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I was going through one of the popular blogs when a male colleague of mine who is also a friend bent over my left shoulder from behind to catch a full glimpse of my computer screen. I was reading an open letter a husband wrote to his wife and I was taken by its sentimental nature. The author of the letter shared details of how great his life has been since marrying his wife. My friend joined me in reading and got really irritated in the course of reading it that he hissed loudly and spat out that the man is such a sissy for loving his wife so much. - See more at: http://www.covenantrelationships.org/#sthash.554YhzoJ.dpuf

Has it suddenly become a crime for a man to bare his feelings for his wife to the world?

Wu can gve dis op a bread and orijin 4 brkfast

He can but he shouldn't show her or she will see him being feminine.

The op won cajole me to open the link abi

His statement caught metotally off guard. I wasn’t prepared for his lack of understanding of thedepth of love that should exist between a man and his wife.Is it possible that a husband loves his wife too much?I guess the society is more welcoming of a woman going on and on about her husband but even that is frowned at. We are in a society that has taught us to mask our feelings for fear of being called weak. One is expected to settle at that regular nonexciting place after the first years of marriage excitement fizzles out. The man’sfriends probably look forward to him always making time for drinks and probably share in their gist of a new chase while the woman is expected to share her lows about the imperfection of men. This doesn’t necessarily have to be the case. There is such thing as being and staying in love with one person.Marriage is based primarily on love and love is one ingredient that is never too much.I remember sitting in on a wedding sermonwhen the part of the bible that says a man should love his wife even as Christ loved the church that He gave himself for the church, was read out. The pastor tried to explain just how deep that love runs but he couldn't quite exhaust it. I believe the depthof such love is simply inexhaustible.Our expression of love differs. Some of us are very loud and showy about it while others prefer to keep it private. However way, that special person in one’s life deserves to know just how deeply one cares and love is never too much between a man and his wife. Love shouldn’t be weighed on a societal scale.Love as your heart leads you. Say it as much as you show it. There is freedom and happiness inexpression of love.If a man doesn’t love his wife deeply and unapologetically , who will?

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@op are u sure u are not a yabaleft escape?

read first na..

Luedave:
Wu can gve dis op a bread and orijin 4 brkfast

Haba... so showing love is feminine.... How will the woman know if he never tells?

xpac01:
He can but he shouldn't show her or she will see him being feminine.

try open am jare.. u fit learn na

temitemi1:
The op won cajole me to open the link abi

fissie:
I was going through one of the popular blogs when a male colleague of mine who is also a friend bent over my left shoulder from behind to catch a full glimpse of my computer screen. I was reading an open letter a husband wrote to his wife and I was taken by its sentimental nature. The author of the letter shared details of how great his life has been since marrying his wife. My friend joined me in reading and got really irritated in the course of reading it that he hissed loudly and spat out that the man is such a sissy for loving his wife so much. - See more at: http://www.covenantrelationships.org/#sthash.554YhzoJ.dpuf

Has it suddenly become a crime for a man to bare his feelings for his wife to the world?

Its not a crime... But showing her how much you do is. Ur friend got irritated becos the man was really being a sissy... Strong mend who really love their wives leave their wives in the dark about it.. But when anything threatens the happiness or life of his wife he deals with it with such ferocity that his wife is shocked at how far he is willing to go for her...when u start making a woman know you would pull the sun for her,they involuntrily start acting up... But when you treat her with absolute respect yet make her feel there are extents you won't go she feels like the wife.

Who made these rules? Even the greatest men have been known to love unapologetically. Not letting a woman know how deeply you care might make her become really insecure and probably create bigger issues. Pretence never helps anything. Being vulnerable is what most men are scared and i think it is wrong to assume showing how much you care would make you feel taken for granted.

publicenemy:
Its not a crime... But showing her how much you do is. Ur friend got irritated becos the man was really being a sissy... Strong mend who really love their wives leave their wives in the dark about it.. But when anything threatens the happiness or life of his wife he deals with it with such ferocity that his wife is shocked at how far he is willing to go for her...when u start making a woman know you would pull the sun for her,they involuntrily start acting up... But when you treat her with absolute respect yet make her feel there are extents you won't go she feels like the wife.

fissie:
Who made these rules? Even the greatest men have been known to love unapologetically. Not letting a woman know how deeply you care might make her become really insecure and probably create bigger issues. Pretence never helps anything. Being vulnerable is what most men are scared and i think it is wrong to assume showing how much you care would make you feel taken for granted.

You will not understand... You are a lady.