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Adaezeagu:
Really!
Have u read d comments?

The comments of some people does not define the reason for the thread. The Opening Post should be the yardstick for defining what a thread is about.

Adaezeagu:
This is another Igbo bashing thread Igbo hater will keep formulating fake stories just to discredit us Igbo girls are bad yet they will still be following us like flies Anyways I don't care if u like my tribe or not( in adambano's voice) [b][/b]men following Igbo gals like flies since creation

Inferiority complex dey worry you.

I do not really agree with most of point because in the village even people with no money do marry and live a happy life. I believe it all depend on u and the woman u want to marry. If u date a woman for a while it becomes very easy and some of the processes outline here will be forgotten.

Viciyus:
Me were don see how all those traditional masquerade dey ask my brother make he buy two cows and some very very expensive things the family no fit even buy for themselves,


Naso my brother and us vex ohh, we come tell them say if na love, make the love die here say we no do again, the girl just dey cry there say she go kill herself she no mind, the stvpid father won come use sense come say we go negotiate oh, he drop the cow say make we bring goat, come reduce a the list like mumu, how much we paid as bride price na 10k . Aldo the the money dey OK shall,

Naso we do the wedding ohh, see as them dey enjoy them life now with enough money even buy land.

Like serious. Na guys dey fall our hand, if them dey call those there price, just walk away you go see weti go happen,


If the girl no leave her house come meet you or the parents no reduce the price or she no kill herself.




Who dey pay those rubbish nowadays,



ALL THOSE USELESS SECOND HAND GIRLS.

ASI OCHA

Adaezeagu:
Really!
Have u read d comments?

The OP didn't bash the igbo people he only made mention of families extorting via bride price, it could be any familiy. in fact no tribe was even mentioned in the article but i do admit along the line, a poster mentioned igbo. But the OP had no reason to bash igbo people. he;s only explaining the consequences of bride price and it leading to many people being unmarried. just thought i clarified that. I don't want people to turn this thread into something tribalistic. I don;t believe in bride price but if it's tradition no problem can't dispute that. my only concern is that won't they be worried that no groom might not be able to afford the bill. and won't that affect the girl getting married at an early age.

in as much as i agree that bp is more of appreciating the bride family, i don't agree it has to be on the high side, that is more of selling the girl. thereby reducing her value.

LewisO:
[color=Teal] Can you just imagine?

@bolded... A girl that had been screwed several times that she can't even count how many times she had being screwed.

It baffles me, some parents will even be asking for bride price from the man like his life depends on their daughter if he didn't marry her. Mtcheww. [/color]

It's so annoying!

lilmax:
guy

How far

Bride price should be scrapped.

It is sexist as far as I'm concerned.

Adaezeagu:
ASI OCHA

weti this one dey write you think say na everybody dey hear some language

freecocoa:
Bride price should be scrapped.

It is sexist as far as I'm concerned.

My God this is a name i haven't come across for a while, long long long time. how u dey , just had to comment it's been a while since i've seen this name.

we are in a generation where people don't want to get married, count the number of baby mamas out there or the amount of girl one has to his disposal such a sad world. I meet so many people who keep postponing marriage till they make that "miraculously large amount of money" including me, i somehow predict in the future that there would a lot of unmarried people and more of babymama,baby-papa. The thought of that alone is depressing. anyway i only price God blesses us to able to meet such bp.

samflexxy:
Another importance i see in bride price is that when a guy marries and pays a hefty some of amount and provide lots of goods eg cow, palm wine, creates of highups(star,guilders)tubers of yam e.t.c the guy will terish his bride because he knows how much he has spent on marrying her, divorce will never be on the cards cus when he considers how much he has spent he melo down

I disagree with you completely, what if after d traditional rites they found out they are not compatible, this is not a basis bro..

pcguru1:
My God this is a name i haven't come across for a while, long long long time. how u dey , just had to comment it's been a while since i've seen this name.

Lol, it's been awhile indeed, NL's not what it used to be anymore, so the name suppose scarce. I'm doing great, how are you?

freecocoa:
Lol, it's been awhile indeed, NL's not what it used to be anymore, so the name suppose scarce. I'm doing great, how are you?

am good oh just work ,life, more work and life. yes NL has changed every topic now either bashes:
1. igbos
2. women
3. non-virgins

i tire o, just that during time-off work i need to refresh my mind and NL is one place that does it for me. let me not derail nice to hear from you again.

pcguru1:
am good oh just work ,life, more work and life. yes NL has changed every topic now either bashes:
1. igbos
2. women
3. non-virgins

i tire o, just that during time-off work i need to refresh my mind and NL is one place that does it for me. let me not derail nice to hear from you again.

Same here dearie, take care now.

Adaezeagu:
amebo Mind ur business

OLOSHO HOW MARKET?

It is very unfair haba! kilode? Gbogbo owo wa le fe gba tan ni? Those elders needs to respect themselves or else their daughters will continue to stay with them forever. That's why you see ladies that are meant to be married still single and they are old. Thank God for marykay.

Bride Price or Pride price----- don't know which to call when some of the so called ladies had lost the Pride why the price then, let them go freely as Attachee

Anyway, the exorbitant Price is more common in the eastern part of d Nation......Naso Amaka people give me list at Nbisee I fear leave Amaka go for my Black Diamond Bukky....

We are doing fine n we have what to eat after the wedding. Not borrowing to eat

samflexxy:
Another importance i see in bride price is that when a guy marries and pays a hefty some of amount and provide lots of goods eg cow, palm wine, creates of highups(star,guilders)tubers of yam e.t.c the guy will terish his bride because he knows how much he has spent on marrying her, divorce will never be on the cards cus when he considers how much he has spent he melo down

I disagree, most guys enslave their wife cos of this... dey will b of d opinion dt aw can dey pay such amount nd a lady will think of leaving... it's more or less like modern slavery as their elders and parent are using their girls for business.. high brideprice does not determine. a lovely home... d wife get enslaved most time... I love my fellow kaaro oojiree brodas.. God bless naija

Inferior gini complex? U re d one with inferior wateva cos i did not quote u. Nwaofor igbo can neva hv inferiority complex Go figure

Tonniey:
Inferiority complex dey worry you.

If u like no hear am

Viciyus:
weti this one dey write you think say na everybody dey hear some language

Adaezeagu:
If u like no hear am

mumu leave me alone jorr

I hold u for trouser abi i hold u to tie?

Viciyus:
mumu leave me alone jorr

Naughtysite:
Must there be a bride price ?

Must you sell your daughters ? Chai, poverty...

Soon,bride price ll be optional

Adaezeagu:
I hold u for trouser abi i hold u to tie?

you just want make person dey insult you up and down abi?

beko fvck off my mention

Go sleep small boy

Viciyus:
you just want make person dey insult you up and down abi?
beko fvck off my mention

KingTom:
The way bride prices are expensive these days is alarming, na wetin make I never marry till now! Can you imagine? Me! To bring 5 cows for a fairly used girl? Mbanu!


Meanwhile...

u v got choice...choose from d available brand news and marry asap

KingTom:
The way bride prices are expensive these days is alarming, na wetin make I never marry till now! Can you imagine? Me! To bring 5 cows for a fairly used girl? Mbanu!


Meanwhile...

Lol@ "fairly used girl".
That's so true . imagine having to pay hefty amount for these women of today. Them go tire for their papa house.

After a few years... He would forget how much he spent... And divorce can still happen.

samflexxy:
Another importance i see in bride price is that when a guy marries and pays a hefty some of amount and provide lots of goods eg cow, palm wine, creates of highups(star,guilders)tubers of yam e.t.c the guy will terish his bride because he knows how much he has spent on marrying her, divorce will never be on the cards cus when he considers how much he has spent he melo down

precisionindepth:
u v got choice...choose from d available brand news and marry asap

The brand news don almost finish, the only ones available are still in the factory