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Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by pryd(m): 1:04pm On May 10, 2015
He might not even be ur son. grin
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Deluxewize(m): 1:04pm On May 10, 2015
The husband is to blame,he didn't train the son.
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Fernandowski(m): 1:04pm On May 10, 2015
Foolish man

He is even saying it with proud sef
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Nobody: 1:06pm On May 10, 2015
Deluxewize:
The husband is to blame,he didn't train the son.
I don't know...there are some children that get good home training...then decide ,when they grow up ,that they will do as they like.

But you may be right....and I suspect the discordance in the house has been on since day one....
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by ariwokoigbore(m): 1:06pm On May 10, 2015
eyah
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Strongfaze(m): 1:09pm On May 10, 2015
write2obi:
I don't think anyone should be forced to stay in a union they don't want to. Dissolve the marriage already
. This is what is called cross. Stop screaming divorce already.
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Tolubory(m): 1:11pm On May 10, 2015
undecided Na wa o.
That mean dat woman carry the pastor "handicap 2. 1" No bi small tin.....
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by okooloyun1(m): 1:13pm On May 10, 2015
bushdoc9919:
I hope you all are good spouses!
k
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Mosaku147: 1:13pm On May 10, 2015
Mr Pastor.if the court refuses your request for a divorce,simple pack your belongings and run far from them before you become the LATE pastor Omojeya. No be by force to divorce.you can be separated but make sure you do your WILL and leave them out of it before you kpeme.meanwhile,announce to the whole world what you have written so they don't plan and change your wishes at your demise.
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by hola106(m): 1:16pm On May 10, 2015
Shey na only igando dey lagos na dere local court dey work pass na wa for igando people
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Nobody: 1:16pm On May 10, 2015
Strongfaze:
. This is what is called cross. Stop screaming divorce already.
Yes....we start telling women to take up their crosses...while the men can go and sit down in front of the television and continue, eh?

Jesus said that everyone should take up his cross.....not just women. And what he meant by that was that that people should change their behaviour....not just sit down and continue the same old story.It all ties in with a very essential part of Christ's message to us all...servant-hood, and humility.

Both the man and the woman need to repent. They are two proud people who married for show. They did not marry for the right reasons. And they are not servants at all. Them should go and sort themselves out at the foot of God.
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Nobody: 1:18pm On May 10, 2015
okooloyun1:
k
Good afternoon. May you learn the essential lesson of marriage....he who must have a great marriage must enter into it with a servant heart.

Sayonara.
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Redoil: 1:23pm On May 10, 2015
FLAWLES:
. :/
what
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Nobody: 1:25pm On May 10, 2015
The only way a son would stand up to his father is to protect his mother.
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Nobody: 1:26pm On May 10, 2015
It is now coming out in the open that a lot of Nigerian men are suffering in silence under domestic violence from their wives.

Unlike in the past when most men keep quiet because of masculine pride.

Nigerian women are a very violent species. How do I know this? Just visit an average Nigerian home with a househelp and you will weep the way these women brutalize these often under-aged people.

This man does not need a divorce. Simply sell the house at a forced sale price to any NURTW chairman and forget her. Make arrangements for the younger kids. Simple!
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Brugo(m): 1:31pm On May 10, 2015
1stCitizen:
It is now coming out in the open that a lot of Nigerian men are suffering in silence under domestic violence from their wives.

Unlike in the past when most men keep quiet because of masculine pride.

Nigerian women are a very violent species. How do I know this? Just visit an average Nigerian home with a househelp and you will weep the way these women brutalize these often under-aged people.

This man does not need a divorce. Simply sell the house at a forced sale price to any NURTW chairman and forget them.
Well said.
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by okooloyun1(m): 1:32pm On May 10, 2015
bushdoc9919:
Good afternoon. May you learn the essential lesson of marriage....he who must have a great marriage must enter into it with a servant heart.

Sayonara.
Alright bro
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Dranatomy: 1:37pm On May 10, 2015
Inform him that right from days of old, women have always been taking God fearing men for granted, talk les of a real pastor!.. The tactics of women using children to attack husbands didn't start today. I thank God, he has been able to spot out the masquerade behind the drummings. Its better u send her to her right place spiritually before she kill you and destroy your ministry.

Note, if she kill you today, God will still remain God oo!..You have no one to blame. All you need now is wisdom so that God can take over. Pray, God shall take over sir!
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by obiak4(m): 1:55pm On May 10, 2015
JUST IGNORE COMMENTS AND COUNTER COMMENTS STEP INTO MY STRONG ROOM(PRAYER HOUSE)
KNEELING DOWN AND PRAYING O LORD ANY EVIL THAT WE MAKE ME NOT TO ENJOY MARRIAGE OLUWA OOOO TAKE IT AWAY IJN AMIN JESU OLUWA WA
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Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by godwin120alex: 2:01pm On May 10, 2015
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Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by bukatyne(f): 2:07pm On May 10, 2015
Why does the wife still want the marriage?
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by cococandy(f): 2:12pm On May 10, 2015
I no dey read the case again. Once I see Igando court, I move on. Their wahala too much lipsrsealed
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by ijustdey: 2:21pm On May 10, 2015
The pastor said that Mary was also fond of instigating his children against him, especially
his only son to disrespect him.
“Anytime my wife and I are fighting, she will call
my son and order him to beat me up in her
presence.

“There was a day my son threatened to kill me,
he brought out a knife with which he attempted
to stab me in the stomach.
My husband has a wire which he always uses to
flog me and the children; he always fights with
his friends, tenants and church members also.

“These always lead us to the police station for
settlement,’’ she said Mary said that Vincent was
an ingrate who had forgot that her mother and
uncle sponsored the education of their children up
to the university level.
Then, my husband was always complaining that
he did not have money to sponsor our children’s
education, she said.
both the man and wife have serious issues and to think they are the first family in the church they preside over......

what would they be telling members of their church if they have any one of them comes to ask for counselling from them
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by ijustdey: 2:25pm On May 10, 2015
The respondent, however, begged the court not to grant her husband’s wish for the dissolution of
their marriage, saying that she was still in love
with her husband.
why is this always the last resort of the women whenever their husband do ask for divorce.....

seems the women is guilty of what she did or she doesn't want the stigma that follows one who is divorce..... someone who is reference and regarded before
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by ijustdey: 2:27pm On May 10, 2015
bukatyne:
Why does the wife still want the marriage?
maybe she still believes she isn't fulfilled without him
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Missmossy(f): 2:33pm On May 10, 2015
The man must be going through hell,the marriage should be dissolved asap before someone dies.
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Nobody: 2:42pm On May 10, 2015
ijustdey:
maybe she still believes she isn't fulfilled without him
She is only interested in the man's house. Once he divorces her, she knows she might need to move.
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by 83lagosroad(m): 2:44pm On May 10, 2015
greatgod2012:
I tell you!
Heavy weight sef!

I wonder why it took them this long!
I also wonder why the woman refuse the divorce with all those heavy accusation against the man. I think she should be happier to live without the man with the way she narated how the man has been treating her and the children.


However, it seems the man has so much maltreated the woman to the extent that she wants a "return match" for the man by refusing the divorce, knowing fully well that the man can not legally remarry if the 1st marriage is not legally dissolved.
Dear friend,
Dissolution is the best in this case. The woman clearly shows dt she is rude and unrepentant. There is nothing in this piece that shows that the man drinks or intoxicates that may warrant beating the woman. Some women once they marry just throw caution into the wind and and mess up the whole house, relationship, they lack respect for their husband and do all sort of terrible things. What on earth will make a married woman of 37yrs fight or quarrel in the presence of their grown up children.
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by Reference(m): 2:45pm On May 10, 2015
grin ....what is love, baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more....
They need a love doctor not a judge. Pastor, where keepeth thy faith...
Re: Wife Asks Our Son To Beat Me Up Anytime We Quarrel —pastor Tells Court by bigass123(m): 2:46pm On May 10, 2015
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FLAWLES:
So whoz lying na?cuz the two stories from both parties carry weight
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