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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by cococandy(f): 9:23pm On May 21, 2015
What is a man who sleeps with many women called?

Emaprince:
the dude was a player. But you know most of these girls will know that they are not the only ones seeing the guy, yet they will remain ther. What will you call these type of people? Aren't they stoopiid? But then, I found out that most women in this type of relationship are also seeing one or two other guys, so no need to even pity them. Sistercaro's cousin's wife was probably seeing her husband and the colleague even before they got married and she continued the relationship after marriage.

But the question is; a woman that sleeps with multiple men at the same time should be called what? An angel? Abegi. Call a spade a spade. I know it hurts women when they hear it but its the truth. If you can't accept being called a who.re, then don't behave like one!!

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by mizzochocinco: 9:29pm On May 21, 2015
Emaprince:
the dude was a player. But you know most of these girls will know that they are not the only ones seeing the guy, yet they will remain ther. What will you call these type of people? Aren't they stoopiid? But then, I found out that most women in this type of relationship are also seeing one or two other guys, so no need to even pity them. Sistercaro's cousin's wife was probably seeing her husband and the colleague even before they got married and she continued the relationship after marriage.

But the question is; a woman that sleeps with multiple men at the same time should be called what? An angel? Abegi. Call a spade a spade. I know it hurts women when they hear it but its the truth. If you can't accept being called a who.re, then don't behave like one!!
you know so much about who.res maybe you were given birth to by one. One can only know so much from his surroundings.

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Emaprince: 9:34pm On May 21, 2015
cococandy:
What is a man who sleeps with many women called?

like you've not been seeing women calling them names here..


mizzochocinco:
you know so much about who.res .
any one that sees you have seen a who.re. You've displayed it here.

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by mizzochocinco: 9:44pm On May 21, 2015
Emaprince:
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whoever has seen you has seen the son of a who.re who had a dog for a husband that mistreated her. Since its all you know, its probably all you grew up seeing in your life.

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:46pm On May 21, 2015
Moana:
bemidele is right. A wife like that would be just right for someone like you.

I'm flattered that you're looking out for my interests. Really, I am. However, I'm not as foolish as the men you roll with, no offence. No wife of mine would be so silly, and even if she were possessed by demon of the heat of the moment, she would be long gone before the birth of the abomination. Her transgressions would be laid bare before she's discharged from the hospital. I know this is difficult for your ilk to conceive but, there are some of us who truly couldn't care any less.

Sorry, but I'm not your type. kiss

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Moana(f): 9:49pm On May 21, 2015
Timbuktou:

Sorry, but I'm not your type. kiss
and im truly greatful for this because i would rather be stabbed with a blunt bread knife than be put in the same class as you smiley

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Emaprince: 9:57pm On May 21, 2015
mizzochocinco:
whoever has seen you has seen the son of a who.re who had a dog for a husband that mistreated her. Since its all you know, its probably all you grew up seeing in your life.
stop repeating my line, foolish woman. You shamelessly came here to regale us with stories of how promiscuity runs in your familly..to the extent that a woman married into it will be initiated. You and your ill-trained sisters seems to be in control. No wonder your uncle's wife reported to her as soon as she slept around and got pregnant..now it is the duty of you fools to keep it secret from your own uncle. My condolences for the hopeless men that will marry in that familly. Like mother like daughters!

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by mizzochocinco: 10:02pm On May 21, 2015
Emaprince:
Like mother like daughters!
amen! grin i would want my parents marriage anyday any time tongue

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 10:03pm On May 21, 2015
Moana:
and im truly greatful for this because i would rather be stabbed with a blunt bread knife than be put in the same class as you smiley

It's ok, I like the view from up here. wink

And, oh, it's grateful. I guess you were busy staring at trouser bulges in GNS classes eh? Smh at some class

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Moana(f): 10:07pm On May 21, 2015
Timbuktou:


It's ok, I like the view from up here. wink

And, oh, it's grateful. I guess you were busy staring at trouser bulges in GNS classes eh? Smh at some class
undecided what is this one saying?

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Emaprince: 10:13pm On May 21, 2015
mizzochocinco:
amen! grin i would want my parents marriage anyday any time tongue
the type that breeds who.res? And where adultery is welcomed, bastards are born etc etc. Carry go.

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 10:19pm On May 21, 2015
Moana:
undecided what is this one saying?

How could you possibly know? When I say you're not my type, it really isn't an insult. Bye Moaner, given you enough attention as it is. kiss

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 10:20pm On May 21, 2015
She couldn't just break a favourite cufflink or something?? I suppose when you're angry there's no telling how you'll react and I feel her pain sha but she's just further complicated things and for herself

Retaliate with sense now, ah
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Joy1706(f): 12:27am On May 22, 2015
bellong:


It may not be true and it may be true.

No matter how well she is enjoying now, her action is not excusable. This is not to say the husband was right.

If you think the path she took was honourable, then no point arguing further,
Well, I don't support what she did. But I equally understand being hurt to such an extent that u do what u never believed you were capable of doing. The man certainly deserved it. I would rather walk away cos I aim to please God otherwise eh.....
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by bellong: 12:33am On May 22, 2015
Joy1706:

Well, I don't support what she did. But I equally understand being hurt to such an extent that u do what u never believed you were capable of doing. The man certainly deserved it. I would rather walk away cos I aim to please God otherwise eh.....

When you introduced the dimension of being a Christian, I want to assume that she should have been guided by the Holy Spirit in her state of anger not to further complicate things.

However, she could have been a Christian for many years but not have grown past a "babe still sucking milk". I understand why she could descend that low.

The fact that she is blessed doesn't mean God supports her action. Earthly prosperity does not equal divine approval.
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by chibic(m): 6:20am On May 22, 2015
Joy1706:

Well, I don't support what she did. But I equally understand being hurt to such an extent that u do what u never believed you were capable of doing. The man certainly deserved it. I would rather walk away cos I aim to please God otherwise eh.....
if the husband was foolish for what he did, the woman is more foolish for what she did. She just made a bad name for her self.A genuine christain/born again does not do that. She maybe one of those that walk around claiming good christain/born again but deep inside, they are something else.
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Moana(f): 7:48am On May 22, 2015
Timbuktou:


How could you possibly know? When I say you're not my type, it really isn't an insult. Bye Moaner, given you enough attention as it is. kiss
you attenion was never needed undecided

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by mizzochocinco: 11:19am On May 22, 2015
Emaprince:
the type that breeds who.res? And where adultery is welcomed, bastards are born etc etc. Carry go.
my mum has been married to the same man for 32yrs with a dentist, auditor and architect born of the marriage. Im sure thats not something your parents can attest to tongue so yes i want just to be like my mother and thank God for my father i know a good man, so its easier to identify fraudsters like you who never had anything good in their lives cheesy
If you grew up seeing your mother being mistreated and living with it, its obvious that you would think its a normal way of life when you grow up.

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by pickabeau1: 11:26am On May 22, 2015
mizzochocinco:
my mum has been married to the same man for 32yrs with a dentist, auditor and architect born of the marriage. Im sure thats not something your parents can attest to tongue so yes i want just to be like my mother and thank God for my father i know a good man, so its easier to identify fraudsters like you who never had anything good in their lives cheesy
If you grew up seeing your mother being mistreated and living with it, its obvious that you would think its a normal way of life when you grow up.

A marriage of 32 years which is commendable however you have to know that you cant know everything which went down as they are your parents

if your dad had paid back everything done to him by his wife or vice versa, it will not have lasted this long

Since your mantra is do as I do

I am not referring to infidelity
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Joy1706(f): 11:35am On May 22, 2015
bellong:


When you introduced the dimension of being a Christian, I want to assume that she should have been guided by the Holy Spirit in her state of anger not to further complicate things.

However, she could have been a Christian for many years but not have grown past a "babe still sucking milk". I understand why she could descend that low.

The fact that she is blessed doesn't mean God supports her action. Earthly prosperity does not equal divine approval.
Yea I agree
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:37am On May 22, 2015
Moana:
you attenion was never needed undecided
Yet, here you are, quoting me like your life depends on it.
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Moana(f): 11:41am On May 22, 2015
Timbuktou:


Yet, here you are, quoting me like your life depends on it.
you are in desparate need of being wanted. Its very petty
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Kimoni: 11:46am On May 22, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
Sometimes! kiss
To make them feel a JOLT of WATTAGE! wink

But in MOST cases, Karma does the BETTER job! kiss

This should apply to every relationship
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Kimoni: 11:48am On May 22, 2015
SisterCaro:
These comments got me laughing. Reminds me of a cousin that i work with.
He used to like forming Mr Hardcore acting like he knew women inside out and no woman can fool him. All manner of things like that. Long story short he got his 2 women pregnant at the same time. The one the whole family knew had a miscarriage and the other girl no one knew of was introduced as his wife to be. Turns out wifey was double-dating him with another colleague but i never bothered telling him because i felt since he thought he was so smart he should have figured it out. Anyway now they are on kid number 2 and i still question the partenity of his first child.
Matter of the story is what goes around comes around. Be careful of how you treat others because you will surely face consequences for it.
God is not blind,
he sees your heart and when its dark and poisoned and he gives to you according to what you have.

Words on Marble
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by mizzochocinco: 11:50am On May 22, 2015
pickabeau1:


A marriage of 32 years which is commendable however you have to know that you cant know everything which went down as they are your parents

if your dad had paid back everything done to him by his wife or vice versa, it will not have lasted this long

Since your mantra is do as I do

I am not referring to infidelity

my father got the best of my mother because he did his best to be a good man to her. Moral of the story is one good deed deserves another.
Dont try and twist everything. No man who disrespects his wife deserves respect in return. Love is a game of give and take. Expect to receive what you give, its as simple as that.
Evil is repaid by evil and good is rewarded with good. None of all this rubbish you want to brainwash women with, i do you bad but still expect you to do good to me.

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by pickabeau1: 12:04pm On May 22, 2015
mizzochocinco:
my father got the best of my mother because he did his best to be a good man to her. Moral of the story is one good deed deserves another.
Dont try and twist everything. No man who disrespects his wife deserves respect in return. Love is a game of give and take. Expect to receive what you give, its as simple as that.
Evil is repaid by evil and good is rewarded with good. None of all this rubbish you want to brainwash women with, i do you bad but still expect you to do good to me.

At the bolded.. interesting..

You have not answered my question

Did either of your parents offend each other at some point in their long marriage and did the other parent pay back in the same coin


Simple
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by mizzochocinco: 12:11pm On May 22, 2015
pickabeau1:


At the bolded.. interesting..

You have not answered my question

Did either of your parents offend each other at some point in their long marriage and did the other parent pay back in the same coin


Simple
there was a time my mum fell ill and my father did not take the appropriate action, the day he got sick and she put other things before him he learnt that what you do unto others will surely come back to you. Anytime my mum falls sick he is the first to push her to go to the hospital and when he falls sick she is the first pray for him before manupilating him to go see a doctor.

So yes what you bring to the table will be what u get back in return. if you abuse or neglect a woman dont cry foul is she does the same to you. She is a human being who deserves respect as much as you feel you are entitled to it too.

If you think you can marry a woman, rob her of her happiness and peace of mind because she is a woman and get away with it, dont worry , hell fire will be waiting you. When its unleashed on you, never cry foul.

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by pickabeau1: 12:15pm On May 22, 2015
mizzochocinco:
there was a time my mum fell ill and my father did not take the appropriate action, the day he got sick and she put other things before him he learnt that what you do unto others will surely come back to you. Anytime my mum falls sick he is the first to push her to go to the hospital and when he falls sick she is the first pray for him before manupilating him to go see a doctor.


Well..i don't see this as a testy issue in a marriage
At times, you assume your partner would be fine with seeing a physician while she wants your presence
This is a communication issue .. not a big deal

However I see your point.. fair is foul.. foul is fair
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by mizzochocinco: 12:25pm On May 22, 2015
pickabeau1:


Well..i don't see this as a testy issue in a marriage
At times, you assume your partner would be fine with seeing a physician while she wants your presence
This is a communication issue .. not a big deal

However I see your point.. fair is foul.. foul is fair
please how is " give and it shall be given unto you" be the same as "fair is foul and foul is fair" undecided
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by pickabeau1: 12:29pm On May 22, 2015
mizzochocinco:
please how is " give and it shall be given unto you" be the same as "fair is foul and foul is fair" undecided



do whatever what works for you.. as long as you are ok with it
Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by Emaprince: 3:16pm On May 22, 2015
mizzochocinco:
my mum has been married to the same man for 32yrs with a dentist, auditor and architect born of the marriage. Im sure thats not something your parents can attest to tongue so yes i want just to be like my mother and thank God for my father i know a good man, so its easier to identify fraudsters like you who never had anything good in their lives cheesy
If you grew up seeing your mother being mistreated and living with it, its obvious that you would think its a normal way of life when you grow up.
your parent actually raised a fool and did I say who.res again? Ediot. They are married for 32yrs, who cares? You've been in a 32yr old marriage yet all you learnt is how to go about opening your legs for another man if your husband ever date another woman. Are you mentally ok? You will just turn youself to the cheapest woman any man can fukc for free if your hubby misbehaves? What will your kids learn from you? How to get pregnant for another man and put it on their husbands heads just like your uncle's wife? The women in your familly are time bombs. Keep living that worthless life until The secret all of you are keeping will be exposed. Even your mom will be ashamed of you and your sister.

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Re: Is It Fair To Get Even With Your Spouse? by aderonila18: 5:01pm On May 22, 2015
mizzochocinco:
my mum has been married to the same man for 32yrs with a dentist, auditor and architect born of the marriage. Im sure thats not something your parents can attest to tongue so yes i want just to be like my mother and thank God for my father i know a good man, so its easier to identify fraudsters like you who never had anything good in their lives cheesy
If you grew up seeing your mother being mistreated and living with it, its obvious that you would think its a normal way of life when you grow up.

Abeg stop replying him, respond to people who are ready to state their opinions in a mature way devoid of insults.

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