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Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by Nobody: 6:34pm On May 10, 2015 |
This isn't a fallacy as im very lost and confused about what i can do. I met this girl early last yr and proposed to her,wch after some months she agreed nd we were on. Im just in my late twenties very close to 30 and she's almost 24. I love her so much nd i bliv she does dsame. She started visiting me late last yr. I discovered this girl is a virgin and i was marvelled. I av met diff girls in my lyf bt neva a V. Im nt so lucky to meet 1. On that day i was ready to torchlight the.., when she told me she was a virgin nd that i should comfirm that,wch i did by trying to ... (U knw),bt no way! I started adoring this girl nd i can't just let her go. I started introducing her to my family wch she loved too,she gave me d opportunity to always speak wt her mum too. The whole prb startd wen i started pressurizing her to let me have her V. She wont just allow me go there,she was very determined with dat.after some pressure she succumb and gave me assurance im gonna get it im some couple months later. On ds faithful day,i called nd she was on a call,i was placed on waiting 4 a very long tym. I was so angry that i nearly broke my phn,bt wen i asked her whom she was talking to, she answered that it was a long ago fwend,i asked a male or female nd she answered that he's a male. This got me angry that i banged my call nd did'nt call 4 d whole 2nd day,she didn't call too. I called later the 3rd day and got the sad news she is'nt intrested in me any longer,that she nw realize she is'nt ready 4 relationship yet that she need two yrs to get ready. I thought she's just still angry bt bliv me we've bn dragging ds issue since 2mnts nw,all to no avail. Pls advice me,wat should i do. I don't want to lose her,apart 4rm loving her,she is a virgin too. I need her. What can i do again. Her mum is'nt helping issues too she is also not picking my calls. Pls help |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by younghartz(m): 6:36pm On May 10, 2015 |
You don fvuck up Wetin I talk? 1 Like |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by okiezman(m): 6:40pm On May 10, 2015 |
Why you go query woman who she dey talk to when she's not officially your gal, do you get jealous like this Well the gal is seeing sm1 aside you that's it. If u care u do necessary thing to woo her not all dis call thing and if your doing something with a girl whose not your fiancee please don't worry her family thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by Dyt(f): 6:42pm On May 10, 2015 |
She's gone bro Don't worry Another virgin will come 3 Likes |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by Nobody: 6:42pm On May 10, 2015 |
younghartz:i knw,bt just d way out nw 1 Like |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by Nobody: 6:43pm On May 10, 2015 |
You're just a big fool. You would rather throw away a relationship because she no gree you fvck. What an _idiot! Did she say you two won't have sex? You acted like a baby, and now you are asking for help? 2 Likes |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by Nobody: 6:43pm On May 10, 2015 |
Dyt:ahhh! |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by Nobody: 6:45pm On May 10, 2015 |
Blackett:do u read that article? Nt cuz of sex dude |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by younghartz(m): 6:45pm On May 10, 2015 |
okiezman: LoL It isn't funny! Because she was on d phone with another guy, he felt super jealous don't he trust her Btw assuming em enter d babe and her punnani is deeper than rick rose voice nko |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by skylane: 6:46pm On May 10, 2015 |
U shudnt av displayed ur jealous attitude so raw like that,u shud av tried to monitor her and the so called long friend frst before any action,now u don miss |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by okiezman(m): 6:49pm On May 10, 2015 |
younghartz: LoL... |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by Olajokefred: 7:08pm On May 10, 2015 |
From your epistle, it seems you just love the fact that she's a V cuz you didn't mention any other quality she's got for you to claim you love her. Why u wan marry V sef? Afta u don bleep all the skelewus wey dey area finish ba? Bomb dey your head. 1 Like |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by younghartz(m): 7:12pm On May 10, 2015 |
What a woman needs is a man who can handle her at her worst, not give up on her when she gets real . Yeah, she might get an attitude at times but she doesn't get one for no reason. Honestly, this is the time a woman needs you the most. Reassure her you are not like no good men. On the outside she's pissed, she seems tough, like she can't get hurt. But on the inside she's sad, she's actually vulnerable and she's already hurting. She could tell you she doesn't care but she's just too mad to show it. She could tell you it's over, but that's the last thing she wants. She could be pushing you away, but that's just her way of showing she's scared. Don't give up on her. |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by obiak4(m): 7:14pm On May 10, 2015 |
Dyt:is that how you console people?? OP SINCE YOU ARE IN SPEAKING TERM WITH HER MUM AND FAMILY TRY AND SAMPLE THIER OPINION BUT IS IT BECAUSE SHE IS A VIGIN THAT WHY YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE HER?? IF THAT IS IT BRO YOU ARE STARTING ON A WRONG FOUNDATION I SHOULD WARN YOU DON'T COME HERE AND OPEN ANOTHER THREAD SAYING "WHY ARE VIGIN MARRIAGE PROBLEMATIC" IF YOU DO AND I HAVE ALREADY COLLECTED MY GUN LICENSE SIX FEET #JUST2BULLECT TAKE MY ADVICE AND THANK ME LATER CARRY MY MAT SWEEP THE FLOOR LIE DOWN WAITING STILL THEN 2 Likes |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by jeffery251(m): 7:18pm On May 10, 2015 |
@op From the word go,it was obvious to her that you were into her cos she is a virgin.Now because of your crave to be the one to dis-virgin her(EVEN FIXING A DATE TO DO IT) and ur hyper jealous trait,u ended up driving her away into the open arms of her once lost but now found bobo.My brother u berra accept it and move on cos its not d end of the world,besides if she is meant to be urs,she would surely come back,but whether as a virgin or not by then is now a story for the gods. 1 Like |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by Nobody: 7:55pm On May 10, 2015 |
younghartz:Thankx so much 1 Like |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by redcliff: 8:38pm On May 10, 2015 |
Fooolllllish thread and fooollish op |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by olempe(m): 8:46pm On May 10, 2015 |
jeffery251:100 likes |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by MRBrownJ: 11:13pm On May 10, 2015 |
@OP the lady must have told you she wanted to lose her virginity after marriage, didnt she.....but you thought you were smart and try to force her into handing her virginity to you, BWAAAAAAAH! you got played bro! this lady will only hand it over after marriage, and most men like yourself will never be able to mount her. do you really think she got to 24yrs of age and no men has attempted to mount her before. she is a PRO/EXPERT of the "no sex before marriage" league! 2 Likes |
Re: Im Lost And Don't Know What To Do!! by tuffgongjo(m): 11:19pm On May 10, 2015 |
Drabeey:Shoki |
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