Teespice:


1. should what you said be applied to a man whose past is rather ugly. are they not also entitled to have a clean record as well.

2. which is why I said that if a man is not comfortable he should take a walk and look for that which is " perfect".

3. your opinion.

4. her staying to fix her marriage is not borne out of selfishness. if she were self centered, she would leave because her happiness is paramount.

5. nothing to say.

6. You can still be single and develop yourself. but unfortunately, marriage is seen as a very big deal in the society of today. marriage does not guarantee happiness. it comes form within and self satisfaction.
I can have it all and still be happy. besides I still have family in the form of parents, relatives and siblings.
capish.

1. Oh, absolutely.

2. Good

3. Indeed.

4. Where is her happiness if not in her home? Will she be happy when she leaves her husband and children? If she had better options, she would leave in a heartbeat.

5. Good

6. Then why bother getting married. Teespice, I dare you to not get married. Btw, happiness is relative. You will find out that happiness is, indeed, relative

We're done here.

@chivee, u haven't changed a bit from ur tone.
U need to see a psychologist cos it's not normal.

Ur background is bringing the worst outta u.

U don't need to be in any relationship now till u sort urself out.

Anger,hurt,revenge,depression are all deep seated emotions u don't handle lightly.
And u can't help urself without direction.

I believe that underneath lies a wonderful young man crying to be liberated.
Don't macho it.
Seek help as soon as possible.

Timbuktou:


1. Oh, absolutely.

2. Good

3. Indeed.

4. Where is her happiness if not in her home? Will she be happy when she leaves her husband and children? If she had better options, she would leave in a heartbeat.

5. Good

6. Then why bother getting married. Teespice, I dare you to not get married. Btw, happiness is relative. You will find out that happiness is, indeed, relative

We're done here.

Id.iot

if happiness is relative, why then should it matter if her happiness is not with her husband and her children

Dumbo

Timbuktou:


1. Oh, absolutely.

2. Good

3. Indeed.

4. Where is her happiness if not in her home? Will she be happy when she leaves her husband and children? If she had better options, she would leave in a heartbeat.

5. Good

6. Then why bother getting married. Teespice, I dare you to not get married. Btw, happiness is relative. You will find out that happiness is, indeed, relative

We're done here.

Your kind believe that marriage is an automatic ticket to happiness. So much for happiness.

I guess I am also done s well.

Timbuktou:

Only pansies accept a bvllshit past. Men with no self esteem. If she ain"t a virgin, she has no hope of marriage with me. Finito.

Actually a man with no self esteem will be looking for a virgin to marry. Happy searching. My advise, look for a mom to betrothe her newborn to you, so that you can marry her at 15, okay?

Justfollowit:


Id.iot

if happiness is relative, why then should it matter if her happiness is not with her husband and her children

Dumbo

I swear to God, if I tie my happiness to a man, then it means I have low self esteem.

Meaning that I need a man, ring and marriage to be happy and fulfilled.

There is nothing I won't hear on this nairaland.

Justfollowit:


Id.iot

if happiness is relative, why then should it matter if her happiness is not with her husband and her children

Dumbo

Good morning to you too. Apparently, you had a rough night. I'm not sure you can grasp the essence of my comment, but I'd like for you to try. You can't be an imbeciile all your life. Break the mould, my darling.

And shouldn't you be preparing to go bath in a mosque somewhere, it Juma'at today. Surely, Allah doesn't suffer idiiots gladly, watch your tone, He might refuse to answers prayers coming from a heart filled with hate.

Teespice:


I swear to God, if I tie my happiness to a man, then it means I have low self esteem.

Meaning that I need a man, ring and marriage to be happy and fulfilled.

There is nothing I won't hear on this nairaland.

I would rather be dead than rely on another being to be happy

Don't mind idiot. He is an obnoxious troll.

Timbuktou:


Good morning to you too. Apparently, you had a rough night. I'm not sure you can grasp the essence of my comment, but I'd like for you to try. You can't be an imbeciile all your life. Break the mould, my darling.

And shouldn't you be preparing to go bath in a mosque somewhere, it Juma'at today. Surely, Allah doesn't suffer idiiots gladly, watch your tone, He might refuse to answers prayers coming from a heart filled with hate.

Hmmmm

Not good enough

Please try again

4teelaw:


Actually a man with no self esteem will be looking for a virgin to marry. Happy searching. My advise, look for a mom to betrothe her newborn to you, so that you can marry her at 15, okay?

Nobody told you to go fvck the entire neighbourhood. Don't be bringing your slack puccy here, child! It is, in fact, a man with the healthiest self-esteem that would go for only a virgin. He'll be getting an unspoiled specimen, not you loose-puccied lot.

Let me be the first to book your first daughter then. I promise not to fvck her till she's five years old, in the arze.

Teespice:


I swear to God, if I tie my happiness to a man, then it means I have low self esteem.

Meaning that I need a man, ring and marriage to be happy and fulfilled.

There is nothing I won't hear on this nairaland.

God must have the lowest self-esteem, then. Was he not sad that humans became degenerate and left the path he laid for them? Did he not wipe them out and try to restart the race? Did he not send himself to die to redeem them? All for his happiness?

I have dared you to forego marriage if you truly feel that you won't let it's success or not affect your happiness. Go after your goals and all but leave marriage out of it

I see you coyly mention 'a man' but no kids. Pray tell, wouldd you be fine having kids no father-figure? If so, you're a bloody hypocrite. You will attach your happiness to your kids but not their father? Teespice, your line of arguement is offensive. But I forgive you.

Teespice:


Meaning that I need a man, ring and marriage to be happy and fulfilled. .

So, please educate me. What would rather make you happy and fulfilled?

Timbuktou:


God must have the lowest self-esteem, then. Was he not sad that humans became degenerate and left the path he laid for them? Did he not wipe them out and try to restart the race? Did he not send himself to die to redeem them? All for his happiness?

I have dared you to forego marriage if you truly feel that you won't let it's success or not affect your happiness. Go after your goals and all but leave marriage out of it

I see you coyly mention 'a man' but no kids. Pray tell, wouldd you be fine having kids no father-figure? If so, you're a bloody hypocrite. You will attach your happiness to your kids but not their father? Teespice, your line of arguement is offensive. But I forgive you.

I thought you said you were done. Why come back.

I am no hypocrite. So what should I hinge my happiness on if not my proposed career and what not.

My line of argument aint offensive. But then I don't need your forgiveness cos I haven't seen what I said that is offensive.

With marriage comes kids which would be raised by both parents. I don't have to mention it before it is made obvious.

Na wa oooo.

Teespice:


I thought you said you were done. Why come back.

I am no hypocrite. So what should I hinge my happiness on if not my proposed career and what not.

I'm back because you called me. Isn't that obvious?

You lack self-esteem for basing your happiness on your. [b]proposed[/b]career. You don't even have a career yet. So, no happiness till then? Smh

Timbuktou:


I'm back because you called me. Isn't that obvious?

You lack self-esteem for basing your happiness on your. [b]proposed[/b]career. You don't even have a career yet. So, no happiness till then? Smh

Id.iot

Isn't happiness relative?

Timbuktou:


I'm back because you called me. Isn't that obvious?

You lack self-esteem for basing your happiness on your. [b]proposed[/b]career. You don't even have a career yet. So, no happiness till then? Smh

I lack self esteem.

I need a man to be happy. That's what you want to hear abi.

Oya go n rest.

Justfollowit:


Id.iot

Isn't happiness relative?

But imbeciile, I'm only using her logic against her. In my opinion, anybody can find happiness in whatever they please, you and you sister, though, find it demeaning to find happiness in a spouse/marriage.

You're an airhead. Come spend the weekend with me. Let me impart wisdom into you.

Teespice:


I lack self esteem.

I need a man to be happy. That's what you want to hear abi.

Oya go n rest.

Abeg, get lost. I just used you logic against you. Simple. Feel free to seek happiness wherever you please, but you do not determine which route is the purveyor of a healthy self-esteem, Teespice.

Timbuktou:


Abeg, get lost. I just used you logic against you. Simple. Feel free to seek happiness wherever you please, but you do not determine which route is the purveyor of a healthy self-esteem, Teespice.

What logic did you use against me?

Absolutely no need going back n forth with you.

I have made my points very clear. So have you.

Get off my case.

Timbuktou:


But imbeciile, I'm only using her logic against her. In my opinion, anybody can find happiness in whatever they please, you and you sister, though, find it demeaning to find happiness in a spouse/marriage.

You're an airhead. Come spend the weekend with me. Let me impart wisdom into you.

Stupi.d!

Anybody can find happiness anywhere however you believe that it is expected for a woman to find happiness in her home. I disagree, she can decide to find happiness anywhere and if she finds it in another thing other than her home. It is no big deal

Nah thanks.

I would rather someone else put a bullet through you on my behalf.

Teespice:



Get off my case.

Yet you mention me....again.

babyosisi:


I said nothing about agreeing to marry her,read me again

For that one woman there are perhaps hundreds with the same past and no tapes

For me today knowing my husband as well as I do,if he came out today and told me he killed somebody in high school ,I won't even leave him let alone turn him in
It will not change my opinion about the man I love today
he must not have loved her enough
He was just looking for a reason to leave and found one

YOUR ADVISE THEN, OUGHT TO BE don't spill too early!! Let the relationship progress & study your partner to know if he is serious or not & find out the best way to tell him

You said above "knowing your husband as well as you do" his past won't shake you now cos you KNOW HIM. To know they say is to love!!

If you had found out that he killed somebody before within 1month of your dating him, you would have fled with every inch of your life!!

there have been cases where one partner revealed they had HIV, they still forged ahead with the relationship

If I truly love you & I hear about ur past, I will go back to the table & lay out all the facts & weigh them if I can handle that & check to see if you have truly turned a new leaf & also the chances of a reoccurrence too. Based on all of this I will make an informed decision

what's with this how many abortions has he procured ? Some girls have so lived a slutty life that they think all men are the same, so if a man has lived a normal life, he is wrong to want to know your past!! Did he live a good life just to settle for a slut?

Justfollowit:


Stupi.d!

Anybody can find happiness anywhere however you believe that it is expected for a woman to find happiness in her home. I disagree, she can decide to find happiness anywhere and if she finds it in another thing other than her home. It is no big deal

Nah thanks.

I would rather someone else put a bullet through you on my behalf.

It would be foolish to have a home and not expect happiness in/from it. Why invest in a family in the first pace? You disagree that you agree with my point? Buhahhahhaa. You're a thick-headed one, aren't you? Of course, you can find happiness anywhere, ediot. However, it is interesting that people don't intend to have happy homes, but hey, what do I know?

Reconsider.

Allah, won't be pleased with your murderous thoughts. Be careful, hell awaits.

kilode100:


True.....
They resent the woman, can't touch her nor have real feelings for her anymore and yes this is a personal experience.

Come, na u dey ur dp? Why do u have to allow ursef look that way na.

4teelaw:


Actually a man with no self esteem will be looking for a virgin to marry. Happy searching. My advise, look for a mom to betrothe her newborn to you, so that you can marry her at 15, okay?

Maybe you are joking or you want to get back at the other poster but this statement is patently untrue. Men should be encouraged to marry virgins or women with very low number count as possible. In fact I think that once N>4 for the woman you are heading into troubled waters.

More than half of the weddings you see conducted every saturday end in a quick and nasty divorce, all kinds of people enter into matrimony without being fit for it. In vetting for wife a man should exercise the highest diligence possible, he must have very high standards otherwise he is setting himself up for a world of hurt pain and disappointment. If he cannot do so he is best advised not to marry! The women who have a promiscuous history will continue to play the "pump & dump" role that they are used to even in marriage, why would any man make a wife out of such a woman? It is usually after playing the field that these type of women look to get married then they latch on to the so called good men that they can find. The poor sucker is told that love is all that matters, her history is of no importance meanwhile he is taking in a woman that many others have 'gone to town with' as his wife.

Men should marry virgins or women that are close as possible to one. There is nothing so extraordinary that should drive a man into marriage with a woman with a promiscuous past! This advice is necessary for the times we live in, if you can't find a woman who meets your very high standards then hold aloof from marriage. It is not a do or die affair.

ApexTitan:
N>4

You're a very, very generous human being, sir.

komek:


Come, na u dey ur dp? Why do u have to allow ursef look that way na.

Hater!!!

kilode100:

Hater!!!

No he is not! You actually look like a hefty abandoned iroko tree trunk.The truth hurts! But it is what it is.

dinachi:

No he is not! You actually look like a hefty abandoned iroko tree trunk.The truth hurts! But it is what it is.

Who broke your heart boy??

Justfollowit:

Ode
Don't try to flip this
You are too dumb for that

Now go shoot yourself

You find it so hard to make sense. Smh

Timbuktou:
You're a very, very generous human being, sir.

How would you have it then?