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Advice Of The Next Step Before I Jump. by bluebutton: 9:46am On May 12, 2015
Let me begin this way...
I am a comfortable man with a comfortable job. I can carry my own weight. Before all that, I was just seen as a prospective pauper. To this end, I knew a few ladies I was attached to (sexually). The intention was to pick one that rocked my boat.It is note worthy to state that none of these ladies considered that I would get to where I am today now they claim that they cant live without me.

Girl 1. - She is a mummy's girl. Does everything her mum dictates. Mum says that I must be of the catholic denomination before she even gives it a thought. I eavesdropped on a conversation and overheard her mum advising her to end the relationship. She lives above her means and lies a lot. She told me to buy UK sanitary pads for her that she is allergic to Nigerian products. we fell out when I asked her if she has been using cocoyam and plantain leaves before we met.

Girl 2: Sister owned a company I worked in. We were lonely in the office one night and the rest is history. 2days before travelling out to the UK, I feigned my voice to be a strange caller... called her with my friend's phone. When I travelled out, my friend sent me a nude picture of her. Minutes after calling her. So she dropped her call to me and sent my friend a nude picture. Not been able to shake that off my head.

Girl 3: Know her for years, she is stingy. I think if we get married she will count the peices of meat my visitors will have. She has the ideology that her man must produce everything and spend while she hoards her finances for personal use. She is in-tempered and can poison someone with a smile. I feel uneasy when she gets angry. Again, she is very stubborn and territorial but very faithful.

Girl 4: I dont know how to put this that will sound right. She is my late ex - girlfriend's friend. She is very troubled due to her childhood experience with her uncle. At least that is what she told me. I have not been with her long enough to trust her but I feel she wants to get married for the sheer sake being under a man's roof. Beyond that, nothing else interests her in all our discussion.

Girl 5: Was introduced to me by a senator's daughter. She is humble. Met her a virgin. I just have the issue of our interactions. She has this nossy bff that dictates when and how we live out our relationship. If I try to communicate calmly about the fact that I am uncomfortable with the intrusive nature of her friend... she doesnt want to see reason.

Girl 6: She is young and naive. I know her mum and the marital history isn't a bright beacon. Survey reveals that she was queer at some point in her life. Call me homophobic but I could react badly if I discover that I married a lesbian.

Girl 7: She's a British citizen of RSA decent. she helps when she can I cant stand how she distrusts Nigerians. I have walked out of the door cos of her comment. She is very jealous and extremely territorial. Sneaks out of my bedroom to go through my phone in the living room.

I know having 7 ladies can be bad but guys (we all have options) and ladies (following your reasoning-you like to keep your options open).
Call it love or lust... the fact is I know these girls. Picking one is like choosing between the devil and the deep blue sea. Both kill. All I ask is for you to help me pick the lesser devil.
Re: Advice Of The Next Step Before I Jump. by Nobody: 9:55am On May 12, 2015
Quit ur games and settle down fella grin badt playboy
Re: Advice Of The Next Step Before I Jump. by jamex93(m): 9:57am On May 12, 2015
ha no fit shout


look for number 8 she might b wat u want
Re: Advice Of The Next Step Before I Jump. by ViralBOY: 9:58am On May 12, 2015
Wrote weac long time ago grin grin
Re: Advice Of The Next Step Before I Jump. by Nobody: 10:03am On May 12, 2015
All this wahala for a guy? I wish u all the best

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Re: Advice Of The Next Step Before I Jump. by naijaboiy: 10:42am On May 12, 2015
The simple reason why you are able to attract all those girls is because you are now made.

Bro,,don't jump anything. Settle down and search one last time. You may find the lady that finally ticks your fancy.

But if you must pick one i'd say I prefer a faithful wife than the rest.

You should also know that there is nobody without flaws. So pick one and try to see how you can overcome it.
Re: Advice Of The Next Step Before I Jump. by realdee44(f): 10:47am On May 12, 2015
bluebutton:
Let me begin this way...
I am a comfortable man with a comfortable job. I can carry my own weight. Before all that, I was just seen as a prospective pauper. To this end, I knew a few ladies I was attached to (sexually). The intention was to pick one that rocked my boat.It is note worthy to state that none of these ladies considered that I would get to where I am today now they claim that they cant live without me.

Girl 1. - She is a mummy's girl. Does everything her mum dictates. Mum says that I must be of the catholic denomination before she even gives it a thought. I eavesdropped on a conversation and overheard her mum advising her to end the relationship. She lives above her means and lies a lot. She told me to buy UK sanitary pads for her that she is allergic to Nigerian products. we fell out when I asked her if she has been using cocoyam and plantain leaves before we met.

Girl 2: Sister owned a company I worked in. We were lonely in the office one night and the rest is history. 2days before travelling out to the UK, I feigned my voice to be a strange caller... called her with my friend's phone. When I travelled out, my friend sent me a nude picture of her. Minutes after calling her. So she dropped her call to me and sent my friend a nude picture. Not been able to shake that off my head.

Girl 3: Know her for years, she is stingy. I think if we get married she will count the peices of meat my visitors will have. She has the ideology that her man must produce everything and spend while she hoards her finances for personal use. She is in-tempered and can poison someone with a smile. I feel uneasy when she gets angry. Again, she is very stubborn and territorial but very faithful.

Girl 4: I dont know how to put this that will sound right. She is my late ex - girlfriend's friend. She is very troubled due to her childhood experience with her uncle. At least that is what she told me. I have not been with her long enough to trust her but I feel she wants to get married for the sheer sake being under a man's roof. Beyond that, nothing else interests her in all our discussion.

Girl 5: Was introduced to me by a senator's daughter. She is humble. Met her a virgin. I just have the issue of our interactions. She has this nossy bff that dictates when and how we live out our relationship. If I try to communicate calmly about the fact that I am uncomfortable with the intrusive nature of her friend... she doesnt want to see reason.

Girl 6: She is young and naive. I know her mum and the marital history isn't a bright beacon. Survey reveals that she was queer at some point in her life. Call me homophobic but I could react badly if I discover that I married a lesbian.

Girl 7: She's a British citizen of RSA decent. she helps when she can I cant stand how she distrusts Nigerians. I have walked out of the door cos of her comment. She is very jealous and extremely territorial. Sneaks out of my bedroom to go through my phone in the living room.

I know having 7 ladies can be bad but guys (we all have options) and ladies (following your reasoning-you like to keep your options open).
Call it love or lust... the fact is I know these girls. Picking one is like choosing between the devil and the deep blue sea. Both kill. All I ask is for you to help me pick the lesser devil.
did you call them devil? Devil are found in hell so for you to meet these devils like you called them it means you actually took a trip to hell.

They are not devils. Meanwhile, if you that have related with them & know them better don't not no which among them to pick then I don't think anyone here can help you pick. My advice is pick the one that makes you happy which you no you can spent the rest of your life with.
Re: Advice Of The Next Step Before I Jump. by bluebutton: 6:28am On May 13, 2015
naijaboiy:
The simple reason why you are able to attract all those girls is because you are now made.
Bro,,don't jump anything. Settle down and search one last time. You may find the lady that finally ticks your fancy.
But if you must pick one i'd say I prefer a faithful wife than the rest.
You should also know that there is nobody without flaws. So pick one and try to see how you can overcome it.

Exactly my fear. I'm scheduled to come home this September to make a pick. I just might dismiss all of them. It might get ugly but hey... better a failed relationship than a broken marriage.
Thanks... oh btw... VIP Inv. Passes to All Nairalanders When I finally meet the one.

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