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falconey:
. Death I hate it!!!

jacksparrow1207:
Denomination and tribe! Gosh! I wished I could erase those two outta this planet. Like wtf!

tosyne2much:
Wooooooow !!!
What an brilliant write-up

starlingslimnet:
Wisdom I say it's a priceless gem; a Good thing to posses.Though it be a Good thing to posses yet it seems seemingly useless without an insightful mind to make use of it. By insightful mind I intend to say "An observing mind". Observation then,is,an important way of making use of wisdom.

As a young Scientist I spend my weekend on taking note of things mankind have battle with and most of all lose the battle to.I would have set my heart to understand issue pertaining to humanity in general but being a Youth I thought it well good to limit my understanding to issues relating to Youths.

Nothing in life can be heartbroken to a Youth than seeing the very one he loves taken away from him.Seeing the very one he sees as his own image been withheld from him.To him its devastating and his own point of view life is cruel.But i ask is life really cruel? Or are we the one cruel?

Without much foreword I will just proceed now to list things I have seen separating or tend to separate You from the one you Love.Things Youth have tried to Fight against in which few has succeeded in winning the battle.

DISCLAMER: These are personal observations and they are Open to discussions and as well as debate.

1. TRIBE: Limiting myself to Nigeria I use the word "Tribe" enlarging my scope I will prefer the word "Race".Tribe or race has scattered and shattered many long time relationships when it comes to Marriage. Time will not permit me in going into the details of how and how it has,can and may still destroy Relationships.Nevertheless I shall sight an example: As a Yoruba Man I don't think your parent will take it well if you bring a Ijebu girl Home as your wife to be..To them it means you are digging your grave while to you she means all there is to have .Yet experience has revealed that after considering many factors such a Marriage is cancelled. This I say is one of the things I see stealing our Love ones from us.

2. DENOMINATION: Funny but true some christains have been brainwashed to the extent where there is nothing to brainwashed again. It's an obvious fact a Catholic mother will not allow her daughter to marry an Adventist man neither will a Celestial man allow his Son to marry a Deeper life since both operate with an equal but opposite Faith. Only those who have lost a lover to this can explain to you how painful it is.

3. POVERTY: There is this babe you Love with all your heart..You spend your time thinking not about her but how on earth you could live Love with her and doing that calls for money.Yes! you have heard people say everything is not about money nevertheless many have lost someone they Love to someone richer.

4. LOVE: You must have heard something like "I Love You but am not in Love with You".Painful,isn't it? To see others you Love not Loving You back.Though Love is a great thing yet it separates you from the one you Love.

5. DEATH: A Constant factor that separate thousands in a day..Yes!! They have been planning on their wedding but she just called to say Good morning to her dearest only to hear "The user you are Trying to call is currently switched off". And that is it, parted never to see each other again.

Which of the above have you in anyway suffer from or tend to suffer from? As for me have suffered from none but may suffer from 1 & 2.

And if any case you have yours just share with us.

Thanks.

Starlingslimnet.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
This is the no 1

ronald4lif:
Interesting.

Poverty I think should top the chart. In this era of money money babes lol.

Sure religion and tribe is cancerous to the survival of many relationship that could have led to something serious.

Then we also have academic qualification and the genotype and the distance factor.

It was a good read.

starlingslimnet:
That Genotype I must confess it's a huge threat.

starlingslimnet:
Those two tire me ooo...

IamLEGEND1:
awwwwwwwwwwww

how romantic

BlissB:
Bros whats romantic here....anyway those that have ears.......no.....i mean those that have eyes let them read and act accordingly

starlingslimnet: