the whole equation and ease her of any worry that could arise from his husband cheating ways....


I now ask....... is this the best way to go about it

your royal majesty go and sleep. Leave this issue for the gods to handle. I tire for you abegi

fairlyisabel:
your royal majesty go and sleep. Leave this issue for the gods to handle. I tire for you abegi

me self tire for you
after you didn't substantiate your earlier stand

emmyw:
Well R.I.P to the dead,but why would someone cheat on a beautiful woman like this? But the woman overreacted.

Facial beauty is not enough to command fidelity. What if she has a smelly kpomo?

ijustdey:



me self tire for you
after you didn't substantiate your earlier stand

ok

fairlyisabel:
ok

happy new month.....

hope I won't get a harsh response

ijustdey:

happy new month.....

hope I won't get a harsh response

same to you dear. No,you won't.

Trailblazer1:


If everyone kills their cheating spouse, who would be left

well, i think it would be the uncheating spouses... There would be single mothers everywhere