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If you have found yourself jumping from one relationship to another (not because you are a flirt) as a result of being confused about who the right partner for you might be for life, then you just would agree that it can sometimes be a very daunting task.

You even begin to wonder why your case is different and why your friends and relatives find it so easy to settle down. Hold on, just before you begin to compare your life’s note with others! You need not brood over this, as you probably haven’t taken enough time to see what might be in a relationship for you.

If you find yourself grappling with how to identify the right partner for you, then respite is here as the following tips would suffice.
Now, here goes….

1. Do You Have Same Values
This is one fundamental winning tip you must hold dearly if you want to end up with the right person for life. You have got to first identify if you share same ideologies and values. For instance; if your partner doesn’t see anything wrong about nudity in public, and you see a whole lot wrong with it, then please take a walk because you two do not sync.

2. Are You Compatible
This has to do with your core traits, life goals, dreams and what have you. If the person you are with presently wants to be a politician in the nearest future, and you are looking to own a big church or mosque, and even take the responsibility of manning it full time with your spouse being there with you, then you have a challenge. Your life partner has got to fit into the future picture you have.

3. Short Term and Long Term Goals
Does your short term and long term goals rhyme? This is very imperative, because without a synergy here you risk running into a relationship pit fall soon.

4. Is There Chemistry
If you are sucking up to the person you presently are with, because you stand to gain something material in future, other than attraction, then you just might be heading for the rocks. Ever asked yourself; ‘what if all the plans got thwarted, what happens? Attraction is a key factor in knowing the right person, but you must have other factors backing it, like the points I made earlier. This means attraction cannot be isolated from other factors stated here.

5. Does Your Gut Feeling Say So?
Your gut feelings have to do with your instincts, intuitive spirit, et al. If your partner meets the above requirements and your intuition also says so, then it could mean the person is the one. If it so does happen, then you must critically look at things so as to stay in tune with each other.

There you have it guys. 5 solid winning tips on how to identify your partner for life. If at the end of the day your partner meets this entire requirement, then you may as well begin to plan to walk down the aisle.

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Thr is love at first sight

donbenedict:
Thr is love at first sight

Sure, and there's break up at 1st challenge

i agree with 2 & 5

Some people do chase the right Ones away. And end up generalising That all Guys are the Same.

jaysworld:
4. Is There Chemistry
If you are sucking up to the person you presently are with, because you stand to gain something material in future, other than attraction, then you just might be heading for the rocks. Ever asked yourself; ‘what if all the plans got thwarted, what happens? Attraction is a key factor in knowing the right person, but you must have other factors backing it, like the points I made earlier. This means attraction cannot be isolated from other factors stated here.

Wats chemistry got to do wit wat u jus said under it? I'm sorry I dnt understand

CountDracula:
Sure, and there's break up at 1st challenge

and thr is a make up sex after it

donbenedict:
and thr is a make up sex after it

And there's unwanted pregnancy two weeks later

CountDracula:
And there's unwanted pregnancy two weeks later

and that is the end of the story.

donbenedict:
and that is the end of the story.

Awww! And I was startin to hav fun

CountDracula:
Awww! And I was startin to hav fun

lol they can't live happily ever after.. Would they?

donbenedict:
lol they can't live happily ever after.. Would they?

Only in movies! In real life things never end happily ever after

I thank God for my babe o

CountDracula:
And there's unwanted pregnancy two weeks later

and there is abortion,

Okk..

Tobiee:
and there is abortion,

Loool! And she dies in d process of aborting

CountDracula:
Loool! And she dies in d process of aborting

oya lets start again

CountDracula:
Sure, and there's break up at 1st challenge

there is make up.. After break up

Tobiee:
there is make up.. After break up

And the girl cheats and d guy kills her

Tobiee:
oya lets start again

Loool... In all situations It wil never work out

CountDracula:
And the girl cheats and d guy kills her

and he spends his whole life in prison.

CountDracula:
Loool... In all situations It wil never work out

it will

Tobiee:
and he spends his whole life in prison.

End of story

Ain't no such as 'right person'. U can always make anybody the right choice

When girls hit 27, their standards drop real quick.